Find Love Online: Dating Strategies for Online Dating
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Find Love Online: Dating Strategies for Online Dating

The step-by-step 'how to' guide to online dating that 1,000s of online daters use. Stop the online dating frustration.
3.2 (12 ratings)
Instead of using a simple lifetime average, Udemy calculates a course's star rating by considering a number of different factors such as the number of ratings, the age of ratings, and the likelihood of fraudulent ratings.
1,259 students enrolled
Created by Kimberly Koehler
Last updated 2/2015
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  • 2.5 hours on-demand video
  • 2 Articles
  • 2 Supplemental Resources
  • Full lifetime access
  • Access on mobile and TV
  • Certificate of Completion
What Will I Learn?
  • Samples of online dating profiles - both before and after
  • Online dating profile excersise - to help you write your profile
  • A fill in the blank online dating profile template that helps you craft your online dating profile
  • A simple profile check list
  • Samples of online profile pictures - both fails and brilliant
  • Photo taking tips to capture you at your very best
  • 6 examples of communications that you can use as templates to follow
  • A simple communications check list
  • 2 must use statements that will move you from online to offline
  • Comparison of and eHarmony
  • An overview of online dating sites and mobile apps to choose from
  • Safety tips
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Over a 1,000 students globally have taken this online dating course


Course Continuously Updated - Most recent update 2/13/2015


Let's get you out there on fun quality dates with the type of person you are looking for!

Start succeeding at online dating, without putting in additional time, spending more money and by decreasing your frustration.

It's time to stop the online dating roller-coaster!

This online dating course will lead you one strategic step at a time through the digital dating maze saving you from the pitfalls and frustrations many digital daters experience.

You Will Learn

  1. How to write an attention grabbing online dating profile
  2. The 10 Keys to choosing an online dating profile picture
  3. The 3 profile pictures every digital dater must have
  4. How to properly send and respond to an "I'm interested message"
  5. How to politely let someone know you are not interested
  6. How to use my secret phrase that keeps you off the hamster wheel of endless communications
  7. The 4 steps to move from online to offline and going out on dates
  8. The 5 safety tips every online dater should follow
  9. An overview of online dating site or app

The Goal of This Online Dating Course

The goal of this online dating course is to not only teach you how to succeed at digital dating but to also help you with understanding the process and managing your expectations so you can have fun along the way. When you apply what I teach, you will see an increase in the quality of the dates you are going on as well as starting to meet more and more people that you are attracted to and that are best suited for you.

You no longer have to go it alone!

At No Additional Cost You Gain Access to:

  1. Having me review your online dating profile
  2. Having me review your online dating profile pictures
  3. Asking me questions you have while applying the strategies taught in this course
  4. The discussion board where you can interact not only with me but other students who have taken this course

One final very important point

This course teaches you strategies that can be applied to all the various online/digital dating sites. Each dating sites has it's one interface and process and students may need to modify a strategy to adapt to any limitation a site may have. The great news is you don't have to do that alone. You can use the discussion forum with the course or message me privately anytime to ask for help.

So what are you waiting for? Click the 'take this course' button, top right, now!

Who is the target audience?
  • Everyone
  • Online Dating Beginners
  • Experienced Online Daters
  • Men
  • Women
  • Singles in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s and 60+
  • Singles who have never been married
  • Divorced Singles
  • Widows and Widowers
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Curriculum For This Course
42 Lectures
Online Dating Class Introduction
5 Lectures 12:24

Looking to learn a little about me and how I got here? Join me for a quick introduction.

Who am I and what experience do I have with online dating anyway?

A quick course overview so you know what to expect.

Course Overview

Date Smarter: A Solid Foundation Every Dater Should Start With
Online Dating Profile Strategies
8 Lectures 23:11
The Keys to Writing An Attention Grabbing Online Dating Profile

Join me as we take a look at Mary's profile. I will share with you Mary's original profile and then her revised profile after she took this course. We will discuss how a profile should be structured as well as suggested wording for your profile.

How to write and structure your online dating profile - Intro & Examples

A look at a male's profile. Mr. G's profile is an example how you can use the strategies you are learning and take the profile template and really create a profile that is to your personality.

Online Dating Profile Example for Men
1 page

How to Write and Structure Your Online Dating Profile - Recap

This lecture talks you through the profile exercise.

Online Dating Profile Exercise

Online Dating Profile Strategies Section Wrap Up

As a student of this course I am happy to offer to you a FREE profile review. I want you to be successful with your online dating and wish to be a resource for you.

Free Online Dating Profile Review Offer
Online Dating Profile Pictures Strategies
4 Lectures 38:05
Online Dating Profile Picture Tips - Part 1

In this lecture I am joined by two fun and often times humorous men that indulged my request to join me for an online dating profile picture evaluation and discussion. Hopefully you will be entertained while learning more about how real people think and react to online dating profile pictures.

