Leos Step-By-Step Guide To A Sizzling Hot First Date

First dates, done a little "differently". I met my wife this way, and it worked for many of my students, too.
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Published 12/2015 English

Course Description

My courses have sold 25,229 times as of October 2015 (that is mostly in Germany via my website). Besides, there are currently 100,775 men reading my German newsletter.

With this course, you can dramatically improve your chances with any woman who meets you for a first date – or even just for drinks after work.

  • Do first dates make you nervous?
  • Are you perhaps not even having many dates, because you are afraid of "screwing it up"?
  • Are you the kind of guy who ends up being "just friends"?
  • Or do you, when you do talk to a woman that you like, sometimes feel like there's a "glass wall" between you and her, just like you're some lifeless robot who doesn't know what to say... (and, of course, once you're back home and alone, you'll suddenly think of all the things you should have said, but didn't)?

If any of this applies to you, or if you simply want to have hotter dates with women, you will probably profit from this course.

"But How Can You Have A Formula For Human Interaction?"

It does sound a little bit ridiculous – "The Date Formula".

Of course people are unique.

So let me tell you a secret:

This isn't really a course about women. It's a course about YOU.

If a man has never tasted honey, it would be really difficult to describe it for him. Wouldn't it?

And in the same way, if a man has never experienced real "butterfly" sexual tension on a first date with a new woman, and if he's never seen how a turned-on woman looks and acts like, then it's really difficult to help him overcome this lack of experiences through some online course on his computer screen.

So what this course is designed to do is to give you your own reference experiences.

In the course, I will tell you exactly what to do, when to do it, and how to do it.

We will cover the entire timespan from asking the woman out, through the first date, through the time after the first date, through the second date… all the way to the point where the girl is at your place, you are making out heavily, and she is taking off her clothes.

(That is where the course will end. Once you have a beautiful woman at your place, who is turned on by your touch, who is breathing heavily, and who is ready to do with you what only grown ups do... well, you will know how to take it from there.)

And here's a promise to you:

You won't be following this "formula" much longer, once you've had two or three successful dates.

Once you have "tasted the honey" – once you have experienced how sexual tension feels like, and how women react when you behave in certain ways – then you no longer need to follow any steps.

You're no longer playing the saxophone by notes. You're now one with the instrument, and you're ready for the JAZZ.

Here's What Students Have Said About the Course:

"Hey Leo. I really dig the Date Formula. I've gone through it, I took notes, and now any time I have a date, I read through my notes beforehand and let miracles happen =P Great course!"

"Hey Leo. I can't believe how effective this Date Formula is. I've tried it today for the first time, and I went so much farther than ever before. I had met the woman online. We did not chat a lot online, but we spontaneously decided to meet up today. We were outside, sitting on a park bench (next to each other, just as you recommend it in the course). From the beginning, I put my arm behind her back. And when I asked her what it was about her job that attracts her, she almost didn't stop talking anymore! That made it much easier for me to focus on listening and touching. The talking really took care of itself. Soon, we were holding hands, and after an hour or so we were making out."

(Note: Students of the course will quickly notice that this reviewer actually violated some of the rules from the course. He applied only a few parts of the formula, and he is still successful.)

"I lost my virginity thanks to this course. It's really amazing how much touch matters. Since I have studied the Date Formula, it just 'clicked' for me."

"I wanted to spend a nice evening with a really cute girl. I also wanted to try out the second part of the Date Formula. When she arrived at my place, I just introduced her quickly to my family, and then we went up to my room. My memory is fuzzy, because one thing led to the next. At one point I just lifted her chin gently and kissed her. Then we were making out. I couldn't get enough of her sweet strawberry lips. Then I started touching the more intimate parts of her body. I touched the sides of her breasts and stroked the area above her cleavage... We really had to laugh, because aufter 2 hours of talking and making out it had simply become obvious that the 'movie night' had just been a pretense all along. :)"

"I went out with Liliana for drinks before christmas. The same bar again, with a nice sofa where you can sit next to each other. She's an open, funny person which really impressed me. Soon, sparks were flying between us. All I did was look into her eyes and listen. Every now and then, I told her something about myself. Most of the time, though, I let her talk. She told me that she had never met a man like that before. A man who really listens to her and who looks into her eyes like that. It actually made her a little nervous. :) She also said that she was now telling me things which she usually would never tell on a first date. I then took her hand, and we joked a little – and then she kissed me. Afterwards, she apologized for having kissed me. She said that usually she isn't like that. Usually, she doesn't kiss a guy on the first date, and she actually thinks it's embarassing to be making out in front of all the other people. […] I also caressed the back of her neck. That gave her the goosebumps, and she almost couldn't focus on our conversation anymore. She only said, 'That's my weak spot, and you will soon regret that you turned me on that way". ;) Leo, I can tell you, this girl really took my breath away. Two days later, I also received a text message from her. She asked me if I'd like to watch a movie with her, and she also wrote that she feel slightly embarassed to ask me something like that. I thought that was funny. A stunning, beautiful woman is embarassed about asking ME out!

