3 Steps to Becoming a Confident and Engaging Speaker

The 1st Step to Becoming an All-Star Speaker on Stage!
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Published 3/2016 English

Course Description

This course is designed to help you overcome your fears, build confidence, and become an engaging speaker by using proven strategies, tools, and techniques that professional speakers use every day. You will learn the benefits of using your authentic voice and personality so you can connect with your audience and feel comfortable in your own skin when you speak with groups of any size and on any subject.

What are the requirements?

  • Have a grasp of the English language - Intermediate level and above
  • Have a desire to grow beyond where you are today
  • Be willing to do the work and take action on what you learn

What am I going to get from this course?

  • Feel less fear and more confidence about speaking in public
  • Know your fear triggers and how to disarm them
  • Calm your nervousness with less effort
  • Boost your confidence with strategies that are personalized to work for you
  • Connect with your audience with ease
  • Unify your tone, words, and body language for clarity and harmony in your delivery
  • Make your personality pop when you are aware of your Public Speaking Style

Who is the target audience?

  • Professional women
  • Entrepreneurs
  • Educators
  • Corporate Executives
  • Managers
  • Speakers
  • Aspiring Speakers
  • This course is for you if you want to...
  • Overcome nervousness and fear. Build your confidence. Engage your audience.
  • Gain the competitive edge
  • Take your busines or career to the next level

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30 day money back guarantee.

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Section 1: 1 - Introduction to the Course

You know that speaking in front of a group is not uncommon for professionals in any industry. And, if you haven’t had to talk to a group yet, it’s bound to happen at some point in your professional journey or in your personal life. You have definitely made the right decision to take this course because it’s always best to be ready to shine when the time comes. This course is the solution to building your skills and preparing you to grow from wherever you are to the next level.

In this course, we will cover three main topics:

1) Disarm Stage Fright

2) Gain Confidence

3) Connect with Your Audience

Here’s what you will take away from the course. You will:

  • Feel less fear and more confident
  • Know your fear triggers and how to disarm them
  • Calm your nervousness with less effort
  • Apply personalized strategies to boost your confidence
  • Connect with the audience with ease
  • Create clarity and harmony in your delivery
  • Be authentic when you know your communication style

I work as a professional speaker because I have a love for the stage. It is a place of influence, connection, and power for business men and women.

But, just because I’m comfortable speaking in public, it doesn’t mean I didn’t have to work at it, or that I never feared it. Over time, and with work, I learned tricks and strategies to overcome stage fright and nervousness. And I learned how to connect effectively with any audience.

That’s what I’ll be teaching you in this course.

Speaking is natural. Learning to speak naturally on stage can also become natural. This course will add the passion, presence, and pop to your talk.

This 3 step process will improve your Confidence, Connection, and Communication with any audience when you learn to:

  • Identify and disarm your fears
  • Use strategies to boost your confidence
  • Connect with your audience with confidence, enthusiasm, and ease

I’m happy to have you in the course.


Here is an outline of the course curriculum so you can see at at-a-glance exactly what is included in each section of the course. I've also included a downloadable PDF outline should you wish to print a copy.


Congrats! You’ve completed Section 1. Here’s a recap of what we covered in Section 1:

Introduction to the Course - You now have Downloadable PDF Course Curriculum Outline, and you know there are five sections and over 20 lectures that will be covered in the course. You know the background and experience of your instructor. And you know the teaching methods and what’s required to complete the course. And, if you can’t recall something, you can always click back to a previous lesson at any time.

Section 2: Step 1: Disarm Stage Fright

Are you ready to get rid of your fear of public speaking once and for all, so you can speak with confidence and ease?

  • Tired of those annoying butterflies in your stomach that make you feel sick?
  • Do you get nervous just thinking about speaking in front of a group?
  • Have you hurried to finish presentations just to get it done?
  • Do you shake, sweat, or forget what to say when you face an audience?
  • Is speaking in public required for your job, but you still struggle with stage fright?

Don’t let fear control you. YOU HAVE THE POWER to take control. Unleash your confidence and put a lid on stage fright. Make stress and anxiety a thing of the past when you learn proven fear reducing strategies that work.

