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10 Steps to Stop Living Someone Else's Dream:

Make your own dreams a reality by developing the same mindset as the most successful people in history, starting today.
4.3 (16 ratings)
Instead of using a simple lifetime average, Udemy calculates a course's star rating by considering a number of different factors such as the number of ratings, the age of ratings, and the likelihood of fraudulent ratings.
4,030 students enrolled
Last updated 9/2015
Price: Free
  • 4 hours on-demand video
  • Full lifetime access
  • Access on mobile and TV
  • Certificate of Completion
What Will I Learn?
  • Clear your mind of all the distracting and overwhelming clutter that clouds your thinking process and stresses you out
  • Clearly see your plan of execution in your mind before taking actionable steps in the direction of your goals
  • Finally defeat those fearful "what if's" in your life that hold you back from taking risks
  • Develop the courage needed to go out and try new and exciting things, even if no one else in your life is doing them
  • Pick yourself up and get back in the game when you encounter failure along your path to success
  • ... And many more!
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  • All you need to take this course is an open mind, a desire to grow yourself and learn new things, and a burning passion to make your life whatever you want it to be.

This course offers the 10 Steps to Stop Living Someone Else's Dream, and start living your own dream.

We all have things we want in our lives, whether it's a dream job, a dream hobby, a dream vacation, a dream relationship, or a dream home.

But many of us do not actually manifest these things into our lives. We never seem to have the time, or we don't know how to acquire these things, or we feel like we don't deserve them.

Many of us feel stuck with what we already have- a job we can't stand just to pay the bills, or a partner we keep around because we just don't want to be alone, or we just stay in our comfort zone and decide not to try any new hobbies because we fear failure, or fear that it might be hard to learn.

Feeling stuck like this creates the thought that we ALL have:

"There must be more to life than this...."

If you feel like this every day, then it is no accident you found this course.

The second you enroll in this course will be the beginning of your transformation.

The secrets to success will be revealed to you within 3 1/2 hours of video content. You will be equipped with the tools you need to start changing your life, today, such as:

  • 10 Printable Worksheets: Use these to apply the content directly to your life.
  • 10 Printable Recaps: So you don't have to memorize every little thing in the videos.
  • 10 Quizzes: To test your knowledge.
  • Links to Motivational Videos that have personally helped us along our path to success

You, and you alone, have the potential to make your own life whatever you want it to be. This course provides you the tools needed to use your potential to bring your dreams directly to you. We will be with you every step of the way :)

The longer you wait to start making changes, the longer you will spend your life working to make someone else's dream a reality. Time is precious, and it's ticking away for all of us, fast... You don't want to waste it on things you don't care about, do you?

This course is the first step. You can start today.

Enroll Now, and we will see you on the other side! :)

Who is the target audience?
  • If you wake up every day just wishing you could go back to bed...
  • If you are working a job you can't stand just to pay the bills...
  • If you feel like you're giving all your time away, spending it doing things you don't enjoy, and getting nowhere fast...
  • If you feel stressed daily...
  • If you worry about your future...
  • If you aren't satisfied...
  • If you think to yourself, "There must be more to life than this..."
  • If you're looking for the answer that tells you how to finally be happy...
  • ... Trying to find it in a book, or from a friend, or on the TV, and you're not finding the answer...
  • ... And you're tired of being miserable, living a life that is fulfilling someone else's dream...
  • ... While YOUR dream seems to be nothing but a fairytale, an impossibility that will never happen...
  • ... Because NO ONE told you your dream was possible...
  • ... Then this course is for YOU.
  • This course is NOT for you if you are content with settling for what you already have in life, and NOT exeriencing life to its fullest.
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Curriculum For This Course
19 Lectures
2 Lectures 17:12

Hello and Welcome to your new course, 10 Steps to Stop Living Someone Else's Dream!

Our names are Cody Mann and Sarah Lambert.

We are so excited you have decided to go on this journey with us :)

The course will be set up like this:

  • Each Section = A Step (there are 10 Steps)
  • Each lecture will be in video format.
  • In the Download Section, we will include:
    • A downloadable, printable PDF Worksheet to help you use the content in each lecture to focus on your own life.
    • A downloadable, printable PDF Recap of each video in case you missed something.
  • We will also include a few links here and there to external content (such as Youtube videos) that has helped us along our journey to our own dreams, so that you can use them as well!
  • A quiz will also be included for each section so you can test your knowledge.
  • Introduction

    Have you ever thought about where you are now versus where you want to be?

    In this lecture, we will discuss:

    • The contrast between our childhood and our adult lives

    • Being "realistic" and following the patterns of society

    • How we are all programmed to benefit the system rather than our own lives

    • Your true potential as a human being

    The rest of the course will cover the Steps you need to take to free yourself from these mental chains.

    Exiting the Matrix
    Step 1: Break Down Your Belief System
    3 Lectures 43:12

    So we have already mentioned that we are all programmed to benefit the system rather than our own lives. But in what ways are we being programmed?

