
Discuss a couple reasons why this course is important for you right and go over the basics of Proactive Interaction - the tool to use if and when your relationship needs it.
Discuss looking at your relationship as something that needs maintenance - like a houseplant. "Magnet and Steel" analogy. Seeing your partner on the "same side" is half the battle. Introducing the two conflict resolution mindsets.
Discuss conflict resolution mindsets, Healthy Relationship Analysis (part 1). Faborsia Facebook story with The 5 Love Languages.
Discuss the need to resolve conflicts whenever needed. Further discuss of the conflict resolution mindsets and reasons for resentment. Healthy Relationship Analysis (part 2). Thinking of your relationship as a separate entity that needs maintenance like anything else you care for in your life. Discuss some indicators that you probably have resentment that is ripe for the cleansing efforts of Proactive Interaction.
Discuss how, to a certain extent, your relationship is nothing more than the continuous, mutual exchange of Information between you and your partner. Joint checkbook issues analogy. Discuss how sharing information when reconciling a checkbook issues is the same as sharing information when reconciling issues in your relationship. Healthy Relationship Analysis (part 3). Teaser introduction to Egoity.
Joint checkbook issues with Egoity analogy quiz results. Comparing our reaction to physical threats to our reaction to belief-threatening information. Definition of Egoity. Thinking of Egoity like a watchdog, smoke alarm, fire alarm, security system, or any other warning system. Healthy Relationship Analysis (part 4).
Discuss the two parts of Proactive Interaction: sharing effective information (lesson 5) and regulating your normal and natural Egoity response (lesson 6). The upside and downside of beliefs and how Egoity will protect it from threatening Information, just as if it was a physical threat. Healthy Relationship Analysis (part 5). Revealing our Relationship Maintenance Game Plan. Discuss "Aha Moments" and the endgame of Proactive Interaction.
Discuss how identifying and challenging a belief threatened by shared information regulates your normal and natural Egoity response. Compare the purpose of Egoity to the purpose of a watchdog. "Sabby" story. Discuss how Egoity is there for protection like any other warning system.
Discuss the rise and fall of Egoity. Review "barking watchdog" analogy. Smoke detector analogy. Discuss the importance of being conscience of how your words impact Egoity. How this course and our game plan is your new relationship insurance policy and survival guide, all-in-one. Handout #09 Conflict Resolution Tools and Strategies.
Discuss the importance of being able to control the Proactive Interaction "conversation temperature". Proactive Interaction strategy suggestions. Refuting shared information suggestions. Review conflict resolution mindsets: "1 on 1" Egoity battle or "2 on 1" tag team. Discuss Handout #10 Conflict Resolution Compatibility Test.
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Learn concepts, skills, and strategies to preserve the healthy relationship you have with your fiancé or spouse.
Discover the Secrets of Healthy Relationships in this Comprehensive Step-By-Step Program.
Build a firm, “perma-fresh” relationship with your partner
Become proficient in proactive and effective conflict resolution
Battle the root cause of relationship issues, not your partner
Tame your natural defensive reactions when dealing with conflict
Learn a unique perspective of what conflict really is, as well a groundbreaking and practical approach to resolving it.
A reporter once asked a couple, “How did you manage to stay together for 65 years?” The woman replied, “We were born in a time when if something was broken we would fix it, not throw it away.”
So how do you “fix” a relationship? The goal of this course is to answer that question.
By any standard, the extent of failed and failing relationships has been at epidemic proportions for quite some time now. This is easily demonstrated by the track record of couples who took a solemn vow to stay together forever. Even with all of the initial dedication, devotion, and pressure to remain intact, around 50% of all marriages end in divorce, with the rate rising at least 10% with each subsequent marriage.
And what about all the unhappy marriages that would mercifully end if not for situational circumstances? Since they haven’t figured out how to fix their relationship with each other, many couples feel emotionally imprisoned. They stay in a troubled, often mostly sexless marriage just because they feel financially trapped, don’t want to upset or leave their children, or simply don’t want to be on their own.
Of course, deteriorating relationships do not plague only married folks. Partners in any kind of relationship will suffer the same fate until they learn the root cause of relationship issues, and how to resolve them. Although some people may instinctively understand the principles of successful conflict resolution, the vast majority of us have not been properly and effectively taught how to “fix” our relationships.
This course is a 1-hour, 10 lesson lecture with handout tests and reading assignments after each lesson.
Introduction to Course and Why It’s Important for You Right Now
How to Keep the Attraction, Respect and Trust
Resentment is Kryptonite to Your Relationship
The Secret to Healthy Relationships
What Needs to be Done to Keep Your Relationship Healthy
Our Normal & Natural “Fight or Flight” Response to Threatening Information
You’ve Got Both Pieces Now, and Can Resolve Any Issue
The Five Magic Words to Stop Any Argument
How to Train Your Egoity
What You Can Proactively Do to Help Your Relationship
Enroll now, and learn what to do if and when “problems” come up in your marriage.
By the end of this course, you will have the knowledge and tools to resolve any and all conflicts with your partner and restore your relationship, without the common roadblocks that we have all no doubt experienced. You will be provided with step-by-step instructions on zeroing in on the real causes of relationship problems, and how to pull them up ...by the roots!
The ideal student for this course is anyone who wants to fully understand the real causes of relationship problems and how to get rid of them effectively. As the issues are resolved, the attraction, trust, and respect you have for your partner are naturally restored. There are no requirements necessary to enroll. We only ask that you come open-minded and ready to learn.
After learning and applying the simple yet powerful lessons, you will be able to look at detoxifying your relationship in the same way as cleaning your kitchen, without sweeping any issue under the rug. No compromises, no sacrifices, and no forgiveness needed. You will learn how to simply remove the toxic barrier that naturally develops between you and your partner over time, restoring and even enhancing the initial attraction, trust, and respect.