I have been married to an autistic man for over 33 years and I have a passion for supporting and coaching other partners and spouses of autistic people. I have a Diploma in Counselling and a BA in Teaching. I have authored the book "Resilient Loving - A practical compass for partners of people on the autism spectrum", which guides readers so that they can reconnect with their needs, strength, and the person they used to be. I describe some communication issues in couples like ours, as well as sharing some solutions. The book also offers a free editable downloadable resource for readers to reflect and note down their take-aways from the book.