Dating: Master the Dating Game

Dating is a test, we show you how to nail it: Dating Mastery leads you to find your love and happiness.
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  • Lectures 49
  • Length 2.5 hours
  • Skill Level All Levels
  • Languages English
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About This Course

Published 9/2015 English

Course Description

Dating Mastery will show you how to attract that perfect someone.

Dating Mastery Student's Quote:

"I smiled and made quick eye contact with the mysterious handsome stranger. It was enough. He smiled back and approached for a conversation. We are now entering our third date this coming weekend."

Tricia (Feb 2016 Update: They are still dating)





Sunday morning … Lazing in bed … Discussing your next adventure… Sharing stories… Secrets…Singing off key… Together - Or, stay single and wake up to… the cat! Actually, you probably will wake up to the cat either way!

Discover your strengths in the crazy world of romance, develop your weaknesses..

This dating course is for people looking for grown up love.

One in five people meet their partner through online dating. Where do you think the other four meet their partners? Don't know, find out in this course.

Are your dating ventures are in the wrong places? Dating Mastery helps you to discover the right places.

You feel you are too fat, too thin, too shy, not dating material...

There is no such thing as out of your league.

This is not a dating dilemma, this is lack of confidence and self worth. Dating Mastery helps you.

Dating starts with a conversation. Dating Mastery helps you.

Girls wait for Superman their whole life, yet walk past Clark Kent every day.

Sometimes it is braver to be Clark Kent than Superman.

It’s time to make your list, the kind that determines who may be the right person. Dating Mastery helps you.

If you want traditional dating advice then don’t come to us.

If you are looking to find a date that is finer than a French Bordeaux, Dating Mastery helps you.

We can help you, but we can’t MAKE you do the dating activities.

It's up to you.

YOU want to make memories, want grown up love and refuse to let life get in the way of your happy endingsDating Mastery is for you.

We are wired to love and be loved. One day you are going to roll over and kiss the love of your life good morning because you became successful at Dating.

Take the first steps. Dating Mastery leads you to find the love of your life.

What are you waiting for?

We have work to do…Hit the “BUY NOW” button - let’s get started!

What are the requirements?

  • You will have to be willing to take action and actually work on your Dating skills.
  • You will need to have an open mind and heart
  • You will need to be ready to accept that you can be a great date.
  • You will need a computer and internet connection

What am I going to get from this course?

  • Learn the right places to start grownup dating.
  • Develop confidence in dating situations
  • Treat Dating as an adventure
  • Attract more people into your life. Dating is a numbers game.
  • Take your communication skills to new levels ensuring Dating success.
  • Create a list that will help you identify the perfect person for you before you start Dating him/her.

Who is the target audience?

  • This course is for men and for women
  • This course is for you if you are not happy being single.
  • This course is for you if you are ready for grown up Dating.
  • This course is for you if you ready to make changes to yourself in order to Master the Art of Dating.
  • This course is not for you if you are not planning on attempting the Dating activities.
  • This course is not for you if you are not willing to work on yourself and your Dating skills.
  • This course is for you if you have been looking for love in all the wrong places.
  • This course is for you if you are ready to write your own love story.

What you get with this course?

Not for you? No problem.
30 day money back guarantee.

Forever yours.
Lifetime access.

Learn on the go.
Desktop, iOS and Android.

Get rewarded.
Certificate of completion.


Section 1: Dating Leads To A Relationship. Oh The Possibilities

It's a jungle out there. Everyone seems to be looking for their one true love. So why hasn't it happened for you?


Life and dating is a journey. Brace yourself for the good, the bad and the ugly and enjoy the adventure.

Section 2: Dating & The Art Of Conversation

“Of all the life skills available to us, communication is perhaps the most empowering.” Brett Morrison


Verbal communication is essentially…talking. Conversations.

Are you good at starting conversations?


Engaging in interesting, memorable small talk is a daunting task for most people. How do you know what to share and when to share it? How do you know what topics to avoid? How do you become an engaging converser?

Lets look at different levels of conversations and when each level is appropriate.


Verbal is the words. Para-verbal is how you say the words. Have you ever heard the saying “it's not what you say, but how you say it?” This is para -verbal.


Questions are a way to engage. They can establish rapport, spark interest, and curiosity, break new ground and communicate sincerity. Questions keep the conversation flowing with even the shyest person.


This is my personal Toastmasters story


Body language is very important in communication. We communicate, even when we are not speaking.


Understanding body language does more than improve relationships. By noticing the body language of others, you will have insight into the thoughts and feelings of those around you.


Understanding body language does more than improve relationships. By noticing the body language of others, you will have insight into the thoughts and feelings of those around you.

Activity: Body Language PDF
1 page

Eyes have long been the point for animals to detect the intentions of another. The eyes tell much that you want to know and for that reason alone, this may be the most important lecture in this course.


Share and practice

Activity: Eye Contact PDF
1 page

Remember, you never have a second chance to make a first impression.

Section 3: Dating Involves Listening. How Are Your Listening Skills?

