Overcome Shameful Thoughts and Feelings, to Have Better Sex!

Learn how to unleash the power of your subconscious mind, to discover and heal the origins of your sexual shame.
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  • Lectures 11
  • Length 1.5 hours
  • Skill Level All Levels
  • Languages English
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About This Course

Published 5/2015 English

Course Description

"...Shame causes us to feel that we are unacceptable." - Norman Bales, Coping With Shame and Guilt

The conflicting messages about sex and sexuality are so pervasive in our culture, it's no wonder so many of us are confused. We are taught that our bodies are inherently shameful, that our sexual thoughts, feelings, and desires, are wicked. Yet we see sexual imagery all around us, encouraging us to buy all manner of products. We are supposed to conform to a certain standard of attractiveness and desirability, but maintain our virtue, chastity, and modesty.

If we deviate even slightly from our locally accepted, currently fashionable, socially imposed "norms" we are shamed. As a result, you might have troubles fully accepting and embracing your sexuality, and this can often lead to challenges in your intimate relationships.

Through 7 video lectures, you will explore:

  • What Is Shame?
  • Where Does Shame Come From?
  • Tips and Tricks to Overcome Shame

By overcoming shameful thoughts and feelings about sex in general, or perhaps specific sexual thoughts, desires, and / or behaviors, you will be able to have a happier, more fulfilling, more deeply intimate sex life with the partner(s) of your choice.

What are the requirements?

  • Have a desire to be UN-ashamed about sexual thoughts, feelings, desires, and actions.
  • Have a willingness to learn - and try - something new.
  • Have a belief that your sex life - even if it's already good - could be better by overcoming shame.

What am I going to get from this course?

  • In the first section, you will meet your instructor, and get an overview of the course.
  • In the second section, you will explore the origins of Shame and how to overcome it.
  • In the third section, there is a hypnosis session that empowers you to overcome your shame.

Who is the target audience?

  • This course is meant for students who have experienced shameful thoughts or feelings about sex. If you have ever been ashamed to share your sexual fantasies with your partner; if the very thought of wanting sex, or having sex, or enjoying sex causes you to feel ashamed; if you were raised to feel that your body is something inherently wicked or shameful, then this course is for you.

What you get with this course?

Not for you? No problem.
30 day money back guarantee.

Forever yours.
Lifetime access.

Learn on the go.
Desktop, iOS and Android.

Get rewarded.
Certificate of completion.


Section 1: Are You Ready To Get Started?

You'll get to meet your instructor, and learn about my professional background and motivations for creating this course. You'll also have a clear idea of what this course is all about, who it is intended for, and what you'll get out of it by the end.

Who Is This Course Designed For?

Some background information on how this course came to be.


Since I am developing several different hypnosis courses, and each one will need an Introductory section, I've opted to create a standalone Introductory course. Learn about that here.

Important Correction to Lecture 4
From the Intro Course
3 questions
Section 2: What is Shame? How Do I Know I Have It? How Does it Impact My Relationships?

Some of the best descriptions and definitions of shame I found during my research on the topic.


In this lecture, you'll gain some insight into the origins of your shame.


We'll go in depth with some tips and tricks to overcome shame.

Overcoming Shame - The Quiz
2 questions
Section 3: Hypnosis Session! Get comfortable and relaxed...

Some tips to make listening to the hypnosis process easier, more comfortable, and more effective.

Overcoming Shame: The Hypnosis Process
Section 4: Appendix
Bonus! Free Coupon Code for Introductory Section

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Instructor Biography

Tani Barr, Joy Diva; Certified Hypnotist; Teacher, Artist

Tani Barr has been a Certified Hypnotist since 2003, helping groups and individuals make profound changes to their lives by reprogramming their subconscious minds. She began her training with Dr. Patrick Porter and Positive Changes Hypnosis, where she discovered a deep joy in helping others achieve their goals, and has continued to learn ever since, taking advanced courses from leading trainers such as Cal Banyan, Don Mottin, Jerry Valley and Sheila Grainger.

Tani brings a holistic, mind-body-spirit approach to her clients, and assists each unique individual in creating a mental and emotional roadmap for their journey to success.

When she's not practicing hypnosis, Tani expresses her lifelong love of music by playing cello with two local orchestras; she also enjoys creating handcrafted crochet gifts, swimming, dancing, reading, and, most of all, spending time with her two teenage daughters. She and her daughters share their home with several cats, dogs, ferrets, and fish.

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