
Definition of healthy and unhealthy boundaries.
Definition of boundaries and how they develop in either a healthy or unhealthy manner.
When shame is internalized, unhealthy boundaries result. This happens in dysfunctional families and cultures.
When unhealthy boundaries are modeled children become unable to distinguish or defend against abusive behavior. This section teaches what abuse is and how to defend against it.
Learn what healthy boundaries are and how they can help relationships. This part of the lecture also contains a conclusion to this course.
This section describes how feelings build within the system and describes the difference between primary and secondary feelings.
The details of what constitutes Aggressive Communication, Passive-Aggressive Communication and Assertiveness Communication are presented.
Paraphrasing and validating are discussed in detail. Appropriate and inappropriate role-playing is presented.
This lesson contains a role playing exercise with a couple having the same argument twice with two different outcomes. The only difference was that in one example the couple was able to communicate better using paraphrasing and validating, and on the other one they didn't.
Script text for the Boundaries Section.
Communication and Assertiveness Training complementary script booklet.
Try to take this short test after watching the videos and downloading the booklet to proof your knowledge on Boundaries.
Try to take this short test after watching the videos and downloading the booklet to proof your knowledge on Communication and Assertiveness.
When society is dysfunctional and parents are shame bound they display unhealthy boundaries and project their shame onto their children. This creates unhealthy boundaries in the children and makes it exceedingly difficult to set healthy boundaries and stop abuse.
The first section of this course teaches what healthy and unhealthy boundaries are, how they develop, how shame warps them and impairs an individual’s ability to defend against abusive behavior of self and others.
We are able to become intimate and resolve problems to the degree that we are able to communicate effectively. Most of the problems associated with society can be traced to faulty communication and conflict resolution. This video addresses the art of communication.
The second section teaches effective communication and assertiveness principles and identifies aggressive and passive-aggressive patterns. It will help you identify emotions and teach paraphrasing and validating.