Love After Kids: Revitalize Your Relationship Today
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Love After Kids: Revitalize Your Relationship Today

A 4 Week Couples Therapy To Restoring Love, Intimacy & Passion In Your Relationship & Marriage
5.0 (1 rating)
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749 students enrolled
Created by David Younger
Last updated 8/2017
English
Current price: $10 Original price: $200 Discount: 95% off
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Includes:
  • 4.5 hours on-demand video
  • 3 Articles
  • 21 Supplemental Resources
  • Full lifetime access
  • Access on mobile and TV
  • Certificate of Completion
What Will I Learn?
  • Get in the right mindset to face the challenges you’re experiencing in your relationship
  • Achieve a healthy and mature romantic relationship with your partner
  • Start working on the foundation to reconstruct your marriage and make new connections with your partner
  • Discover Practical and easy-to-apply strategies for communicating effectively & managing conflict to reclaim your relationship
  • Learn about the impact that kids can have on your relationship
  • A proven system to discover common ground and a new sense of togetherness with your partner
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Requirements
  • A computer or a smartphone with internet access
Description

              THE PROVEN SYSTEM THAT HELPED 100’s OF COUPLES DRAMATICALLY

                               IMPROVE THEIR RELATIONSHIPS AFTER HAVING KIDS

                                       (WORKS FOR BOTH COUPLES & INDIVIDUALS):

No doubt about it, having kids affects marriages in a big way. Before having kids, couples are in love and are very happy with each other, but as soon as kids come into the picture...It’s an entirely different story.

Couples start to communicate less & less, they start to ignore each other’s needs and argue over little things that were once considered trivial.

But, don’t worry! I’m here to help.

My name is David Younger and i want to welcome you to my course Love After Kids Relationship Toolkit.

This course combines 15 years of experience working one on one with couples as well as an immense amount of research for the goal of empowering couples with support, knowledge & tools to revitalize their relationships.

The Love After Kids Relationship Toolkit is a program that was designed specifically for people that have struggled in their relationships since having kids, providing clear, accessible and practical solutions that can be implemented right away!

                                         I’M WILLING TO DO ANYTHING TO RESTORE

                                               MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY SPOUSE..

These are the exact words I hear time and time again from my clients who come to me for help.

If your relationship is important to you, and I’m sure it is, then you owe it to yourself, your partner, and your kid(s) to do whatever is in your power to restore your relationship.

As long as you have the willingness & desire to work on your relationship, then i’ve got great news for you: There’s still hope!

You CAN change your relationship for the better...And i can help you do so!

                                       DON'T BUY INTO ANY OF THE FOLLOWING MYTHS:

  1. People can’t change:

Not true at all! Brain research in the past decades has completely debunked the myth that our brains are hardwired. Our brains are constantly changing.

  1. It takes two to make it work:

It does take two, but this course was designed so that it can be taken both by couples and/or individuals.

This course will be immensely beneficial even if you’re the only one who takes action.

  1. Time heals everything:

When you neglect to address misunderstandings and arguments when they occur in your relationship, they tend to occur more & more and things often get worse instead of better.

Don’t buy into any of the false myths above. You deserve to be in a healthy relationship where you feel loved and appreciated.

                                                     SAVE MONEY, TIME, & ENERGY!

Not everyone has the luxury of attending weekly couple’s therapy.

The Love After Kids Relationship Toolkit provides an amazing alternative means of working on your relationship.

While you can use it in conjunction with therapy, the program was designed to save you a lot of time, money and energy with real solutions to a real need.

                                                  HERE IS WHAT YOU WILL GET:

Module 1: Introduction and the Problem with Complacency

In the first module, you'll be introduced to the ground rules and structure for how the program works and you'll learn about:

  • The specific struggles that having kids can create in your relationship.

  • The harmful effects constant parental conflict has on your kids.

  • The importance of looking at your situation through a different lens—as an audience member of your own movie—so you can start working on the foundation of identifying and understanding your own habits within the relationship.

  • You'll gain insight into how the brain works to process your emotions and feelings to then create states of being.

  • You'll learn to identify the signs of complacency in your relationship, as well as practical strategies to break out of complacency.

  • Exercises to help you stop living in a world of assumptions, and learn to communicate clearly with your partner to express your thoughts and feelings.

Module 2: Schema Therapy

We kick off the second module learning about several key concepts in Schema Therapy:

  • We'll talk about what triggers are, where they originate from, and what the difference is between triggers and memories.

  • You'll also do an imagery exercise to help you identify and understand your own triggers.

