Hacking Online Dating
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Hacking Online Dating

Find a great woman in 60 days using your brain instead of your gonads
4.2 (11 ratings)
Instead of using a simple lifetime average, Udemy calculates a course's star rating by considering a number of different factors such as the number of ratings, the age of ratings, and the likelihood of fraudulent ratings.
282 students enrolled
Created by Miguel Hernandez
Last updated 10/2013
Price: $20
30-Day Money-Back Guarantee
  • 5.5 hours on-demand video
  • Full lifetime access
  • Access on mobile and TV
  • Certificate of Completion
What Will I Learn?
  • Meet the love of your life
  • Become more confident dating
  • Learn how to maximize your chances of success online dating
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  • You should be a single man with not a lot of dating experience
  • You should be looking for a real long lasting relationship
  • You should be willing to step out of your comfort zone
  • This course is NOT for people looking for one night stands
  • You should be able to commit 2 months to finding your True Love

Have you tried online dating and were not happy with the results?
Are you single but don't have the time or patience to meet people the traditional way?

Take this super fun course and learn how you can maximize your chances of finding the best possible partner within just 60 days.

What will you learn?

In this course Miguel will teach you all the details of his unique and super effective approach to online dating so you can too finally find the perfect partner.

You will learn great techniques like:

  • How to create a killer dating profile (photos, description, and catch lines)
  • How to find and attract the best possible candidates online
  • How to interpret online profiles to weed out posers and weirdos
  • How to create a self promotional video to maximize responses
  • How to effectively manage all your dates
  • How to become more confident dating offline
  • How to get the most out of your dates
  • How to choose the best times and places to go on dates
  • How to eliminate your fear of rejection online and offline
  • How to avoid the most common mistakes when going a date
  • How to use your logical mind to avoid falling for the wrong guy or girl
  • How to know when it is OK to have sex with a date
  • How to apply the principles of seduction to attract The One
  • How to be sure you have found The One or to keep looking

Miguel will share many more fun anecdotes and tricks that will help you become super successful in your online dating adventure!

Who is this course for?

The course is mostly designed for single men between 25 and 35 years old (or older who haven't had a lot of dating experience):

– Who are looking for a serious relationship
– Who are willing to step out of their confort zone and go on many dates
– Who are goal oriented and enjoy methodical approaches to achieve success
– Who prefer using logic and reason to make decisions rather than emotions
– Who are willing to devote at least 2 months to finding a great woman.

Why should I listen to Miguel Hernandez?

Back in 2008 Miguel was single again. Like many busy professionals he did not have the time or patience to go out and meet girls the traditonal way so he tried dating online.
Miguel developed a system that allowed him to meet 20 wonderful women in only two months.
One of them eventually became his wife which you will get to meet at the end of this course (ohh.. happy ending).

Who is the target audience?
  • Single busy people
  • Curious about online dating
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Curriculum For This Course
49 Lectures
13 Lectures 40:17

You are about 60 days from meeting the love of your life.

But only if you listen carefuly to what I'm about to reveal in this course..

Preview 01:08

The main reason why you have trouble finding a great partner may be you!
Let's start the course by doing a mind shift and believing we do deserve to find a wonderful person to share our lives with.

Preview 01:47

Have you tried online dating before and been disappointed? Are you looking for a real relationship?
Do you want learn a fool proof strategy to find the best possible partner in the least amount of time possible?

Then this course is for you!

Are you looking to get laid? Have no patience or are not looking for a meaninful relationship?

Then this course is NOT for you.

Preview 04:57

Life is to short not to have fun. In this lecture Miguel encourages to not take yourself too seriously, have a positive outlook about dating and get ready to have loads of fun hacking online dating!

Preview 02:48

In this lecture you get to learn a bit about Miguel and his background in mechanical engineering, filmmaking, animation, and web development. Go figure!

Who is Miguel Hernandez?

Learn how Miguel started his animation company back in 2010.

About Grumo Media

Miguel walked the talk. Everything you'll learn in this course is based on a real life experiment Miguel conducted in 2008 and ended up with him finding his true love and marrying her a year later. Proof that this approach works!

