When we hold on to hate, anger, and resentment the pain never goes away. We live hoping that our predators will suffer, will pay for what they did. We hope that one day they will humiliate themselves and get on their knees and ask us to forgive them. We have high expectations and thoughts of a perfect world when in reality we too have cause pain to others. The fact is that we all have a story to tell, we all have someone who has hurt us and someone who we have hurt at one point or another.
What is ironic is that most of us have been taught that forgiveness is a good thing, but unfortunately doing the good thing doesn't come easy. Although forgiveness doesn't come easy, forgiveness is vital for our mental and physical well-being. Forgiveness allows us to live in the present and not get stuck in the past. While unforgiveness gives us a false power, forgiveness gives us real FREEDOM.
"I don't forgive others because I am weak, I forgive others because I am strong."
Like it or not, the person you hate and hurt you may not know or care how you feel. They are living a life, and might have not even realise you are hurting or hating.
The thing we need to understand is that forgiveness is a learning process that although it requires us to make a decision, the process takes time. It is also important that you give yourself permission to forgive and let go.
If you believe people can’t change then you will have a hard time changing. You must first consider the possibilities of living in peace so that the thought of forgiveness can be an option in your mind.
Make a decision to break the chain, don't compare yourself to anyone and don't judge anyone. We don't know anything about how people live, all we know if that we have been hurt and we have hurt others. Allow forgiveness into your life!
The world can be as good or as bad as you want it to be. If you choose to believe in a better world you will live in a better world. Believe in a better world and it will be yours.
Although hate is a feeling we like to own, forgiveness is a choice we can enjoy once we make the decision. The emotional part of forgiveness is being able to let go while you open your life to hope.
I learned that there are no bad people, there are only bad actions engaged by imperfect people.
Thank you for your time, good luck in your journey.
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Be Mindful: benefits, freedom
Be Responsible: to be a victim is a choice
Be Active: do things to help you forgive, pray, meditate
Be Thankful: focus on what you have, not what you lost
Be Happy: continue to love, enjoy the present moment
This MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER AND LIFE COACH IS A WOMAN WHO DID NOT ALLOW THE DIFFICULTIES OF THE PAST DESTROY HER PRESENT. SANDRA SAYS: "I GOT TIRED OF BEING A VICTIM, IT TOOK A LONG TIME BUT I LEARNED THAT WE ALL HAVE INNER GREATNESS."
Panamanian born, bold, passionate, spiritual and especially a dynamic force in the life of men and women across the world, Sandra is known as "La Motivadora" because of her ability to react to life in a positive manner in spite of her challenges, along with her ability to inspire others to dream. "I learned that God put me on this planet to live purposely and not to sit waiting for something to happen." After her divorce, she lived for several years as a single mother; then, she went on to earn a college degree as a visual engineer. Today, Sandra is an entrepreneur and life coach who is blissfully happy with her husband and two children in Texas. Her goal is to continue praising God, while helping others to achieve their dreams and reach their greatness. Although she can speak to any group of people on numerous personal development topics, she found her calling helping men and women understand their greatness.
SANDRA GRAVES ES UNA MUJER QUE NO PERMITIÓ A LAS DIFICULTADES DEL PASADO DESTRUIR SU PRESENTE. SANDRA DICE: "ME CANSÉ DE SER VÍCTIMA, ME TOMÓ TIEMPO APRENDER QUE TODOS TENEMOS GRANDEZA INTERIOR."
Panameña, directa, apasionada, espiritual y sobre todo con una fuerza dinámica que llega a hombres al igual que mujeres, se le conoce como “La Motivadora” debido a su capacidad de reacción positiva ante los desafíos de la vida y su habilidad de inspirar a otros a soñar. “Aprendí que Dios me puso en este planeta para vivir con propósito y no para calentar silla”. Después de su divorcio, vivió varios años como madre soltera; luego decididamente obtuvo un título universitario. Hoy es una empresaria, conferencista y coach de vida quien se encuentra dichosamente feliz junto a su esposo y sus dos hijos. Sandra Graves es una experta en desarrollo personal y liderazgo, conocida por su honestidad e ideas audaces. La meta de Graves es continuar alabando a Dios y ayudando a otros a realizar sus sueños y a alcanzar su grandeza. A pesar de poder hablarle a cualquier grupo de personas sobre numerosos temas de desarrollo personal, ella encontró que su vocación es ayudar a hombres y mujeres a entender su propia grandeza.