    This lecture will cover The 8 Ways in Which We Are Programmed to benefit the system, and how we all tend to neglect our own dreams and desires.

    This lecture will make you aware of the things holding you back that you may have not even noticed.

    How Programmed Are You?

    How Programmed Are You? Part II

    What are you growing in your garden? In other words, what are you cultivating in your life that is either propelling you towards your dreams, or holding you back from them?

    This lecture will provide you with 5 sets of questions to ask yourself, so that you can see:

    • What your beliefs are about yourself and the world around you
    • How you got these beliefs
    • How these beliefs are affecting your life
    • How you can let go of beliefs that are no longer serving you and start developing your own belief system that propels you towards the life you want to be living.

    In this video, I will give you an easy-to-understand analogy so that you can easily relate these questions to your life and start breaking down your belief system and start rebuilding it to create the life you want to be living.

    IN THE DOWNLOAD SECTION, I have included:

    1. The "What Are You Growing in Your Garden?" Worksheet
    2. The Workbook (this consists of all of the worksheets included in this course)

    First, DOWNLOAD & PRINT the "What Are You Growing in Your Garden?" worksheet.

    Next, DOWNLOAD & PRINT the Workbook.

    Then, place the "What Are You Growing in Your Garden?" worksheet under the Cover Page of the workbook, and staple it all together.

    Use this workbook throughout the course with the corresponding lectures to apply the content directly to your life. :)

    If you prefer to Download & Print the worksheets one at a time, they will be included individually in the Download Section of their corresponding lecture.

    What are You Growing in Your Garden?
    Step 2: See Your Plan of Execution Before Taking Action
    1 Lecture 18:42

    When you have a plan to do something, what do you do first?

    This lesson will give you a life-changing technique that can help you see your plan in your mind, so that you can have a clear image of what you want to manifest into your life.

    Making a blueprint in your mind is the first step to doing anything in your life.

    We will be discussing:

    • Visualization: What is it?

    • How it works

    • Why it's important

    • How to use Visualization

    • Examples of successful people who have used Visualization to achieve their dreams
    Just Don't See it Happening? The Power of Visualization

    How well do you remember how to use visualization in your life?

    3 questions
    Step 3: Clear Your Mind of Clutter That Stresses You Out and Holds You Back
    2 Lectures 32:02

    We all get fuzzy sometimes, ranging from having a little difficulty concentrating, to having a throbbing migraine from an extremely hard week.

    So how can we alleviate all this clutter and pain?

    In Part 1 of this section, we will cover:

    • Meditation: What is it?

    • Why meditation is important

    • The common misconceptions of meditation

    • Specific personal examples of applying meditation to our lives

    In Part 2, we will discuss:

    • How your body works on an energetic level

    • How meditation can show you what disharmony exists in your life

    • How meditation can realign you to function at your greatest

    • How to meditate (with a demonstration)

    • The Many Benefits of Meditation
    Mental Clutter? Don't Wait, Meditate!

    Meditation Part II

    3 questions
    Step 4: Attract Your Dreams Directly TO You Using the Law of Attraction
    1 Lecture 14:29

    This physical world is governed by a set of rules that only allows us to do certain things, such as the Laws of Physics. This is what keeps us held here on our planets so we don't drift off into space.

    But if we have the Laws of Physics, then what other laws are we subject to?

    In this lecture, we will discuss:

    • The Law of Attraction: What is it?

    • The Power of the LOA

    • How the LOA works

    • How to Use LOA with Visualization & Meditation

    • How to STOP using the LOA against you & START using it to your advantage
    Is The Force WITH you, or AGAINST You?

    How well do you know LOA?

    Law of Attraction
    3 questions
    Step 5: Tame the Monster in Your Head that Makes You Think You Can't Do It
    2 Lectures 23:03

    Where does all of your self-doubt come from? Your fear that holds you back from taking that leap of faith? The reason you feel self-conscious and judged? It's that little monster.

    In this section, we will discuss:

    • The Ego: What is it?

    • What the Ego creates: The three ways it affects your life and holds you back

    • Solutions to these problems
    The Monster in All of Us

    The Solution to Judgment &

    The last way the Ego Affects your Life

    Ego II

    What do you know about that little monster inside your head?

    3 questions
    Step 6: Defeat the Fearful "What If's" that Stand in Your Way
    2 Lectures 21:16

    Your fear is a very powerful thing, but are you more powerful than your fears?

    F.E.A.R. can dominate your thoughts if you Forget Everything And Run.

    BUT- You also have the option to Face Everything And Rise!

    The choice is yours.

    But fear not! This lecture will help you defeat those fears and come out the victor.

    We will discuss:

    • The 6 Types of Fear that typically hold us back from achieving our dreams

    • Why we have fear in the first place

    • How fear directly impacts your decision-making

    • 9 Ways to Overcome Your Fears

    We have also included a link to a motivational video that will help you out when the going gets tough.

