Precision Communication - The NLP Meta Model.
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Precision Communication - The NLP Meta Model.

Learn the Meta Model and Easily Improve Your Communication Skills with Yourself and Other People.
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Created by John Hannah Coach
Last updated 8/2017
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  • 1 hour on-demand video
  • 3 Articles
  • 17 Supplemental Resources
  • Full lifetime access
  • Access on mobile and TV
  • Certificate of Completion

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What Will I Learn?
  • Identify all Meta Model language patterns
  • Be better at conversation and interaction with other people.
  • Be able to challenge people who don't provide information that is requested.
  • To communicate more effectively with people in any area of life.
  • Identify when people leave out important information in a conversation.
  • To recover missing information in a conversation.
  • Identify when people distort important information in a conversation.
  • To clarify distorted information in a conversation.
  • Identify when people generalise important information in a conversation.
  • To specify generalised information in a conversation.
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Requirements
  • A desire to protect yourself from deliberate mis-communicators.
  • A desire to help people (unconscious communicators) express themselves.
  • A desire to develop a more positive internal dialogue.
  • A desire to be able to communicate more effectively.
Description

THE PROBLEM:

A. Some people use mental (linguistic) rules to deliberately mis-communicate information. They hide things from us so they are in control of the conversation, the situation or the information and knowledge. 

B. However, there are some people who have no idea, that they aren’t communicating the whole picture to those around them. They unconsciously mis-communicate. 

C. We also mis-communicate with ourselves. Our internal dialogue can be negative unhelpful and limiting. 

Any mis-communication often causes pain, issues and a whole host of problems can arise due to mis-understanding or just not getting the whole picture when we interact with people, or indeed with ourselves.

THE SOLUTION: 

When we are on the receiving end of an interaction, we need to ensure communication is clear and that we understand the other person fully. 

A. When dealing with ‘deliberate mis-communicators’: 

  1. We ought to challenge these types of people. 
  2. This helps us to empower ourselves. 
  3. It often helps to empower other people as well.

B. When dealing with those who ‘unconsciously mis-communicate’: 

  1. We can challenge these types of people. 
  2. This helps us to empower them. 
  3. It often helps to empower ourselves and other people as well.

C. When dealing with ourselves and our own internal dialogue’: 

  1. We can pay attention to our own language patterns and change them. 
  2. This helps us to empower ourselves and become more positive and successful. 
  3. It often helps when other people have someone positive around them.

So we are protected from the deliberate mis-communicators and we can interact more effectively with those people who unconsciously or unintentionally don’t provide us with the full story during an interaction. We also have more respect for our own inner voice and become more empowered through our positive internal dialogue.

Being able to identify this communication and to use the Meta model to recover, clarify and specify information is key a communication skill.

WHAT HUMANS DO WHEN THEY SPEAK 

Humans by their nature, will leave information out of conversations. They will distort information and people also  generalise what they say. 

We may have half an idea of what is going on …but I know as well as you do, that you really need to get a full picture of what any communication is about and …what that interaction means to us.

Who is the target audience?
  • Those who want to improve their relationships and communication with other people.
  • Anyone who needs to recover, clarify or specify communications when interacting with others.
  • Coaches who want to be in full possession of their client requirements.
  • Therapists who want to get to the root cause of their clients issue.
  • Police Officers who want to gather information more effectively.
  • Fire Fighters who need to clarify situations quickly.
  • Nurses and Doctors who have to specify conditions and issues.
  • Investigators who ought to capture as much case information as possible.
  • Business Analysts who wish to clearly collate requirements.
  • Programmers who would like to to specify customer needs.
  • Those who would like to express themselves better.
  • I'll stop here because the list of people who would benefit is never ending ...
  • Think about it ...where would good questioning and communication sills benefit you?
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Curriculum For This Course
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Introduction
4 Lectures 10:21

There are three main problems solved by understanding the Meta Model. Watch the video and understand why you would learn it. 

Understand why it can help you communicate more effectively not only with others but with yourself.

Preview 01:44

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ's)

The answers to some questions you may have ...or contact me. 

1. Is this the course for me?  

By the end of this course you will be competent in the use of the Meta Model. You can use these skills to challenge those who would manipulate or influence you in a negative way and positively improve your own communications and relationships with almost anyone. 

2. Who uses the Meta Model to improve communication?

- Those who want to improve their relationships and communication with other people.

- Anyone who needs to recover, clarify or specify communications when interacting with others.

- Coaches who want to be in full possession of their client requirements.

- Therapists who want to get to the root cause of their clients issue.

