Stop self-sabotaging your own professional success!
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Stop self-sabotaging your own professional success!

Setting yourself free from invisible barriers
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Created by Bertold Ulsamer
Last updated 2/2017
Price: $40
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  • 2.5 hours on-demand video
  • Full lifetime access
  • Access on mobile and TV
  • Certificate of Completion
What Will I Learn?
  • You learn how to stop and transform your self-sabotaging energy
  • You eliminate barriers to your personal power
  • You open the door to your professional success
  • You get the essence of a well-proven 2-day seminar and 20 years of experience!
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  • You know or you guess you have a bigger potential for success
  • Curiosity to enter unknown territories
  • Readiness to learn more about yourself

You have all the necessary abilities, you make a lot of efforts - but still you are not successful? Could it be that you sabotage your own success?

In this course you will learn to understand and overcome this inner battle. So that you will be able to bundle your energies and achieve your goals.

Many people have an inner split between the wish to be successful and the bizarre wish not to be successful. The self-sabotage itself does not have an evil intention but serves hidden purposes.

We will explore the reasons and roots. Some come from present life, some come from the past, from your childhood and from your family of origin.

You may find hidden gifts in barriers you hated till now. And you will transform self-sabotage into a positive power towards success!

Who is the target audience?
  • People who sabotage their professional success in an obvious or a hidden way
  • People who do not use their full potential despite of trying hard
  • People who tend to destroy their success afterwards
  • People who are successful but cannot enjoy their success
  • ATTENTION: This course is not meant for people who look for excuses
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Curriculum For This Course
29 Lectures
5 Lectures 17:47
Success and Self-sabotage - Basics
4 Lectures 15:41
Your personal definition of success

Practice: How do you sabotage yourself?

Practice: Acknowledging the success you have - balance your failure and success

Conclusion and outlook
Imprints from your childhood
10 Lectures 47:14

Practice: Exploring negative attitudes

Success has a price - Exploring the advantage of failure

Practice: Your personal history of success and failure

Practice: What fulfills you? Finding your deepest resources

Understanding your instinctive reaction - Pressure creates counterpressure

Understanding your patterns - Self-Sabotage often makes sense

Practice: Feeling your rebellious part

Practice: Finding new solutions for the different parts of you

Conclusion and outlook
Your family background
9 Lectures 57:47
Introduction: Causes from childhood and family

Success and failure within your family - History repeats itself

Family loyalty is a strong tie - Understanding how this loyalty comes into life

Practice: Imagining an ancestor you may be connected with in failure

Transforming a connection which blocks you - Strength of will is not enough

Practice: Transforming a blocking connection with an ancestor

The special difficulties for women to reach professional success

Practice for women with such difficulties

Final note
1 Lecture 03:09

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About the Instructor
Bertold Ulsamer
4.5 Average rating
166 Reviews
3,146 Students
11 Courses
Therapeut, Trainer und Coach

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PhD in law, certified clinical psychologist, NLP-trainer, trauma therapist (Peter Levine), originally from Germany. My strength is: Putting complicated psychological issues in a nutshell. Understandable for everyone - because the essence is simple! Moreover, I want my participants not only to get ahead theoretically, but also practically. Thus I set great value on them making new experiences and gaining new personal insights.

After graduating in law I also studied psychology. I quickly noticed that I way prefer working with humans to working with paragraphs. So I started to practice as a psychologist - initially with individuals, then mainly with groups. Together with a colleague I founded an institute for NLP in management trainin~* German Version below *~g. We developed and held many seminars about leadership, self-management and communication for customers like BMW, Siemens and Lufthansa.

In the 90’s I discovered the great influence of your own family of origin through the method of “family constellations”. Using this instrument I returned to working as a therapist and held seminars and trainings all over the world (e.g. in Australia, India, South Africa, Russia and the US).

Today I integrate everything I have learned working as a coach and therapist, for the last 9 years, oftentimes in China. I am the author of more than 20 books in the field of professional communication, self-management, family constellations and personal growth that have been translated into 10 languages.

If you are interested in the work I am doing then you may want to get information about my new courses and books. Inscribe you for my newsletter! And you will get reductions of some courses. You can do that on my website.

Dr. jur., Dipl.-Psychologe, NLP-Trainer, Traumatherapeut (Peter Levine). Meine Stärke ist: komplizierte psychologische Sachverhalte verständlich auf den Punkt bringen. Denn das Wesentliche ist im Grunde einfach! Und dann ist mir vor allem wichtig, dass Teilnehmerinnen und Teilnehmer eigene Erfahrungen machen und neue Einsichten gewinnen statt nur in der Theorie schlauer zu werden!

Nach dem Jurastudium habe ich noch Psychologie studiert. Schnell habe ich gemerkt, dass mir Menschen lieber sind als Paragraphen. Habe dann mit einer kleinen Praxis angefangen, aber vor allem immer mit Gruppen gearbeitet. Ein Kollege und ich gründeten dann ein Institut für Management-Training, wo ich viele Seminare zu Führung, Kommunikation und Selbst-management durchführte für Kunden wie BMW, Lufthansa und Siemens. Mitte der 90er Jahre entdeckte ich die große Auswirkung der eigenen Familie im Hintergrund über die Methode Familienaufstellungen. Damit ging ich noch einmal in die therapeutische Richtung und führte Seminare und Fortbildungen in der ganzen Welt durchgeführt (z. B. in Australien, Indien, Südafrika, USA, Russland) Heute integriere ich all das, was ich bisher gelernt habe, und arbeite als Seminarleiter, Therapeut und Coach, seit zehn Jahren häufig in China. Ich bin Autor von 24 Büchern zu den Themen Kommunikation, Selbstmanagement und Aufstellungsarbeit, von denen es Übersetzungen in zehn Sprachen gibt.