You will be able to:

  • Understand why you fear public speaking, what your fear triggers are, and how to overcome the fear symptoms
  • Approach speaking differently, without dreading it the next time you talk in public
  • View fear differently and turn it into momentum to be more prepared and confident

In this lesson, Identify & Define the Problem, you will gain insight to help you think and identify WHAT are your fears and WHY do you feel you have them. This will help you begin to gain a better understanding of HOW to find the best solution.

Watch the PowerPoint presentation, answer the questions in the attached exercise, and then move on to the next lesson.


In this lecture, How to Unmask Your Fears, you will learn how to begin to turn things around and get back what belongs to you -- Confidence. The exercise will help you think further about why you have the fear.

It’s important to know that you are not alone when it comes to public speaking anxiety. Fear is a real factor that affects many areas of a person’s life. So, it’s important to face the fear and deal with it on all fronts.

Upon completing this lecture and the worksheets, you will know why you have any anxiety about speaking in front of a group of people, and you will also have a solution to use moving forward.

Watch the PowerPoint presentation, do the exercises in the workbook (5 Easy Steps to Beat Your Fears), and then move on to the next lecture.


In this lesson, Change How You Think About Fear, you will learn the role of fear, put it in the right perspective, and get a different outlook on how you approach public speaking in the future.

Upon completing this lesson, you will have a better perspective on fear anxiety and how to turn what once was fear into momentum. You will also have more insight to reduce nervousness and shine on stage when you have a different viewpoint.

Watch the PowerPoint presentation, review the attached resource material, and then move on to the next lecture.


In the previous lesson, you learned to change how you think about fear.

In this lecture, The Power of Decision Eases Fear, you will learn when and why I decided to overcome my fear of public speaking. And you will learn 5 Easy Strategies to Beat Your Fears.

Upon completing this final lesson in this section, you will have clarity about any fear you have of public speaking and how decision makes a positive difference. And you’ll be better prepared to move forward as you gain greater confidence in the next section.

Watch the PowerPoint presentation, complete the Fear Management Checklist, read the Power of Decision attachment, and then move to the conclusion lecture.


Congratulations! You’ve completed Section 2, Disarm Stage Fright, the 1st Step to Becoming a Confident & Engaging Speaker. Fear will no longer be a limiting factor because you have identified the problem(s), and can replace the problem with solutions that work. Remember, there is always a solution.

Put the power of decision and faith to work, and keep fear in its rightful place. Fear isn’t a signal to stop you. You can now see it as a warning sign to get you prepared to overcome obstacles that may try to block your way.

Now that you know how to disarm fear, you are free to take the next step toward becoming a more confident speaker. But first, read the conclusion article, and then move to Section 3: Step 2 – Gain Confidence.

Section 3: Step 2: Gain the Confidence

In the previous section, you learned the purpose of fear and strategies to keep it in its rightful place.

In this Section 3: Gain the Confidence Boosting Advantage

First, you must be able to visualize yourself as a confident, all-star speaker. What does that look like for you?

Learn strategies to boost your confidence, gain momentum, and provide an extra advantage every time you step in front of a group.

You will have a step-by-step process to maintain a sense of purpose and exhilaration for speaking in public. The lesson will help to override fear and anxiety should you experience it from time to time.

The lectures in this section will focus on:

  1. FAITH Over Fear
  2. The Confidence Formula
  3. Let Your Public Speaking Personality Pop!
  4. Conclusion to Section 3

I love to use assessments that enlighten and empower.

Be sure to download the Public Speaking Personality Quiz to learn about your persona.

Your takeaways from this section:

  1. Boost your confidence with personalized strategies
  2. Make your personality pop with your Public Speaking Style

In this lesson, Faith Over Fear, I will share my story about a fear phobia that I face, my decision for how to manage it, and how I unmasked the fear to help overcome it. The strategies you learned in the previous lesson are some of the same strategies I used for this particular phobia.

Watch the video, take a moment to reflect on how my story relates to your public speaking fears or another situation in your life. Read the article and then complete the reflection exercise to help transfer what you learned in the previous section to build confidence as you grow forward.