- Police Officers who want to gather information more effectively.

- Fire Fighters who need to clarify situations quickly.

- Nurses and Doctors who have to specify conditions and issues.

- Investigators who ought to capture as much case information as possible.

- Business Analysts who wish to clearly collate requirements.

- Programmers who would like to to specify customer needs.

- Those who would like to express themselves better.

- People who would like to help other people express themselves.

- I’ll stop here because the list of people who would benefit is never ending.


Think about it! ...where would good questioning and communication sills benefit you?


3. What if I have questions during the course?  

Just ask me in the community forum. I’ll be happy to help. 4. How long do I have access to this course?  You have lifetime access to the course materials and all future updates!

5. Can I watch this course offline?  

Yes, just download the Udemy app. Udemy doesn’t allow the download of video to a PC at this time. 

6. Do I have to complete the lectures in order?  

No you don't. Each language pattern is a stand alone lecture. Having said that, people will use various patterns in one statement. It would be good to learn them all …one by one 

7. I’m having problems playing the videos. 

Please use a different browser and/or internet connection. If that doesn't help, please contact support@udemy.com as I don't control the platform.

8. Most people don't want a refund what if I do?  

Request a refund directly through Udemy up to 30 days after buying the course.

9. What if I have questions during the course?  

Just ask me in the community forum. I’ll be happy to help.

10. As you learn, please join in with any community discussion.  

Solving problems for other students is a great way to reinforce your own learning.

Let's get going!

Preview 01:51

THE PROBLEM: Some people use mental rules to deliberately mis-communicate information. They hide things from us so they are in control of the conversation, the situation or the information and knowledge. The rules are in the form of language patterns.

However, there are also some people who have no idea, that they aren’t communicating the whole picture to those around them. 

Then there is the issue of our own internal dialogue. That negative inner voice that limits us in some way. Sometimes we don’t communicate effectively with ourselves.

Any mis-communication often causes pain, issues and a whole host of problems can arise due to mis-understanding or just not getting the whole picture when we interact with people or as we know …it can be an issue when we interact with ourselves.

THE SOLUTION: When we are on the receiving end of an interaction, we need to ensure communication is clear and that we understand the other person fully. Also that we understand how our own internal dialogue influences us. 

When dealing with ‘deliberate mis-communicators’: 

1. We need to challenge these types of people. 

2. This helps us to empower ourselves. 

3. It often helps to empower other people as well.

When dealing with those who ‘unconsciously mis-communicate’: 

1. We need to challenge these types of people. 

2. This helps us to empower them. 

3. It often helps to empower ourselves and other people as well.

When dealing with our own internal dialogue’: 

1. We need to challenge ourselves and our own limiting or negative patterns. 

2. This helps us to empower us. 

3. It often helps to empower other people when we communicate more effectively.

Preview 06:17

We all like a challenge. This one is relatively easy ...give it a go!

Preview 00:29
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Some guides to help BEFORE you get into the patterns!
2 Lectures 08:16

Learn how we will use a technique to challenge each Meta model langauge patterns for best effect. This will allow us to recover, clarify and specify violations in peoples speech. 

When we do this we can become more aware and recognise how language influences us.

How to challenge incomplete language.
05:14
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Deletions
5 Lectures 10:20

Learn what deletions are and how they work. Then work through and learn each pattern for yourself.

Come back to the forum and let us know how they work for you.

Preview 00:39

Learn how this language pattern is used and how to challenge it where appropriate using 5WH. 

Leave some feedback on the community forum when you have tested the pattern in the real world. Feel free to ask me questions in the forum.

Good luck.

"You left something out" - Simple Deletions
02:06

Learn how this language pattern is used and how to challenge it where appropriate using 5WH. 

Leave some feedback on the community forum when you have tested the pattern in the real world. Feel free to ask me questions in the forum.

Good luck.

“I don’t know who you mean.” - Lack of Referential Index.
02:35

Learn how this language pattern is used and how to challenge it where appropriate using 5WH. 

Leave some feedback on the community forum when you have tested the pattern in the real world. Feel free to ask me questions in the forum.

Good luck.

“How will you do that?” - Unspecified Verbs.
02:41

Learn how this language pattern is used and how to challenge it where appropriate using 5WH. 

Leave some feedback on the community forum when you have tested the pattern in the real world. Feel free to ask me questions in the forum.

Good luck.

“I don’t know what you are comparing.” - Comparative Deletions
02:19

Deletion quiz!
1 question
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Distortions
6 Lectures 12:34

Learn what distortions are and how they work. Then work through and learn each pattern for yourself.