My Online Dating Story

Miguel explains why he decided to create this course. He believes that the strategies in this course can help many people find true love online like he did. Are you ready to find The One too?

My Motivation

There is a secret for everything. In this lecture Miguel reveals what are the two factors that are essential to find success online dating.

The Secret to Success Online Dating

Miguel explains a completely new strategy to ensure success online dating which we will study in detail and learn to put in practice during the rest of the course.

The Funnel Of Love

Miguel explains why the Funnel Of Love (FOL) is a fool proof approach to finding your true love online.

Why this approach

Miguel explains why relaying on your network to find love can be limiting and how online dating has changed the way we can find new partners forever.

Your Network Diagram

Take a overall look at how the Funnel Of Love approach looks over the 60 days online dating experiment.

The 5 Stages of The Funnel Of Love shown over 60 Days
Stage 1: The Prep
12 Lectures 01:41:52

Miguel explains us how to prepare ourselves mentally to be ready to undergo such a unique experiment.

Preview 08:22

Our strategy begins with creating separate accounts on 3 different reputable dating sites. We will then figure out how to perform filtered searches and the fastest way to connect with potential candidates.

Dating Sites

Learn how to use OkCupid for hacking online dating.

Hacking OkCupid

Learn how to use PlentyOfFish for hacking online dating.

Hacking PlentyOfFish

Learn how to use LavaLife for hacking online dating.

Hacking LavaLife

Learn how to use Match.com for hacking online dating.

Hacking Match.com

DISCLAIMER - In some of the following chapters we will comment on real profiles. In the unlikely even you see yourself and want to be removed from the video, please let me know and I'll remove you asap.

It's time to create the perfect bait to attract the perfect candidate. We are going to start thinking of us as a product and our candidates as our customers.

Creating Your Profile and Disclaimer

Most online dating sites allow you to write a catch line on your profile. In this video we go over various samples of good and bad catch lines.

The Perfect Catch Line

Your profile description should be fun, short, and to the point. This is the opportunity for people to find out a bit about your personality and what you are looking for in a partner. Ideally keep it under 200 words because people have very little attention span these days!

Writing an Awesome Profile Description

The photos on your profile are the most important part! In this video we set some criteria of what to do and what not to do when selecting what pictures to upload. Also we go over several examples of real profiles where we identify what photos work which don't and what we can infer of the person's personality by looking at them.

The Hidden Language of Profile Photos

Miguel explains how producing a couple of simple videos to add to his online dating profile made a huge difference on the response he got from potential dates. Learn how videos can help you too!

The Magic of Profile Videos

A clear indication that people are not happy with themselves is when they don't portray who they really are online. Learn why it is very important to be honest when you fill in your profile and upload pictures of yourself.

About Honesty Online
Stage 2: Reach
3 Lectures 18:00

Over the next couple weeks we will generating as much interest as possible. For this experiment to work we need to leverage the power of numbers to our advantage.

Casting The Biggest Net Possible

Miguel shows you how to perform filtered searches and reaching to thousands of potential candidates in LavaLife.

Learn How to Reach using LavaLife

When I was doing door to door sales back in 1999 we learned that the average salesman would get 1 sale for every 10 people. Turns our the 1 in 10 rule applies to many things in life, including online dating!

The inexorable Rule of 1 In 10
Stage 3: Engage
3 Lectures 12:27

In this stage we are going to invest a bit more time nurturing our leads from the previous stage and use a strategic approach to get 20 dates in the real world!

How to Get 20 Dates

Miguel teaches you how to craft and effective email template to engage all the leads into going on a date with us in the real world.

How To Create An Effective Response Email Template

Miguel explains why it is very important that you don't waste too much time interacting online with potential candidates and instead focus on meeting them in the real world as soon as possible.

Say No To the Digital Person
Stage 4: Date
9 Lectures 01:19:42

This is the most exciting of all the stages. We finally get to meet potential candidates in the real world. In this section we will cover how to manage all our dates and how to maximize our chances of success.