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And by the way...

If so far you have been spending $100, $200, $300 on expensive dinner dates that get you nowhere, then your investment in this course here now will pay off a hundred fold – both in money, and in results.

Go ahead and make your dates hot and sexy! Watch and download the entire course, completely risk-free. Click the "Take This Course" button, and we'll get started right away…

What are the requirements?

  • You should have some source where you can meet women. This can be online dating. It can also just be your morning commute. "Excuse me? I know it sounds silly. But I noticed you. And I couldn't stop looking. You look fabulous!" (Let her respond.) "Well, it's great to meet you. I'm Leo. I gotta run. But I'd love to have a glass of wine with you. How about today after work, around six? We could go to Hal's Bar. What do you say?" (Look into her eyes). I've used this in coffee shops, on wine tasting events, in book shops, at the beach. The important thing is that you have to be genuine when you say something like that, and that you continue to breathe. (Sounds silly, but most guys really do forget to breathe when they talk to beautiful girls.)

What am I going to get from this course?

  • turn any general openness on the part of a woman into overt desire (which expresses itself, among other things, in the woman being receptive to making out with you)
  • have sexual experiences with women on their second date (not always, but most of the time)
  • enjoy the presence of a beautiful woman without being nervous (which sets you apart from other men and makes you very attractive to beautiful women)
  • find out with absolute certainty whether or not a woman is open to having a romantic relationship with you, with a minimum of time and money invested
  • have a fulfilling sex life, even if they are abroad or in another city
  • attract their future girlfriend or wife (the first date I had with my girlfriend looked exactly like in the course – many of my students have also turned first dates into relationships)
  • gain the same positive, reinforcing experiences with women and sexuality that many men who are naturally good with women gained early on (often by accident), and which make them so confident and "natural" around women
  • experience intimacy, love and sex with women they desire, without having to impress, without using manipulative tricks, and without having to rely on crutches like money, status or a perfect body

What is the target audience?

  • Men who never were successful with women
  • Men who often "friend zone" themselves with the women they desire
  • Men who would like to spend the least amount of time and money on dating
  • Intellectual men, and men who work a lot with computers, technical things, or abstract concepts (many of my most successful students happen to be engineers, programmers or lawyers)
  • Men who are looking for a relationship or who simply want to become more experienced with women
  • Men who tend to be "dreamers" with women, who fantasize a lot about a woman they like, and who are then often disappointed by themselves when things in real life don't turn out as romantic as they would like them to
  • Works for men 18-70 (I know of a 73 year old student who uses the course for his online dating; most students are in their 20s and 30s)
  • Works for women you met through online dating, women you met during the day, and women you met in bars or clubs.
  • The course may also help if you have never asked a woman out. It's hard to ask her out if you are afraid of not knowing what to do on a date (and of "screwing it up"). Seeing what is possible and having a clear plan might give you the motivation to actually approach a woman and invite her to have drinks with you.
  • The course is not for people who already are in a happy relationship. If you're looking to improve "dates" you have with your wife or girlfriend, then this is not what you're looking for.

What you get with this course?

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30 day money back guarantee.

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Lifetime access.

Learn on the go.
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Curriculum

Section 1: The Date Formula: How To Make A Woman Want To Kiss You On Your First Date
Welcome to The Date Formula
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04:21
Goals for This Course, and Why "the Kiss" Will Be Important
15:31
The BIG ASS Insight For A Date That Goes Somewhere
Preview
02:36
Picking the Right Place For Your Date (the Foundation Of Your Success)
17:46
Inviting A Woman To A Date With You
13:23
What To Do In Preparation Before You Meet Up With Her
Preview
01:09
The 5 Things You Need To "Make Happen" During Date No. 1
04:44
05:01

No shady NLP stuff here. Just some "expectation management" for both you and her. This way, it'll be more likely that, when the date is over, both of you will feel pretty excited about how it went!

