The Psychology of Thriving

Solutions for living better right now!
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  • Lectures 14
  • Length 43 mins
  • Skill Level Beginner Level
  • Languages English
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Published 10/2015 English

Course Description

What if your mind was your greatest asset? How different would your life be if your mind didn't sabotage you with negative thoughts about your body, your future, or your potential? What if your mind actually worked consistently to problem solve and boost your self-esteem and foster a mental ecosystem where thriving and success were the norm?

Based on more than 13 years of experience this course will offer you insights into where many people get stuck, practical tools to help navigate around (and through) these treacherous waters, as well as case studies and personal stories to explain these concepts in a practical and straightforward manner.

NOTE: There is a full, 30 day, No Risk guarantee for this course. If you are not fully satisfied your investment will be refunded. No questions asked.

What are the requirements?

  • The clients I enjoy most are those open and eager to learn, are motivated to take action with the information they learn, and are willing to work hard to improve their lives. Students of this course who possess these qualities will gain the most from this course.

What am I going to get from this course?

  • Gain confidence that you can overcome negative patterns and improve the quality of your life
  • Create a happier life by improving how you talk to yourself
  • Focus your energy on what matters most to your well-being

What is the target audience?

  • This course is meant for those who are struggling with anxiety, depression, feel stuck in their life or are considering going to counseling.

What you get with this course?

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30 day money back guarantee.

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Section 1: Four Ways To Improve Your Life Right Now - Overview

This lecture introduces the four concepts to be covered in this course which include:

1. How You Talk To Yourself Matters

2. What You Focus On Will Prosper

3. Loops

4. The Universe is Listening


This lectures encourages students to take notes and gives evidenced based research from leading research James Pennebaker on the benefits of therapeutic writing.

Section 2: How You Talk To Yourself Matters

This lecture introduces the idea of internal dialogue (i.e. talking to yourself) and also introduces our fictional client "Suzanne" and her struggles with her inner critic.

In therapy this is often where I begin with most clients as many people pay no attention at all to how they talk to themselves.


This lecture begins to give practical advice on how to change negative thought patterns into positive, life-giving messages that will improve your psychological as well as physical health.

1. Half Mantras vs. Full Mantras

2. Take Practical Steps To Change Environment

3. Gratitude Exercise

4. Parts - This idea from the Internal Family Systems model states that we have different parts inside of us that sometimes compete against one another. All of them are important and we need to be kind to our different parts and talk to them with kindness and seek to understand them with curiosity.

5. Positivity. Repetition. Visualization.

1 question

Here are a few simple questions to assess your level of awareness of how you talk to yourself.

Section 3: What You Focus On Will Prosper

This lecture introduces the second foundational idea of beginning to pay attention to what you focus on with your time, energy, and resources (i.e. money).


Continued discussion of effective tools to help you focus your energy on what will help you prosper and live a meaningful, happy life.


The 8 C's of Internal Family Systems: Compassion, Calm, Creative, Connected, Clarity, Courage, Curiosity, Confidence

Section 4: Loops

This lecture introduces the idea of loops. Loops are the repetitive patterns we encounter (and sometimes get stuck) that afford us opportunities to grow/mature/advance our lives by making choices that help us overcome old, negative, unhealthy patterns in new, different and better ways.

From birth to death we encounter loops in our lives.

There are three levels of loops:

1. Lower - Lower loops are characterized by addiction, mental illness, and suicidal thoughts.

2. Middle - Middle loops are where most people live. These are patterns we repeat on a daily basis that are comfortable but do not provide us with much vitality. We often digress in our lives to lower loops as a way to get out of these boring loops.

3. Upper - Upper loops are the most life-giving places we find ourselves where we want to move quickly through them because we know that our growth and transformation is powerful for living meaning lives full of vitality and joy.

Section 5: The Universe Is Listening
The Universe Is Listening
Rumi - The Guest House

In this lecture I tell a story about an bizarre occurrence that happened between myself and a client and how it hinted at a connection beyond what we could know with our logical/rational minds.


In this lecture I describe the phenomenon of how we often get what it is we want but rarely in the way that we want it. This confounding conundrum is often the source of angst in our lives. More often than not I believe this dilemma offers us an opportunity to reflect on the limits of our understanding and our need for humility when encountering situations. It also offers us an opportunity to reflect on what we think we want and be open to receiving what comes and not always trying to manufacture moments in our lives our of our sheer strength and determination.

Section 6: Course Review
Course Review
Section 7: Bloopers

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Instructor Biography

Reb Buxton, Psychotherapist

I received a Bachelors of Science in Banking & Finance from the University of Southern Mississippi. I moved to Nashville, Tennessee where I worked as an account manager for Vince Gill, Wynona Judd, Shawn Colvin, Frank White (Chicago White Sox) and Wimble Doubles Champion Mark Woodforde and Todd Woodbridge.

I attended graduate school in Seattle, Washington in 2001 where I graduated with honors and received my Masters in Counseling Psychology. I chose to return to school because my passion was in connecting with people on a deeper level. I was often reprimanded by supervisors for having people in my office talking too long. It was evident years before that my desire was to help people navigate difficult times of their life and find meaning through a greater understanding of themselves

I have more than 13 years experience as a counselor and currently operate a full-time private counseling practice in Nashville, Tennessee where I help amazing individuals thrive in their life.

If you are interested in contacting me for online or telephone therapy I would be grateful to talk with you about how I may be able to help. The link to my website is listed below.

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