  • We’ll delve into the three main coping styles proposed in Schema Therapy: avoidance, surrender and overcompensating.

  • You'll be able to identify each coping style (often called defense mechanism) as well as understand how you're coping styles impact your relationship dynamics.

  • You'll learn about some of the most common “parts” you can play, how they each work and how you can “reprogram” yourself to not fall into these parts and roles.

  • You'll learn to distinguish between two main types of content, manifest and latent content, and how they each play into the relationship dynamics.

Module 3: Your Habits and Roles

In the third module we're going to talk about habits, specifically four types of habits: feeling habits, thinking habits, behavioral habits and interaction habits:

  • Throughout the module, you'll explore all of your habits and how they are impacting you and your relationship—and most important, what you can do about them.

  • You'll learn about the core roles in romantic relationships.

  • How you can shift between these roles—instead of remaining locked in certain roles—to achieve a healthy and mature romantic relationship with your partner.

Module 4: Implementing Lasting Change

After gaining so much knowledge and understanding it’s time to implement what you've learned. In this module:

  • You'll find practical and easy-to-apply strategies for communicating effectively in your own relationship.

  • You'll learn how it is that conflict in a relationship can be positive—and how you can take control of your conflict situations and transform it into an opportunity for growth.

  • You’ll receive simple and effective suggestions for you to battle complacency.

  • You’ll learn to think about and pay attention to your daily routines so you can break off the habits that you don't want to keep living in and intentionally create new routines that are beneficial to the relationship.

  • I’ll summarize the most important things we talked about during the program.

  • We’ll close with a 12-step plan to get you started in designing an action plan toward getting the relationship you want.

                                  COMPLETE SATISFACTION OR YOUR MONEY BACK!

I have absolutely no doubt that this course will help you revolutionize your relationship, but just in case...

We have a 30-day money back guarantee if you’re not satisfied with the course. So, there’s absolutely no risk to you - I hope you’ll join me inside the course!

Who is the target audience?
  • Anyone struggling in their relationship after having kids
  • Married couples (with kids) who want to revitalize their relationship
  • This course was designed for both individuals & couples who want to work on their relationship
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Curriculum For This Course
34 Lectures
04:34:05
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WEEK 1: INTRODUCTION AND THE PROBLEM WITH COMPLACENCY
7 Lectures 57:12


Introduction: Time To Refocus
08:20

Neural Plasticity: How Our Brains Work
03:55

Complacency
04:30

Assumptions
11:19

Love Play 1: Cultivating Awareness
10:29
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WEEK 2: SCHEMA THERAPY
5 Lectures 52:03
Triggers
10:54

Coping Styles
06:31

Understanding Parts
11:58

Manifest vs. Latent Content
10:26

Love Play 2: Coping Styles
12:14
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WEEK 3: YOUR HABITS AND RULES
3 Lectures 35:12
Habits
08:43

Role-Lock in Relationships
08:57

Love Play 3 Effective Communication
17:32
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WEEK 4: IMPLEMENTING LASTING CHANGE
5 Lectures 50:37
How to Communicate Effectively
08:40

Conflict Management
11:15

Your Routines
03:03

Your Action Plan
10:25

Love Play 4: Dealing with Differences
17:14
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RESOURCES
3 Lectures 00:26
Blog Spotlight
00:09

FAQs
00:03

Impact on Children
00:13
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BONUS 1: PARENT FOCUS
4 Lectures 01:03:19
Good Cop-Bad Cop
12:20

Kids and Electronics
16:37

Dealing with Differences
15:49

Parenting Triggers
18:33
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BONUS 2: DISCUSSION STARTERS
1 Lecture 05:13
Discussion Starters
05:13
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BONUS 3: 5-DAY CHALLENGE
6 Lectures 10:16
Intro
01:01

Day 1
02:31

Day 2
01:35

Day 3
02:00

Day 4
01:53

Day 5
01:16
About the Instructor
David Younger
3.7 Average rating
3 Reviews
1,624 Students
2 Courses
Clinical Psychologist

My name is David Younger. I am a licensed psychologist, trained couples therapist, researcher and creator of Love After Kids. I have been researching and working with couples for 15 years, which is also the amount of time I have been with my wife. I have had the incredible opportunity to have studied in some of the most prestigious institutions in the world and feel truly blessed to love my work. In my private practice, I have helped hundreds of couples that have come to me in moments of acute crisis, frustration and hopelessness to understand why they were stuck and empower them with the support, knowledge and tools to release themselves from self-imposed isolation.