How To Get The Girl - Ignore & Score
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How to Meet, Attract, and Date Beautiful Women - The FOUNDATIONS of Dating Quality Women
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Created by Robert Belland
Last updated 2/2017
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  • 5.5 hours on-demand video
  • 4 Articles
  • 4 Supplemental Resources
  • Full lifetime access
  • Access on mobile and TV
  • Certificate of Completion
What Will I Learn?
  • Understand how to walk up to a woman, start a conversation, and build attraction within the interaction.
  • Escape the friend-zone.
  • Recognize the best time to go in for the first kiss.
  • Overcome common insecurities around women and dating.
  • Feel confident when starting new conversations.
  • Create attraction with the women they meet.
  • Creating and maintaining rapport and comfort with any woman.
  • Know how to go from meeting a girl, to getting her number, to going on that first date.
  • Understanding a woman's resistance in order to step past it.
  • Create and explore intimacy with the women they date.
  • Avoid giving away their power when meeting beautiful women.
  • Recognize and identify the fears a woman has when meeting a man for the first time.
  • Display leadership qualities that naturally attract women.
  • Avoid the typical needy behaviours that push quality women away.
  • Create sexual intimacy by understanding a woman's sexual drives.
  • The ability to recognize and understand some of the seemingly bizarre behaviours of women.
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  • A desire to meet, attract, and date women.
  • An interest in self development.

Getting the girl isn’t just a Hollywood fantasy; attracting beautiful women isn’t the sole domain of the super rich, the super hunk, or the outrageously gifted.

I know this now, but for most of my life I believed the opposite, as well as other crippling assumptions about women, dating and sex.

I’ve written this course because I hate seeing men who are completely confused, frustrated and lonely like I was. It’s true that if you keep doing what you’ve always done then you’ll keep getting what you’ve always got.

This course is all about YOU rewriting your beliefs and attitudes about women and dating.

It’s that simple.

This VIDEO COURSE outlines the FOUR FOUNDATIONS of successful dating for men:

  1. Attraction
  2. Leading
  3. Rapport
  4. Escalation

I’ll introduce you to the kind of POWERFUL mindsets that will make you naturally more attracted to women. I’ve also outlined the basics of how to “Get the Girl” so that all of those little things you never knew how to do will become ingrained and automatic.


  • How to avoid the “Friend Zone” simply by building attraction FIRST, instead of RAPPORT first, like every other guy.
  • What NATURAL attraction is and how to push her buttons in order to MAKE HER CHASE YOU.
  • Why a woman resists a guy even when she’s really into him, and how to use her resistance as an advantage to your dating success.
  • Learn why her “resistance” isn’t her “rejection.”
  • How the FEAR of approaching a woman can be used to actually make her MORE attracted to you.
  • 5 ways that RAPPORT helps your dating success, and how to naturally build it.
  • 8 quick tips for telling a powerful story, which can create a great connection with a woman.
  • Simple ways to remove a woman’s fears and resistance to your escalation.
  • 6 steps to help prevent yourself from being jealous.
  • 14 non-verbal ways she might indicator her interest in you, as well as 19 others you shouldn’t miss.
  • 11 behaviors you MUST stop doing that makes women want to avoid you.
  • How to tell when she’s ready to be seduced, and what most men do wrong when they first try to escalate the physical relationship with her.
  • 5 things you should NEVER do when in bed with a woman!
  • All of the typical escalation steps in the specific order you should follow them.

I think this Course can do the following:

  • Help the average insecure shy guy by giving him the core skills to turn himself into an attractive self-assured congruent man of action, charm, masculine authority and purpose.
  • Clarify the damaging domestication we men have been given with the hopes of rediscovering our inner power of self assurance, validation, and approval. 
  • Help us deconstruct the seemingly bizarre behavior of women, with the goal of removing our frustrations with them, and replacing this confusion with a full appreciation and understanding of their motivations, genetic drives, and personal desires. 
  • Help us unite men together to help stop the spread of the boy-masculine disease that's infecting many of todays male populations, causing women to be left unsatisfied, and men feeling confused and helpless. 
  • Promote the overall emotional growth and maturity of men. 

When you understand these FOUNDATIONS (Attraction, Leading, Rapport, Escalation) you'll be able to see social interactions in an entirely new way! You'll see things that were once invisible to you... the invisible aspects of social dynamics will becomes clear.