Upon completing the article and exercise, move on to the next lecture.


In this lesson, The Confidence Formula, you will learn six key ingredients that build confidence. The ingredients include 5P’s plus 1 Additional element. Add these simple ingredients together and you’ve got the formula for confidence (5Ps + 1A = Confidence)!

Watch the PowerPoint presentation, take a look at the downloadable PDF version of the formula, then move to the next lecture.


In this lecture, Let Your Public Speaking Personality Pop, you will learn the four speaking personality types (developed by me), the description and strengths of each, and which of the styles are the fit and benefit to help you authentically stand out on stage.

Watch the video, click the link to complete the quick online quiz, and then it's time to wrap things up in the next lecture. NOTE: The quiz is online. There is not a downloadable PDF.


Congrats! You’ve completed Section 3.

Here’s a recap of what we covered in this section: Gain Confidence. You now have the tools and strategies to own your confidence boosting advantage by putting your faith over fear, and keep the role of fear in perspective. And you have an idea of your public speaking style and why it’s important to let your authentic personality pop on stage.

Read the article and then move to the next section.

Section 4: Step 3: Connect with Your Audience
  • Do you have trouble connecting with the audience?
  • What is your biggest struggle in making that connection?
  • Do you know what it takes to become a great connector?
  • Do you know what your body language is communicating?
  • Do you know how to be unforgettable and make a lasting impression?

In this section, you will gain clarity on all of these questions. It’s time you know the answers and what to do about them. You will have information and downloadable material to help strengthen your ability to connect. You’ll learn when and if connecting is a challenge for you and what to do about it. Again, I say, “Everything you need starts with a question, which can result in a deeper understanding of the what, why, and how to improve. It’s important to know that you are not alone when it comes to connecting with people. According to John Maxwell, a renown leadership expert and author, who wrote a book on the topic of connection, “Everyone Communicates, Few Connect.” Here is what you will learn in this section:

  • How to Identify & Define the Problem
  • What Do Leading Experts Say About Connecting
  • Are You Boring Your Audience to Tears
  • The 3C's of Engagement
  • Your Body, Tone, and Words Said What?
  • Make a Lasting Impression
    Watch the video and move to the first lecture: Identify & Define the Problem

In this lecture, Identify & Define the Problem, you will learn 15 disconnection behaviors, signs of connection, and ways to prevent the problem so you can stay connected.

Upon completing this lecture and worksheet, you will know the specific problem areas that can prevent you from effectively connecting with your audience. And you will have methods to improve them.

Watch the PowerPoint, do the exercise, and then move on to the next lecture.


In this lecture, What do Leading Experts Say About Connecting, you will read three quotes from renown speakers to get a sense of their thoughts and position on public speaking.

Upon completing this short lesson, you will have a glimpse of how experts in the field of public speaking view the subject of effective communication.

Review the content, reflect, and then move to the next lecture.


In this lecture, Are You Boring Your Audience to Tears, you will learn 10 ways to not bore your audience and what is required to develop the habits of engagement.

Upon completing this lecture, you will know what causes an audience to be bored and what you can do to prevent it so you can effectively connect with any audience.

Watch the PowerPoint presentation, review the attached resource material, complete the exercise, and then move on to the next lecture.


In this lecture, the 3C’s of Engagement, you will learn how to be become a magnetic speaker using the principle of the 3C’s. You will learn to create access, share, and gain favor from the audience.

Upon completing this lecture, you will know how to keep the attention of your audience by making them feel connected and valued.

Watch the PowerPoint, do the exercise, and then move on to the next lecture.


In this lecture, Your Body, Tone, and Words Said What, you will learn what people see visually, what they hear vocally, and what they understand verbally regarding what you are communicating intentionally or unintentionally.

Upon completing this lecture, you will know how to unify your message in these three areas of communication to ensure you are intentional about the signals you send in your delivery. You will never have to be misunderstood again.

Watch the video and then move to the next lecture.


This is the final lecture in the 3-Steps to Becoming a Confident & Engaging Speaker.

