I tell my divorce story, the ups and downs, the good and bad advice, so that you can see where I was, and how I ended up. Now after several years I have successfully blended a new family, and have been married for more than two years to a wonderful wife. Now finding the courage deep within, I tell my divorce story so that I can share hope and encouragement with others.
If you desire to recover quickly from a divorce, learn the tips and techniques that I have explained to be able to heal faster and go forward with a blended or new family in less time than it takes most. By thinking about the ends during the process and where you want to wind up, you can make several key decisions and make your situation a much better one than it could otherwise be.
My main goal, is to share with you the real feelings and thoughts that I went through, that changed and transformed me as a person as I struggled and sought to find the differences between several feelings and emotions that I eventually processed. Through my experience you will come to have this knowledge, and be able to relate in your own experience, and from that, you will be able to navigate to a much better outcome in the end.
In all my videos, I offer up tips and thoughts for you to think about and take with you, and I give them to you in almost every video. I want you to succeed where I failed, and even though I had a great outcome, I want yours to be better. I want you to have less stress and anxiety, to find the answers faster, and know what problems you will face, and what to think about, so that you will be prepared, and then you will be in a better place, with greater wisdom and thought.
How my story started out, the context of my own divorce.
If you see a future, you will strive to find it.
Learning to evaluate your previous and next relationships.
Sometimes you get hurt/penalized for doing the right thing, but why you should continue to do the right thing.
Making mistakes is part of the journey, not the end of the journey.
What was once lost, can be gained again.
Dealing with twists and turns along the way, and how to handle them.
The craft of finding hope and faith, when none seems to exist.
Looking for who you are, and help finding that out.
Evaluate your relationships periodically.
How to find a balance between concern, worry, trust and responsibility.
My 3 hour prayer story
Briefly how to detect selfishness in yourself and others, whether good or bad.
Final words, as you move on.
What I wished I had known before I went to court.
I have been making music, since 1992. I have 3 labels, and 2 bands. I have programmed and written over 800 sequences, and when I have time, write about 80-100 songs a year. At one point I owned 19 keyboard synths, and 20+ synth rack modules. I used to record and arrange on a setup that consisted of a 24 channel Soundcraft, with 3 DA-88's and a Roland MC-50Mk2. I came to Logic and Apple in 2007, and picked up Ableton Live in 2009. I sold most of my hardware, and bought in to soft-synths, after I sampled my most used sounds, and was able to reliably use those. I continue to write to this day, and keep learning new techniques, and new ways to improve my music. Now that I have amassed such knowledge, I have found the joy of sharing what I know with others who can benefit from my years of experience.
Beside music, I have worked with electronics since 1990, and have built, repaired and fixed many things along the way. I got really sucked into electronics, when my synth passion ignited, and I found out that they need to be repaired frequently. I started repairing synths as early as 1998, learning about the ins and outs of the electronics that they were founded on.
I took an interest in programming keyboards, with my first programmable keyboard, which was a Kawai K11, which I bought in 1992. I did not know it then, but programming a keyboard, and programming a computer, are not very far off.
In 1994, I bought my one and only sequencer, a Roland MC50-Mk2, which I have to this day, and it writes in DD floppy drives. I have a collection of DD drives, since they are not easily found today. I composed over 800 sequences on that sequencer over a 10 year period. I learned how to arrange, and that arrangement method was directly transferrable to Ableton Live.
Since 1984 I also been an avid Photographer, and have invested in cameras, lenses, video equipment, and other sorts of gear, to not only share what I know, but how I think. Over time I have also developed a deeper spiritual sense, that has come to offer comfort, to those I hold dear, and has helped me to achieve peace within myself. I have published my photography works, and use my photography skills for a number of different uses. I also will have courses on photography and video techniques, to share, ones that I have learned over the years.
In 2007, I began to build up my contemplative skills, and began to think more about the world, and who I was. In 2011, I was forced to speed up this process, and went through a number of breakthroughs, and revelations. In 2013, and into 2014, I experienced spiritual awakening, in new and different ways, and had a lot of my beliefs turned upside down, or replaced, or expanded. As you may have guessed, I have now a lot to talk about on this issue, and I will be making courses for self-development, and personal development, along with helping you to understand some of the things that you may be going through, and how to cope or grow beyond them. Hope is always possible, in all situations, and a better outcome can always be pursued.
If you have a course that you would like me to teach, just send me a note, and I will add it to my list. I am always looking to help others, and mentor people, as I have the time. I hope that I have been able to help you, and grow your skills and talents, as you look for ways to express them.
I hope you enjoy watching and learning from these courses, as much as I enjoy teaching them. Be well, and take care my friend.