Online Dating Profile Pictures Discussion - Pass or Fail
Online Dating Communication Strategies
4 Lectures 13:11

Who Should Initiate Communication on Online Dating Sites?

In this section you will learn how to send an "I'm interested in you" message. Attached you will find an example of an "I'm interested in you" message from David to SassyRunner. Use this section and the example to help you when you are writing your own messages.

The strategies for sending an "I'm interested in you" message

In this lecture we dive into how to respond to a message that someone has sent you. Attached you will find 3 pdf files that you can use as examples to help you out along the way.

The strategies for responding to an "I'm interested in you" message
Phone Dates: Strategies for Your Phone Dates
5 Lectures 08:34
Should You Have a Phone Date With Someone You Have Met Online

Dating Red Flags That a Phone Date Can Reveal

Tips for Your Phone Date

Phone Date Strategies: How to communicate once you have exchanged numbers

This is the last video to the communication section. Attached you will find helpful scripts with email examples showing you how to move from online to offline. The setting the stage phrase is the fist secret weapon you now have to use in your communications. The phrase to request moving to the is your second communication secret weapon. When you use the communication strategies I have shared with you, you should find yourself moving from online to offline and weeding out those you are not compatible with and increasing the quality of the dates you do go on.

Phone Date Conclusion
Onling Dating Sites & Apps
2 Lectures 08:16
Online Dating Sites & Apps - Part 1

An overview of online dating sites and mobile apps including a comparison of eHarmony and

Online Dating Sites and Mobile Apps - Part 2
Online Dating Safety Tips
5 Lectures 04:48
Online Dating Safety Tips: Scams

Online Dating Safery Tips: Best Practices - Part 1

Online Dating Safety Tips: Do some investigating

Online Safety Tips: Use a buddy system

Online Dating Safety Tips: Social Media
Online Dating Tips & Strategies - Misc.
3 Lectures 02:07
Dating Tip: Picking where to meet

Tips for Managing Your Online Dating Expectations

14 Tips to Dating Smarter
1 page
LIVE Online Dating Class Snippets
6 Lectures 35:08

A small and short snippet of a live class of my online dating boot camp (live version of CLICK)

Preview 01:19

A quick snippet of our profile dating conversation.

Profile Discussion Snippet

A member of our class asks if it is ok for a female to show interest and initiate communication first and I answer.

Live Class Q&A - Is it ok for a female to initiate a conversation?

Key strategies to writing an attention grabbing profile.

Profile Strategies

Questions from the class after they learned the profile strategies and took a look at Mary's and Mr. G's profiles.

Profile Live Q&A

Setting the stage for how you wish your communications to go is critical to conveying to the other person your intent in contacting them as well as letting them know the manner you desire to take to move things forward so you can move from online to offline.

Communication - Setting the Stage
About the Instructor
Kimberly Koehler
3.8 Average rating
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1,707 Students
2 Courses
Business & Life Strategist Speaker | Author | Coach

I’m Kimberly Koehler and for the past 18 years I have been training, coaching and mentoring small business owners and individuals who are looking to grow.

I have been inspiring, teaching and guiding my clients through the various roadblocks that are standing in their way of DOING or HAVING what they want.

I have a unique ability to connect and blend my life experience and extensive business skills with my deep knowledge and understand of human behavior. You will notice as you look through my courses I am bringing you a mix of business and personal development courses. That's because I am on a crusade to help others break fee of what is holding them back and to live the life it is they desire.

If you are looking to create momentum for your life, to grow and develop, and to live the best life possible than join me in my courses and together we will move you in the direction you are looking to grow.

I am recognized as a growth and development leader and have appeared on:

Fox, ABC, NBC, NPR, iVillage and several small and local newspapers and business and lifestyle magazines.

My Why

At 16 I set out on my own after years of being tossed back and forth between my parents and years of emotional and verbal abused by my mother and alcoholic stepmother. At a young age I overcame and broke free of many challenges that most people find shocking.

I started working at 14, managing staff at 15, managing the business at 17, and opened my first successful business at 19. And, yet even with those successes, at a young age I found myself feeling inadequate, unlovable, lonely, and trapped by many of the demons of my childhood. But, I broke free.

In my journey I have experienced great success, failure, love and heartache. I know challenges, I know fear, and self doubt. I also know how to break free, how to define your life and business for you, and how to build the life you dream of. Having been through all I have and knowing there are far to many out there with a similar story who are struggling, I am making it my life's work to not only help others break free but to also build the life they desire.

There is a great power in believing in yourself, facing your fears, breaking free, and having the right tools, training and guidance - this is what I bring my clients and students. I truly believe you can BE, DO, and HAVE both professionally and personally your heats desire.

I look forward to joining you on your journey and connecting with you in my courses.