    This video helped us push past our fears when everything seemed to be falling apart. We watched it over and over again until we felt better. Now you can, too. :)

    F.E.A.R. (Face Everything And Rise)

    Fear Part II- Why We Have Fear & How to Overcome Fear

    3 questions
    Step 7: Develop the Courage to Step Outside the Bubble and Explore More of Life
    1 Lecture 11:34

    Have you ever wanted to try something new, but decided not to because you were too nervous or afraid?

    In this lecture, we will discuss:

    • The Comfort Zone: What is it?

    • Why people stay in their Comfort Zones

    • Why you need to get out of your Comfort Zone

    • How to get out of your Comfort Zone
    The Comfort Zone- Where Does it Lead You?

    Comfort Zone
    3 questions
    Step 8: Love and Accept Yourself 100% to Reach Your Full Potential
    2 Lectures 24:10

    Did you know that every problem we encounter can be solved using the power of love? It might seem unlikely in some situations, but it's entirely possible. So how will love solve any of your problems you ask? Because when you learn to use the most important type of love, you will change the way you think, feel and act. This love I speak of is the love you show yourself.

    These videos will cover:

    • What self-love is and how it differs from narcissism
    • Why self-love is essential on the path to living your dreams
    • 9 ways you can change the way you feel about yourself and shift your energy to be great starting today
    Self Love is NOT Narcissism

    Self-Love Part II - How to Experience Self-Love

    3 questions
    Step 9: Develop the Drive Needed to Kick-Start Yourself Into Action
    1 Lecture 17:04

    Do you have a Fixed Mindset or a Growth Mindset?

    In this lesson, we will discuss:

    • What a Fixed Mindset is

    • What a Growth Mindset is

    • 7 Ways to Develop a Growth Mindset

    We have included links to 2 incredible Motivational Videos that have helped us stay motivated and keep our heads up. We know they will help you, too. :)

    Mindset is Everything- Motivation and Confidence

    3 questions
    2 More Sections
    About the Instructor
    Cody Michael Mann
    4.3 Average rating
    16 Reviews
    4,030 Students
    1 Course
    Writer, Mentor, Entrepreneur

    Cody is a writer, blogger and entrepreneur. He is a dreamer that envisions a world where everyone lives a life of abundance. This is only possible in a world where everyone is living their dreams. As an explorer of consciousness, Cody has gotten his feet wet in many different areas of life. He went to college for 4 years studying physics while delving deeply into many different areas of psychology and philosophy as well.

    Cody has been mentored by some of the best in the field of marketing. This lead him down the path of writing and blogging. Soon after, he created his platform at The Cody Codex, which has helped him expand and see where he was supposed to take his life.

    After spending the vast majority of his time working on his website, he began writing ebooks for fiverr. He created over 50 ebooks for people covering a wide range of topics, which in-turn allowed him to expand his knowledge and grow into the esteemed writer he is today.

    He continued searching for the answer that he had been seeking since he was a kid, what was his purpose for being on earth? All of these things served to guide him down the path he was supposed to take, but there were so many paths he could have taken it was up to him to discover which path was actually for him. The search for his purpose lead him here to help others discover their purpose for being on earth and live their dreams. HIs dream is for everyone to live peacefully in a life of abundance. Only when all of us tap into our full potential can we all live an abundant life.

    Life has taught him much and guided him through a variation of practices. After spending years perfecting the art of meditation, he has discovered that his message must be shared with others. Because after all, wisdom is only obtained through applied knowledge; so what good is wisdom if you have no one to share it with? In order to create a better world we must spend time making ourselves better before we can ever hope to help make anyone else's life better.

    His aim is to help others discover their true calling and see to it that we make the world a better place than the one we came into. Knowing that we are all unique and incredible beings is important in realizing the truth, that we are limitless. We have the potential to do ANYTHING we put our minds to and for that reason Cody has continued pushing forward no matter how difficult the journey was for him. By unlocking your true potential, you now possess the ability to change the world with your God-given talents and truly make the world a better place.

    Sarah Lambert
    4.3 Average rating
    16 Reviews
    4,030 Students
    1 Course
    Entreprenuer, Artist

    Art is a hobby for some, but not for Sarah. She has loved art ever since she was a little girl. Her passionate desire to grow into the greatest version of herself lead her to following her dreams in an attempt to discover the meaning of life.

    Along the way, she encountered many difficulties which tested her faith and ability to push forward. But this was simply a challenge, which cultivated a new level of determination inside of her to face her challenges head on, because she knew that on the other side awaited her dreams.

    She went through many years of trying to find herself, changing her major in college countless times and spending all her time working at a job that she wasn't passionate about.

    At the age of 24, Sarah made the bold decision to start working for herself. She is now in the early stages of entrepreneurship, and her goal is to lead by example; to show others that it is possible to follow your dreams and make a living doing what you love.

    Her desire for art and the innate connection she has with nature is what gave her the courage to reach out and create a world she once dreamed to be impossible. Her motive was simple and clear: in what ways could she create a better world for others to thrive in?