Would you like to be the one who gets the upper-hand on a narcissist/manipulator?
It doesn't matter who you are, ANYBODY can learn these techniques and get results instantly.
Three sections of this course are designed to prepare someone who is being manipulated and is possibly not in a confident state. They may feel it is their fault and that needs to change. Sections 2, 4 and 8 will cover that particular situation. If this is not you, those sections still may be a good refresher.
Section 3 is necessary in order to use the actual techniques, which are described (and written) in:
If you ever walked away from an interaction with a manipulator feeling upset, misunderstood, or taken advantage of, then I highly recommend you take this course.
In order to stop a manipulator you need to be able to recognize them.
What is their modus operandi (MO)...their "mode of operating". How do manipulators go about finding a victim and what steps do they take to get that person in a position to be manipulated?
You may be surprised to find out how many tactics there are. You need to know the tactics in order to recognize whether or not they are being used on you. This lecture takes an in-depth look at the "tricks" employed by manipulators. There are 2 downloads. One is a guide that outlines 20 different manipulation tactics. The second download is homework for you to become better at recognizing manipulation,
Most of the time people don't even know they are being manipulated. Understand the psychology of manipulation and learn more about how to uncover the facts.
The better you can recognize specific manipulation tactics the better you will be able to call a manipulator out for using them.
You will be face to face with someone who is deceptive. This is not a fight fire with fire strategy, two wrongs do not make a right. This lecture goes over several tips on how to communicate intelligently.
Making statements allows the manipulator to "shift" what they want the meaning to be. You will learn how to use this fundamental communication key for being successful when dealing with manipulators and narcissists.
It has been said that you cannot learn anything if you are the one talking. When trying to resolve ANY problem you need to learn what the problem is. You need to be able to inquire in a way that brings the information you need out in the open as efficiently as possible.
Very few people use these rules in communication. If you need specific information then you should use specific rules that allow you to get the exact information you want. You can't ask five questions in one breath and expect the person to answer them all.
You will learn the reasoning behind the psychology of these techniques. Knowing why something works helps you to understand it, which in turn makes it easier for you to use it.
This lecture will help you to understand that being manipulated is not a normal state and whatever reasons are being used to justify it are false.
This lecture covers basic rights you have as a human being. If someone else is taking them away, then they are in violation of your rights. It's a pretty simple concept.
Unfortunately, a byproduct of manipulation is believing it is your fault. This lecture, along with the download, is designed to get you to prove to yourself that it is not your fault and that you are the victim - not the villain.
Manipulators like to use every opportunity to put their victim in a subservient state. Yelling, name calling, or guilt-tripping when their victim has an accident is way to accomplish that. This lecture will show you their opportunistic practice so you can understand it and defend yourself using the techniques you will learn later in this course.
Author, speaker, and mentor, Joe Fedison, has dedicated his life to mastering effective communication techniques. His greatest attribute is the ability to get people to take action instantly, in the direction of the goals they want to achieve.
Joe received his bachelor of sciences from the University of Rochester in Optics Engineering and a Certificate in Management Studies from the Simon Graduate School of Business in Rochester, NY.
He has over 28 years experience, encompassing a multitude of fields and skills, which include: Executive Experience, Business Development, Coaching, Training, Health & Fitness, Conflict Resolution, Customer Relations, Brand Marketing, Project Management, Sales Management, and Business Mentoring.
Joe founded and directed a film festival, ran an import art business, opened a coffee shop, created a poker product and wrote the patent, made a short film, coordinated travel for a concert in Puerto Rico for Ashanti and DMX, wrote a book, developed an app, doubled company revenues twice as a salesperson, has written 12 business plans, created 2 non-profits and accomplished all that while being a single parent for 18 years.