Benjamin Schwarz

Speaker, Author and great enthusiast of Personal Growth

I was that typical nice guy: Either unnoticed by girls or their best friend/their big sister ;)...just never their boyfriend.

Frustrated as I was, I've spent years studying Pick Up books trying to find techniques that would turn me into the next Casanova...although what I actually wanted deep inside was just somebody to love.

None of these techniques really worked out. They brought me a couple of (painful) relationships but with the wrong girls. 

The problem remained: I was still a small, winy and insecure boy deep inside (although I had grown up...and grown old).

With the help of experts I have worked on myself, my social skills and my personality. Suddenly women would turn their heads after me..without me even doing anything special :). 

Ultimately I have had the greatest success in my love life so far: I was ready for a woman different from all the others. She is beautiful, a great fit, kind and she laughs about my stupid jokes :). Even better, she tends to forget these jokes after a while so I can tell them over and over again :D.

Today, years later, I am helping men who are like me back then: Nice, smart and pretty much awesome but struggling with getting female attention or getting themselves a girlfriend. 

I am the Author of "How To Make Her Want You" and my message is simple:

It's not what you do, it's who you are that makes you an attractive man and brings you the women you want.

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