Most people can hear, but few really listen. If you are one of these people, (and most of us are) you need to brush up on your listening skills. Here are 4 quick and dirty tricks to improve your listening skills.


Leaving a good first date impression is usually at the forefront of our minds but sometimes we can get carried away in the excitement, or perhaps let the nerves get the better of us and make a little (or large) blunder that could seal our fate and even cut all chances of a second date! So, how do we avoid such faux pas?


Can you think of a time when you were hearing rather than actively listening?

Activity: Listen Up PDF
1 page
Section 4: Know What You Want Before You Start Dating

I believe you never really know who is the perfect fit for you until you lock eyes.


Have you ever made a list of qualities you want in your “perfect partner”?


We talked about the qualities we would like. What about the ones we don't like?


We talked about what you want and what you don't want. Are you sure your list describes your perfect spouse?

Section 5: Dating: Are You Looking In The Right Places?

Where am I going to meet my date?


Okay, you don’t necessarily have to ask your friends outright to find you the perfect date, but you can let your friends know that you are open to the possibilities of finding the right person.


There are many ways to meet like minded people.


I am not kidding. There is the potential for creating a relationship anywhere, anytime.


I have several friends that have met through online dating sites. It works, it really does work…for some.


I have to share with you this crazy story about a friends online dating experience.


Your turn. Do you have a first date story where the date didn't turn out the way you expected?

Activity: First Date. Your Stories PDF
1 page
Section 6: We've Talked About Dating, Now Let's Talk About You

“We cannot think of being acceptable to others until we have first proven acceptable to ourselves.”

A quote by Malcolm X


Louise Hay says it all. “The more I focus my mind upon the good, the more good comes to me.”

How to do that? Affirmations.


Self-confidence is important in any area of communication. It is especially important in dating. People are attracted to confident people.


Self-worth is about being your own best friend.

Treating yourself as you would like others to treat you.


How do you perceive your own self worth?

Activity: Self Worth Inventory
3 pages

Here are 5 tips to challenge you.

Self-Worth 5 Tips PDF
1 page

Okay, maybe not love yourself, but at the very least like yourself before you get out there and expect someone else to “like” you.


Life's problems reveal who we really are. Or more to the point, how we deal with life problems reveal who we really are.

Negative Traits PDF
2 pages

Remember negative thinking can become a habit, but habits can be broken.

Activity: Rebuttals To Negative Thinking PDF
2 pages

Being positive and feeling good about one's self is the key. Positive people are a pleasure to be around. Positive people have a sense of self worth and exude confidence. And confidence is attractive.

Section 7: Dating: Conclusion

I am sad that I have to include a warning about dating.


Someday someone is going to look at you like you are the best thing in the world. Be ready, Be open, be there to want them as much as they want you.


That all important first date. Where to go, when to go, oh the possibilities.

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Instructor Biography

Judy Clark, Trainer/Consultant/Online Educator

        I am passionate about delivering experiential training to the highest standard. Seeking to lead by example, I help people to push themselves, grow personally, improve their people skills, and to learn more, and learn often.

        “Every time I teach, I learn."

        I consider myself a learner every bit as much as a teacher. Infused with the need to share my passion, I provide a learning environment in which the experience is fun, involved, creative and engaging.

        I have been blessed to have a life that has included extensive travel, the experience of living in another country and a diverse background, all which have resulted in unique skill sets.

        My specialties include, eLearning, Communication, Customer Service, Professional Speaking, Business Development, Leadership & Influence, Public Speaking, Presentation Skills, Teamwork & Team-building, Job Search and Travel.

        Formal Qualifications:

        ·Certificate in master 150 hour (TEFL) Teaching English As a Foreign Language

        ·Certificate IV in Training & Assessment (Awarded Distinction)

        ·Advanced Diploma Resort & Tourism Management

        I'm a traveler, learner, writer, reader, manager of a house trained Aussie, and cat servant - the ultimate customer.

Instructor Biography

Alan Brooks, Educator at Udemy, yearning to learn and share equally.

I am passionate about Customer Service. Why? Well, I run a business and want my staff to get more business... but the real reason is, I am a customer!

With more than 30 years of management, sales and business experience at a senior level in the USA, Canada, Australasia and, rather happily, the Caribbean, I have practiced and taught Customer Service to many people. In my view, everyone in the company is in sales.

My background is in information technology and science. I have worked with Vital Statistics information management systems, Museum management systems and science programs. My experience is in government and corporate enterprise with large and small organisations, including the largest museums on the planet. Some of the great relationships I have built have been with wonderful people at the Smithsonian Institution in DC, the American Museum of Natural History in New York City, New York Botanic Gardens, Yale University and the Natural History Museum in London.

My talent for customer relations, sales, marketing, account management, project management, general management and human relations are built into this course. My experience producing on-line training and webinars for the museum and vital statistics markets fin the past five years has been great in the preparation of this course.

The secret to my continuing success? I build great relationships.

Alan relaxes by indulging his loves; travel, reading, learning, Judy and three pesky cats. An award winning public speaker, Alan is writing a novel and short scripts in between the development of new and exciting courses.

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