Getting the girl isn’t just a Hollywood fantasy; attracting beautiful women isn’t the sole domain of the super rich, the super hunk, or the outrageously gifted.
I know this now, but for most of my life I believed the opposite, as well as other crippling assumptions about women, dating and sex.
I’ve written this course because I hate seeing men who are completely confused, frustrated and lonely like I was. It’s true that if you keep doing what you’ve always done then you’ll keep getting what you’ve always got.
This course is all about YOU rewriting your beliefs and attitudes about women and dating.
It’s that simple.
This VIDEO COURSE outlines the FOUR FOUNDATIONS of successful dating for men:
I’ll introduce you to the kind of POWERFUL mindsets that will make you naturally more attracted to women. I’ve also outlined the basics of how to “Get the Girl” so that all of those little things you never knew how to do will become ingrained and automatic.
DATING SECRETS REVEALED:
I think this Course can do the following:
When you understand these FOUNDATIONS (Attraction, Leading, Rapport, Escalation) you'll be able to see social interactions in an entirely new way! You'll see things that were once invisible to you... the invisible aspects of social dynamics will becomes clear.
With these powerful dating mindsets you'll feel totally empowered and prepared to approach and attract any woman you desire, while the rest of the socially-handicapped dudes clumsily flailing about, scaring women directly into your arms.
You will eventually see that it's the angry, bitter, and confused men of the world who gift-wrap their women FOR US GUYS WHO GET IT.
An introduction to the concepts of attraction, tension, and the importance of a woman's emotional response to us when we engage her.
How we create emotions through our motions, actions and behaviors, and why this matters with women and dating.
Understanding the emotional dynamics of push and pull when teasing and being playful with a woman.
Building tension helps raise her emotional response, and helps us create chemistry.
There are many ways in which we can improve her attraction for us, and many ways we might accidentally push her away.
The man who masters his attention is the man who gets what he wants.
We can give ourselves a lot of power when we learn what we can control, and what we must accept on our journey to creating our own dating success.
Learning why we are so fearful of being "rejected" and how to overcome this irrational worry.
This is about the importance of being unmoved, like a rock, by the weather that is a woman's emotional expressions.
The power of confidence and how to find it within the core of ourselves.
Exploring and understanding the attractive power of having our own unique identity, and expressing ourselves without fear.
Exploring the concept of personal boundaries and how it's useful when attracting women.
Understanding the reasons for her resistance, and how expressing our own resistance can amplify her attraction for us.
A continued exploration of our boundaries and identifying what we can and can't control in our lives.
NOTES FROM SECTION 1
Defining the concept of LEADING in our own lives and in the dynamics of dating.
Continuing the exploration of the concept of LEADING in our own lives and in the dynamics of dating.
Detailed examples of leading behaviors.
An exploration of our own insecurities and how they might affect our success with women.
Accepting the idea that sometimes those who most care for us might be giving us bad advice.
Discussing how our own inner demons can hold us back from future success.
Exploring the concept of fear and how it affects our thoughts, feelings and behaviors, and how to overcome these speed bumps.
The concept of approval is defined and explored with the goal of releasing our own insecurities.
The idea of self judgement is explained so that we can free ourselves of added inner friction and noise.
The concept of status is explained and explored in relation to women and dating.
5 ways that we might be expressing our status and how to always come across as more attractive.
A brief overview of the ideas and concepts explored in the section on RAPPORT.
Rapport is broken down into it's core concepts.
The process of actually building connection through rapport is explored.
The concepts of storytelling is explored, in relation to building connection with women.
The timing of building and attraction and then rapport is explained.
A woman's resistance to our reduction is necessary and is explored in this lecture.
After explaining why we need to appreciate her resistance we explore how to remove it.
In this lecture we explore her reasons for being jealous, and how to accept and appreciate it, and what we can learn from it.
This is a quick discussion on relationship boundaries and why they're important to building a strong relationship.
Here we recognize the types of tests she might throw at us and why they might be necessary.
Once we accept and appreciate the importance of her tests we can better learn how to pass them.
Here we break down all of the subtle and obvious ways she's trying to show her interest in us.
Banter is explained and explored as a useful social skill for building connection and rapport.
Role-Playing is explained and explored as a useful social skill for building connection and rapport.
The idea of being a whole, honest, and congruent man is explored and explained.
The deeper value and meaning of our "purpose" is discussed.
This is a brief overview of the concepts outlined in the entire section on ESCALATION.
The concept and role of escalation, in relation to women and dating, is explored.
The specific steps from meeting to dating a woman are explored in detail in this lecture.
The specific steps of romantic escalation are continued to be explored.
We discuss our genetic urge to go fast, and how to counter it.
Discussion of our genetic drives and what they mean.
The concept of intimacy is explained and explored.
Here we explore why being vulnerable is so important and how we might open her up to it.
Concepts around masculinity is defined and explored.
Further discussion of the value of being open and vulnerable is explored.
The idea of "being good with women" is explored, as are the more sensual aspects of romance and connection.
Robby's final thoughts on this course, with the added hope that students will be excited to participate and ask questions.
I try to explain what's most important about this guys dating situation.
I outline 4 important steps for emotional mental health in his situation.
Robert Belland is the author of the wildly popular dating advice book IGNORE & SCORE, and he is an Entrepreneur who currently resides in Canada.
When he is not managing his NewMedia company BOBAIR MEDIA Inc. he is helping his fellow man with the mysteries and frustrations of women and dating.
He was encouraged to produce his first video course on Udemy as a way of continuing to help the thousands of men who have asked for his dating advice, insights and support.