Why It's Important Where You Guys Sit (Minor Tweak – Big Effect)
05:09
The 4 Elements Of Sexual Chemistry
04:08
What To Talk About
11:49
The "Heat Map Of Emotion"
Preview
03:45
How To Look At Her To Give Her Butterflies
08:24
Seeding The Idea For Your Second Date (Which Will Be At Your Place)
03:01
Touching And Using Your Hands
11:40
Turn Yourself On
03:35
How To Tell If She's Ready To Be Kissed
Preview
03:45
Ending the Date
03:36
What To Do After Date No. 1
02:40
How To Invite Her To Your Place For Date No. 2
02:21
Preparing Your Home For Date No. 2
04:21
When She Arrives At Your Place
03:00
How To Ensure Sexual Tension Right From Minute One
01:47
How To Make Her Feel Safe And Help Her Get Into "Cuddle Mode"
03:59
The Recipe For A HOT First Kiss
05:37
Going Beyond Kissing
04:55
Turning Things Sexual
11:51
That's it!
01:51
"We're not having sex tonight"
06:49
If She Stops You (Be Gracious)
07:14
Pitfalls Of the "Friend Zone"
03:22
If You Are Nervous: Two Simple Techniques That Work Within Seconds
08:34
Conclusion
01:39
BONUS: First Date Cheat Sheet
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BONUS: Example Of A Great Conversation Starter (Emotional Heat Map)
05:17
BONUS: How To Screw Up Your Date, Guaranteed
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Instructor Biography

Leonard Baumgardt, Geek and Attorney At Law Who Taught Himself Dating

It's weird, but I'm kind of a big "relationship guru" in Germany.

As of today, I have sold 25,229 courses that I have produced. Courses onhow to meet women, how to get sexual with women, how to be more assertive, and how to master relationships with all the problems involved (jealousy, having a crush, getting over your ex, telling that cute co-worker of yours that you are fantasizing about her at night, etc. :)).

There are also 100,775 men subscribed to my German language weekly newsletter.

And this is weird.

Because until I was 25, I hadn't even kissed a girl!

People until then have asked me for advice on computer things, or on legal matters. But certainly never on women, sex or relationships. :-)

The thing is:

I am a natural introvert, and a romantic.

I am also a geek. I love computers, and have spent years of my life in front of them. I love electronics, and I love the cool, dry nitty-gritty of German law.

I know, I know – it'll be surprising for you to hear… but none of that helped me with women.

My usual romantic routine would look something like this:

I would fall in love with a girl. Usually a girl from school, or later from university or from work. Then I would pursue her for months. Sometimes for years. I'd make her gifts. I'd have tons of romantic fantasies. Sexual fantasies, too. But when talking to her, I would always feel self-conscious. Nothing I'd say to her would ever sound quite right. And in the end, the woman would "like me as a friend" – and go on to date some jackass, who treated her so much worse than I ever would.

Now I though that all of that was happening to me because I wasn't good looking enough. Because I wasn't tall enough. Because I wasn't strong enough. And because I wasn't rich and successful enough.

The reality is that I was sabotaging myself.

I sucked with women because…

1. Being a "thinking type", emotions were my weak spot,
and I was very insecure in this area, and

2. I really didn't know what women wanted or needed in
order to feel attraction.

At one point, I had finished University, I now had money, I was successful in my law carreer – and yet I was still single, and still completely clueless about women. I also had zero sexual experience.

So I had to do something.

And I did:

I traveled, and I stayed in foreign cities, just by myself, for two or three months at a time.

I did heavy online dating - messaging thousands of women, trying out what works and what doesn't work.

I bough pick up books, and I spent around $15,000 on seminars and coachings. Most of which was very interesting stuff. After all, figuring stuff out in my head is what I love to do! However, it all was way too complicated, and felt inauthentic and mechanical when applied to women that I was interested in.

Eventually, I figured out the things that worked FOR ME.

Things that are easy. That are very simple. That don't require you to talk much. And that are quick, honest, and very to the point.

Since then, my dating life has been a blast. I've dated women I met randomly on the street. I've dated a major actress from a popular U.S. television show. I've been invited by a woman I met at Frankfurt airport to visit her in Portugal for a weekend (and she made it very clear that she wasn't interested in giving me a tour of a city, if you know what I mean).

This may sound like bragging – but I'm really so excited about having discovered something that, for the first 25 years of my life, I hadn't thought were possible!

I have since learned a lot from Jungian psychology. Jungian psychology centers around the idea that what you experience outside often is a reflection of your inside. The Jungians also have this concept of the man with a "mother complex" which keeps him from being successful in finding a sexual partner because he unconsciously sabotages his own chances of getting with a woman. And they have the concept of "the shadow" – which is the unexpressed part of your personality. So if you're a thinking type (like me), chances are that relationships are your Achilles heel.

I am also a big believer in behavioral psychology:

It is all good and well if you understand WHY you suck with women. But you also need to know WHAT TO ACTUALLY DO to change it.

So you're invited to check out my courses. They all come with a no-questions-asked money back guarantee.

Fun fact:

Among the buyers of my courses there are 10 times the number of guys who are Myers-Briggs-Type INTJ (= my type) than there are in the general population.

(We also have an unusual number of INFPs, ENTPs, INFJs and ISTPs. What we rarely have are the feeling types – which isn't surprising, because if you're a feeling type, relationships with women will come natural to you, and you don't need someone to analyze them for you.)

I live with my beautiful wife in the hometown of J.S. Bach, Leipzig, Germany.

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