Introduction to Dating

Miguel shows us how a calendar of the next 60 days will look like as the hacking online dating experiment unfolds.

Scheduling Dates

Unless you have the memory of an elephant you'll need some kind of system to manage all your dates. Miguel shows us how to use a spreadsheet to keep track of all the important intel. You'll get to see the exact spreadsheet Miguel used to track his 20 dates back in 2008.

How to manage multiple dates effectively

Make sure you don't make these mistakes when going on your dates or you may waste great opportunities.

The 10 Do Nots of Dating

These 8 tips will help you maximize your chances of success dating.

The 8 Dos of Dating

To be able to attract we need to understand what makes us attractive. Miguel explains what are the attributes we need to work on in order to become more attractive.

The 8 Attributes of Attractive People

First we work on making ourselves more attractive. Now we learn how to seduce in the field. These techniques have been successfully tested hundreds of times by the pickup artist community. Miguel explains how we can also apply them to our dating experiment.

How to Seduce

The techniques from The Game can be very effective but also dangerous in the wrong hands. Miguel emphasizes the importance of always being yourself, not playing games, and working on what makes us most attractive.

Don't Play Games

Miguel explains why it is crucial to keep dating until you get to your 20 dates even if you meet a great candidate before the experiment is over.

Don't fall in love too early
Stage 5: Select
3 Lectures 15:27

If you have followed the process of hacking online dating properly by now you should have at least two amazing candidates for the title of True Love. But how will you know which one to choose?

How will you know you found The One?

The truth is that it is very unlikely that you don't find at least one great candidate. Miguel explains 3 reasons why you may still having trouble finding The One.

What if you don't find your True Love?

Miguel explains why you should have sex with as many dates as possible but only if certain conditions are met.

Should you have sex during this adventure?
Lessons from Miguel's own dating experience
6 Lectures 58:38

Miguel shares a list of things he did right and wrong during his own experiment back in 2008.

What I did Right and Wrong

Miguel's own experience hacking online dating is full of anecdotes and quite a bit of drama. Listen to some of the facts and crazy stuff that made his experience so unique and unforgettable.

Trivia from Miguel's hacking online dating adventure

After the 60 days were over Miguel kept dating two girls for 6 months. This was the cause of much unnecessary drama. Miguel explains how was this experience and how eventually was able to choose his True Love.

How I chose The One

The whole purpose of this course is to help you find your True Love. Well, it is time for you to meet the winner of my experiment, my lovely wife Beth. In this video I interview Beth about what she thought when she met me and this whole experiment.

Meet the Winner! (now my wife)

What a journey! I hope you enjoyed this course but above all I really hope 60 days from today you also find your true love! (and if you do please let me know. Gracias!)

The End

If you enjoyed this course please take the time to give it a zillion stars an review it. Here I'll show you how easy is to do it.
Also I teach a few other courses on Udemy and at the end of this lecture I have a little gift for you if you want to explore some of my other attempts at teaching.
Peace, Love, and Cookies,
Yours truly,


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About the Instructor
Miguel Hernandez
4.6 Average rating
1,680 Reviews
23,384 Students
9 Courses
Top Udemy Instructor, Founder of Grumo Media

I'm a veteran top Udemy instructor with over 20,000 students and the CEO of Grumo Media, a video marketing and online education studio located in Vancouver, Canada.

I have true passion for online education and have spent the last 6 years creating multiple best selling courses and taught thousands of students across the world in both English and Spanish.

Check out my courses and I'll promise you not only you will learn new valuable skills but you'll have lots of fun in the process. At least that is what most of my students have expressed in over 800 positive reviews.

I have courses on animation, video marketing, online course creation, productivity, website development, lifestyle business creation and even online dating.

I also have 10 years of experience in multimedia production and have produced hundreds of  promotional videos for some of the top Silicon Valley startups including clients like Microsoft, Walmart, Fidelity Investments, Reckitt Benckiser, Hipmunk and even Ashton Kutcher.

I hope to see you inside one of my courses soon!

Peace, Love, and Cookies ;)