In this lecture, Make a Lasting Impression, you will learn 7 ways to make a lasting impression as an expert communicator and professional. This combination is sure to get you noticed in your audience and recognized as a valuable asset to your company and industry.

Upon completing this lecture, you will possess the knowledge and skills that are required of a confident and engaging speaker who can win any audience.

Watch the video and then move to the conclusion lecture and then the course wrap-up.


Congratulations! You're at the end of the very last section of the 3 Steps to Becoming a Confident & Engaging Speaker. The next section is the wrap-up.

In this section, you learned what it takes to connect and engage your audience. You also received several worksheets and lots of content to ensure you have reference material to use anytime you wish to refer to them. Now you’re equipped to build impact and leave a lasting impression with any audience.

Just to remind you, the section included the following:

  1. Introduction to Section 4
  2. Identify & Define the Problem
  3. What do Leading Experts Say About Connecting
  4. Are Your Boring Your Audience to Tears?
  5. The 3C's of Engagement
  6. Your Body, Tone, and Words Said What?
  7. Make a Lasting Impression

Here’s a list of the resources and exercises for download:

  1. Identify Your Disconnection Areas
  2. 10 Ways Not to Bore Your Audience to Tears
  3. Develop the Habits of Engagement
  4. The 3C's of Engagement
  5. Your Body, Tone, and Words Said What?

That’s the recap for Section 4! Now let’s move to the Wrap-up!

Section 5: Course Wrap-Up

Congratulations! You have successfully completed the course: 3 Steps to Becoming a Confident & Engaging Speaker -- The 1st Step to Becoming an All-Star Speaker on Stage.

Thank you for participating. I enjoyed working with you. You can now stand out from the crowd with a bold assurance that you can:

  • Present with Confidence,
  • Deliver in your best public speaking style,
  • Demonstrate effective body language,
  • And exhibit the leadership practices of an expert connector

Watch the wrap-up video. I enjoyed working with you and hope to see you again in a future course.

What else do you get?

BONUS: Confident Speaker Facebook Group

As a student in this course, you are invited to join my "Confident Speaker Facebook Group." It is a private community where passionate and like-minded professionals can support one another through connection, conversation, and skill-building resources. Learn how within the course.

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Instructor Biography

Pat B. Freeman, Professional Speaker, Trainer, Personal Coach

Pat B. Freeman is an inspirational speaker, trainer, and coach, aka: The Dream Builder. She offers leadership empowerment programs to professional and entrepreneur-minded women and others who want to follow your passion, build your dream career, and live with purpose and fulfillment. Her purpose is to provide the process, tools, and resources to turn your Passion into Profits. "Confident Speaker Training" is one of Pat's signature programs for business and career success.

Pat is also an author, serial entrepreneur, and former educator with over 20 years experience as a director of Adult Education in the community college system, where she was responsible for over 125 faculty and staff and served approximately 3500 students annually. Pat is the founder of Pat B. Freeman LLC, a speaking and training company that provide programs to empower women to thrive personally and professionally.

Freeman began speaking in front of audiences in 2nd grade when she recited a poem (The Creation) before the entire student body, faculty, and staff in the courtyard of her elementary school. "I remember thinking, as though it were yesterday, that I didn’t need to be afraid because I had prepared for the performance and, if I made a mistake, no one would know it if I didn’t show it. I gave it everything I had, and then some. From that day forward, I was invited to speak at local churches, family functions, and community events," she recalls. Pat has hosted events and spoken at local, state, and national conferences.

Pat earned her A.A. degree in Theatre from Columbia College, a B.A. degree in Theatre from Florida State University, and a Masters’ degree in Educational Administration from Campbell University. Pat also received post-graduate studies in Mass Communication (Broadcast Journalism) at California State University (Fullerton) and pursued doctoral studies in Leadership and Management at the University of Phoenix. She is a John Maxwell certified speaker and coach, a Certified Program Planner with LERN, and is Lean Six Sigma certified (Yellow Belt).

Pat resides in Greensboro, NC and is the mother of two sons, Sterling and Styles.

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