REDESIGN YOUR LIFE
The Redesign Your Life video course is a collection of my unique concepts designed to change your thinking and state so that you can maneuver closer to your potential and start getting what you want in life.
Relationships, career, fitness, it covers it all. This course is a primer to a brand new life, no matter what you're going through.
Sometimes life is less about fixing and more about realigning. Growth isn't easy but it doesn't have to be complicated. The realignment video course includes:
How to build yourself a brand new container Exploring your cognitive distortions Reducing your noise. Shifting your perspective Your center of gravity Turning your dial And much more.
You also get my free eBook Transparency and a Realignment PDF.
Everything starts with a safe container.Simply put, a cracked container stunts growth and a safe container promotes it.Imagine a water balloon with holes in it.
Every time there is a crack, your self esteem and self of worth leaks. And since no child enters adulthood unscarred, our balloons have been leaking for a long time. That's why we end up in abusive relationships, toxic friendships, a shitty job that grinds at you until you see change as only for others.In this session I will teach you how to build yourself a brand new container.
The word boundaries is used a lot in the self help world. The way I like to go in to this is through non-negotiables.What are you willing to negotiate about yourself and what are you not? Because when you start to have firm non-negotiables, you start to create healthy boundaries automatically. When you think of boundaries, you imagine a line that someone shouldn't cross.When you think about what you are willing and not willing to negotiate, it forces you to think about your worth.It gives you a voice.
Life is all about how you think.Success or “failure”, however you define them, will only amplify your thought process, especially unhealthy patterns of thinking.Right behind your thoughts are feelings.If your thinking is unhealthy, how you feel about yourself will most likely hold you down.Emotions are more powerful than your logic so your feelings can over power you and send you into a muddy ditch.
How much joy are you able to produce in your daily life? If you don't have this ability, your happiness will always be contingent on external factors.What you own.Who you're with.How you look.Of course, these things can bring you more joy or happiness.But you must have the ability to produce joy with what you have now, not what you want.Because what we want will always change.This ability is a tool and will help keep your container safe and aligned.
Now let's check your physical state.Many underestimate the importance of having a daily exercise routine.It's not about abs.Physical activity stimulates various brain chemicals that leave you feeling happier and more relaxed.It elevates mood.Promotes better sleep.Gives you more energy.Fitness is essential in having a safe container.Not extra.Any kind of fitness, whatever you gravitate toward.
Are you micro living or macro living?
Most people live micro due to uncertainty of the future.The fear of not knowing what's going to happen keeps them stuck and not moving forward.If you are living mostly micro, the first thing you need to do is pull back.Way back.Examine the events from your past.Do these events lead to something?Can you connect dots?Does your story make sense?
Shifting perspective and the power of turning your dials. Three examples on how to turn your dial and how that will manifest into your daily life. And finally, we discuss your center of gravity and how to create a stronger center.
John Kim, aka The Angry Therapist, is a LMFT whose practice redefines “therapy" in the traditional sense. He uses the internet as a therapeutic tool with an online community as the main space for growth and healing. John and his team provide support to make mental health a daily practice, integrated in everyday life. Join the movement, Live Different: