As a professional sexologist for more than 13 years I know the importance for couples to maintain a healthy relationship. Couples massage can be, and should be, a part of your relationship. With everyone’s busy lives, sometimes we forget the simple pleasures that can be experienced between lovers besides only love making.
This course is not only for husbands and wives - boyfriends and girlfriends, but also for anyone wanting to know more about how to give a woman a sensual massage.
My course, How to Give a Woman a Sensual Massage, (Couples Massage where the women is the benefactor) instructs with a basic understanding where a woman likes to be massaged, how and what additional components can be added to enhance the overall experience.
Using a live model, I will demonstrate how she should lay, and where the man (or woman) should position themselves. Areas of the body to massage are taught, and with specific examples I will show how to place hands and where to rub.
Along the way, I explain why certain things are done and will also help you avoid common mistakes.
In addition I will talk about and demonstrate how to apply a massage oil.
Meet Your Instructor
Elena Pellicano is a Ukrainian born sexologist and aroma therapist, in practice for more than a decade. What makes her teachings unique is the combination of the two disciplines.
Elena can show you how the use of essential oils, within the area of your relationships, create synergetic effects and thus results in more physical pleasure and mental stimulation.
Massage is a perfect example to demonstrate this fact and bring about awareness for higher levels of achieving intimacy. Greater intimacy is easily achievable for everyone no matter where they currently stand.
Pleasant smells, purposeful touch and natural essential oils will all combine to ignite chemical reactions in your body that results in greater mental and physical pleasures for lovers.
AROMA THERAPIST: 17 years
SEXOLOGIST: 11 years
BORN: Kharkov, Ukraine
LIVES: Albany, New York
Sensual Massage: Lower Legs & Butt
Before you start to give a massage you should first know the reason you are doing so, because not all massages are created equal.
Some massages are meant to relieve aches and pains. Others are to relax the body, mind and soul. And some massages are designed with lovers in mind. Elena's massage techniques ultimate purpose is to raise sexual desire and awareness for the recipient.
Therefore, it is imperative your lady is in the correct position and the person giving the massage starts in the correct areas on her body.
The back of her legs, along with her butt, should be massaged first. This video will demonstrate the proper methods and the reasons behind it.
In This Video Learn:
- The 4 most sensitive areas of a woman's lower body
- Hand position & method for hand rubbing
- How to stimulate her private intimate area without touching it
Sensual Massage: Her Back
In most cases massaging her back takes second position during a sensual massage. In the first lesson I stressed a woman's legs and butt should be the focus if the aim is to elevate her sexual pleasure.
However, if you or your lady wish a longer massage session before intimacy, then the her back is the next area to focus. Here you'll accomplish reducing any stress she might be feeling and you'll help bring her to a place of serenity, peace and calm.
Elena points out the two most important points on a woman's lower back and explains a few common mistakes to avoid.
Sensual Massage: She Lies on Her Back Facing You
This section talks about the pros and cons massaging a woman who lies on her back. In addition, if you chose this position, Elena demonstrates several massage techniques for her legs.
The biggest factor which should determine this position depends on the type of relationship you're currently in and the general level of comfort between lovers.
Kissing as a massage technique is discussed and the powerful effects it can have.
In This Video Learn:
- Front leg massage techniques
- Simple foot massage techniques
- Kissing massage techniques
Sensual Massage: Her Feet
In the previous lesson Elena touched briefly on some simple dry massage techniques that can be used on her feet, but here she dives more deeply.
In this lesson you'll learn how to:
- Apply massage oil
- Hold the foot
- Finger placement
- Main massage finger
- Stretch the toes
- Trigger pleasurable feelings through a never system extending from foot to brain
Sensual Massage: Review
A mini recap of the most important lessons taught in the previous tutorials.
Use this video for quick reference or refresher course.
Sensual Massage: How to Apply Oil
All previous lessons focused on the mechanics of giving the massage. Elena wants all her student to become familiar and comfortable with their hands first, before adding any supplements, such as massage oil.
In this video she'll demonstrates how to apply natural essential oils, where on the body and how best rub in for the perfect, seductive massage.
She recommends oils not only just for lubrication purposes (since a man's dry hands can feel coarse on her skin), but for the essential oils natural ability to promote a relaxing mood and heightened sexual awareness after they've been absorbed by the skin and the molecules sent to the brain. Remember, the brain is our body's biggest sex organ.
In This Video Learn:
- How to apply oil from bottle
- Where to apply oil
- Amount of oil to apply
- How to best rub in (using techniques learned in early tutorials)
- Why essential oils will turn YOU and YOUR partner ON
Final Words from Elena
Then, In a short interview with Chicago Sex Talk Show host Karen Lee Poter, Elena gives some insight on how she began her practice and why she feels so strongly about the benefits of using essential oils to improve relationships.
Over many years she's seen first hand how essential oils successfully added to the overall enjoyment and success of hundreds of her client's sex lives. And so Elena developed her own line of Love Massage Oils.
Finally some information about how essential oils effect the mind and body are discussed, along with some specific oils she has found help couples overcome fears and shyness.
Elena was born in Kharkov, Ukraine in 1982. At the age of 17 she became very interested in all things related to building harmonic relationships between men and women. This included the study of psychology, sexology, aromatherapy and essential oils.
Strangely enough, around this same time she was offered the opportunity to work as a model. After two years living this jet setting lifestyle it became apparent that modeling was not the place to develop authentic or lasting relationships. She made this conclusion not just for herself, but also after observing the numerous relationship failures among friends and business associates.
This lead Elena to quit modeling and for the next 3 years studied full-time to master her true passions. After graduation she started her own practice combining the disciplines of aromatherapy and sexology, turning that into a unique profession. This allowed Elena to experiment and come up with some ground-breaking therapy techniques, never tried before. The results were meet with overwhelming success!
Soon in Ukraine she was making a name for herself and many high profile clients, such as television personalities and those past modeling friends, started to seek her advice and programs. In the 17 years since, she has helped more than 300 men and women find, start, save, reignite or improve their romantic relationships and increase their sexual health.
In 2012 she met and married her American husband and moved to his home state New York. Shortly thereafter gave birth to their beautiful little girl. And now is building and expanding her practice here in the United States to reach and help as many new people as possible.
She welcomes your thoughts, comments or questions anytime.