NLP: Build Instant Rapport With Anyone In 10 Seconds or Less

Well, it is a good question, right? Why do you need to learn how to build rapport, when everyone believes, they can do it without a course?

But not everybody feels comfortable immediately. Sometimes, we feel awkward. So here you have a good reason, why you want to build rapport.

And there are more reasons. How about being able to "conquer" the room to get to know the person that you want to meet? 

Listen in to this session, to explore more reasons, and realise, that through intensive rapport building skills, you can create a happier life.

Get a handle on good definitions for rapport. Because there are many around, so you learn to find the one definition that fits you best.

First impressions count. Learn that first impressions can make or break anything in your life. And realise, that what most people believe about first impressions is not quite right. In fact, it can endanger your success. 

Learn from newest neurological research that you need to find new ways to build rapport.

Let's continue in our lecture on first impressions to get even deeper into the material.

We all have a conscious and an unconscious mind. And in this lecture, you learn that your unconscious mind really is the driver of everything you do. And that it determines how you build rapport. And how other people perceive you. Exploring the power of the unconscious mind can be fun, and you learn, that your unconscious mind is driving your abilities to make things happen. 

You are going to see a real life training video from my Certified NLP Practitioner Training, where I explain the NLP Concept of building rapport.

This here is the introduction to the video.

In my Certified NLP Practitioner Training, we teach Rapport-Building Skills early on. In this part of the video, I introduce you to the concept on how to build rapport with NLP. 

Here, we continue the video from the NLP Training Session. You learn additional concepts, and what it takes to make or break rapport with another person. Also, you learn how to finetune your rapport-building skills

Let's debrief the NLP Training video to give you more depth to your learning. 

There is a neurological basis for the process of building rapport with NLP methodologies and techniques. 

In NLP, we say that the way someone moves the eyes indicates their way of thinking. While not everybody agrees with this statement, it is a model of thinking in NLP, and very helpful in dealing with people and building rapport. 

In order to get the best out of the next few session - until Lecture 22 - please download the relevant eBook. 

A continuation of the NLP Thinking around Eye Accessing Cues.

Following the introduction regarding eye accessing cues, you learn more about what people actually do, when they move their eyes into certain directions. 

Continuing the earlier discussion, you get introduced to the remaining areas for the eye accessing cues. 

People move the eyes into different directions. And in NLP, we like to say that how someone moves the eyes, and processes information inside, reveals itself in their behaviours and preferences. Here, we talk about the characteristics of the visual person.

Knowing this, allows you to build deep relationships with the Visual Person.

People move the eyes into different directions. And in NLP, we like to say that how someone moves the eyes, and processes information inside, reveals itself in their behaviours and preferences. Here, we talk about the characteristics of the auditory person.

Knowing this, allows you to build deep relationships with the Auditory Person.

People move the eyes into different directions. And in NLP, we like to say that how someone moves the eyes, and processes information inside, reveals itself in their behaviours and preferences. Here, we talk about the characteristics of the kinesthetic person.

Knowing this, allows you to build deep relationships with the Kinesthetic Person.

People move the eyes into different directions. And in NLP, we like to say that how someone moves the eyes, and processes information inside, reveals itself in their behaviours and preferences. Here, we talk about the characteristics of the Auditory Digital person.

Knowing this, allows you to build deep relationships with the Auditory Digital Person.

A summary of the Eye Accessing Cues.

Let me introduce you to another part, on how you can build rapport with another person. We all communicate, but we all have a different style and preference for communicating in a certain manner. 

Here you learn, that the different groups discussed earlier (Visual, Auditory etc) have a preferred way of speaking. Knowing this specific way of speaking, you can deepen the rapport with the other person in very subtle manner and connect even deeper. 

Now it is over to you, to do a more intense, but fun exercise. 

Beyond NLP. There are ways to build even deeper relationships with another person, the instant you meet them. To make this wonderful and positive first impression that you learned earlier. Learn now, how to build rapport based on neurological research, and which is not known to many people.

Beyond NLP. There are ways to build even deeper relationships with another person, the instant you meet them. To make this wonderful and positive first impression that you learned earlier. Learn now, how to build rapport based on neurological research, and which is not known to many people. And really, it is so easy, and so much fun, to create such deep influence.

This is the introduction why it is possible to build rapport online.

Here are three quick scenes of students who match and mirror each other unconsciously during my recent training. I am narrating the video, but advice you to watch the video more than once to get the full essence of it.

Putting it all together, to make it happen. A summary of everything you have learned. In around 1 minute, you will get it all. 

I say good bye to you, but hope that we stay in touch so that I can hear from you and your success stories.