Come back to the forum and let us know how they work for you.

Preview 00:39

Learn how this language pattern is used and how to challenge it where appropriate using 5WH. 

Leave some feedback on the community forum when you have tested the pattern in the real world. Feel free to ask me questions in the forum.

Good luck.

“X will cause Y to happen.” - Cause Effect.
02:38

Learn how this language pattern is used and how to challenge it where appropriate using 5WH. 

Leave some feedback on the community forum when you have tested the pattern in the real world. Feel free to ask me questions in the forum.

Good luck.

“Who says so?.” - Lost Performative.
02:40

Learn how this language pattern is used and how to challenge it where appropriate using 5WH. 

Leave some feedback on the community forum when you have tested the pattern in the real world. Feel free to ask me questions in the forum.

Good luck.

“I think I know what you think.” - Mind Read
02:04

Learn how this language pattern is used and how to challenge it where appropriate using 5WH. 

Leave some feedback on the community forum when you have tested the pattern in the real world. Feel free to ask me questions in the forum.

Good luck.

“This means that.” - Complex Equivalence.
02:00

Learn how this language pattern is used and how to challenge it where appropriate using 5WH. 

Leave some feedback on the community forum when you have tested the pattern in the real world. Feel free to ask me questions in the forum.

Good luck.

“What is involved, in the process you are describing?” - Nominalisation.
02:33

Distortion quiz!
1 question
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Generalisations.
4 Lectures 10:25

Learn what generalisations are and how they work. Then work through and learn each pattern for yourself.

Come back to the forum and let us know how they work for you.

Preview 00:39

Learn how this language pattern is used and how to challenge it where appropriate using 5WH. 

Leave some feedback on the community forum when you have tested the pattern in the real world. Feel free to ask me questions in the forum.

Good luck.

“Is it really in every single case?.” - Universal Quantifiers
02:47

Learn how this language pattern is used and how to challenge it where appropriate using 5WH. 

Leave some feedback on the community forum when you have tested the pattern in the real world. Feel free to ask me questions in the forum.

Good luck.

“You can/can’t, will/won’t, may/may not, etc?.” - Modal Operators.
03:55

Learn how this language pattern is used and how to challenge it where appropriate using 5WH. 

Leave some feedback on the community forum when you have tested the pattern in the real world. Feel free to ask me questions in the forum.

Good luck.

“I’m assuming this to be true.” Presupposition.
03:04

Generalisation quiz!
1 question
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Finally!
2 Lectures 02:07

The Meta Model cheat sheet is a one page list of the Meta Model Patterns. 

Download it, print it off and use as a handy reference.

Your mission, if you choose to accept it ...

Meta Model Spy Game:

At work, or play ...keep the cheat sheet near. When you interact with someone and you recognise their patterns, mark them off on a copy of this cheat sheet. Spy on one person at a time and collate their most used Meta Model violations. 

When you have someone sussed out ...move on to the next person.

This will help you build a picture of the most used language patterns people use. You'll be more informed and better prepared next time you interact with those you've spied on.

Meta Model cheat sheet
00:31

The Meta Monster.
01:36
About the Instructor
John Hannah Coach
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Personal Development Trainer and Transformation Coach

John Hannah - Mind Coach

My name is John Hannah. I’m a personal development trainer and transformation coach.

* I’ve been involved in personal development for 12 years. 

* I’ve used personal change tools to help people:
   - Increase sports performance
   - In coaching 
   - With therapy clients 
   - Dealing with relationship issues
   - Getting over abuse
   - To learn faster
   - Remove fears and phobias
   - Banish anxiety and depression
   - To help people create high-performance mental states

* I teach people various transformation and coaching tools including:
   - Hypnotherapy
   - Neuro Linguistic Programming 
   - New Code NLP
   - Eye Movement Therapy
   - Emo Trance
   - Emotional Freedom Technique
   - Family Constellations
   - Yoga techniques

* I run workshops, certification courses, and offer 1-2-1 consultations.

Why UDEMY?

"I decided that UDEMY would be a fantastic forum for the work I do. I'd like to help even more people to achieve, to remove mental blocks and get to where they want to be in life. I've taken the skills and experience gained running workshops, practitioner courses and in 1-2-1 client consultations, then transferred those skills to the online training world."

My aim is to ensure people use these tools in an ethical way that ensures success. 

Simplifying the tools so others can use them while ensuring they remain effective; is a particular talent of mine.

Enjoy the learnings.