With these powerful dating mindsets you'll feel totally empowered and prepared to approach and attract any woman you desire, while the rest of the socially-handicapped dudes clumsily flailing about, scaring women directly into your arms. 

You will eventually see that it's the angrybitter, and confused men of the world who gift-wrap their women FOR US GUYS WHO GET IT.

Who is the target audience?
  • Men who want to improve their dating success with women.
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Curriculum For This Course
64 Lectures
2 Lectures 07:47

A quick introduction to Robby and this course content.

Preview 05:12

Just a quick story explaining where I came up with IGNORE and SCORE.

Preview 02:35
17 Lectures 01:42:48

What to look forward to in the ATTRACTION Section of this course.

Preview 01:11

An introduction to the concepts of attraction, tension, and the importance of a woman's emotional response to us when we engage her.

What Is Attraction?

How we create emotions through our motions, actions and behaviors, and why this matters with women and dating.

Preview 04:01

Understanding the emotional dynamics of push and pull when teasing and being playful with a woman.

Tug Of War (Push and Pull)

Building tension helps raise her emotional response, and helps us create chemistry.

Preview 06:58

There are many ways in which we can improve her attraction for us, and many ways we might accidentally push her away.

Tension Do's And Don'ts

The man who masters his attention is the man who gets what he wants. 

Your Attention Is Your Power

We can give ourselves a lot of power when we learn what we can control, and what we must accept on our journey to creating our own dating success.

Ignore Your Genetics

Learning why we are so fearful of being "rejected" and how to overcome this irrational worry.

Ignore Rejection

This is about the importance of being unmoved, like a rock, by the weather that is a woman's emotional expressions.

Preview 06:48

The power of confidence and how to find it within the core of ourselves.

Preview 05:46

Two tips for building a foundation of confidence: 

Preview 08:36

Exploring and understanding the attractive power of having our own unique identity, and expressing ourselves without fear.

Score An Identity

Exploring the concept of personal boundaries and how it's useful when attracting women.

Score Boundaries

Understanding the reasons for her resistance, and how expressing our own resistance can amplify her attraction for us.

Score Resistance

A continued exploration of our boundaries and identifying what we can and can't control in our lives.

Boundaries Continued


13 Lectures 01:17:36

A quick overview of what's covered in the section on LEADING.

Preview 00:49

Defining the concept of LEADING in our own lives and in the dynamics of dating.

Preview 02:15

Continuing the exploration of the concept of LEADING in our own lives and in the dynamics of dating.

Preview 05:09

Detailed examples of leading behaviors.

Examples Of Leading

An exploration of our own insecurities and how they might affect our success with women.

Ignore Your Insecurities

Accepting the idea that sometimes those who most care for us might be giving us bad advice.

Ignore Your Friends And Family

Discussing how our own inner demons can hold us back from future success.

Ignore Your Mistakes

Exploring the concept of fear and how it affects our thoughts, feelings and behaviors, and how to overcome these speed bumps.

Ignore Your Fears

The concept of approval is defined and explored with the goal of releasing our own insecurities.

Score Your Own Approval

The idea of self judgement is explained so that we can free ourselves of added inner friction and noise.

Stop Judging

The concept of status is explained and explored in relation to women and dating.

About Status

5 ways that we might be expressing our status and how to always come across as more attractive.

5 Ways To Display High Status

17 Lectures 01:11:24

A brief overview of the ideas and concepts explored in the section on RAPPORT.

Preview 01:02

Rapport is broken down into it's core concepts.

What Is Rapport?

The process of actually building connection through rapport is explored.

How Do We Build Rapport?

The concepts of storytelling is explored, in relation to building connection with women.

Connect Through Storytelling

The timing of building and attraction and then rapport is explained.

When Is The Right Time To Build Rapport?

A woman's resistance to our reduction is necessary and is explored in this lecture.

Preview 06:09

After explaining why we need to appreciate her resistance we explore how to remove it.

Removing Her Resistance

In this lecture we explore her reasons for being jealous, and how to accept and appreciate it, and what we can learn from it.

Ignore Her Jealousy And Learn From It

This is a quick discussion on relationship boundaries and why they're important to building a strong relationship.

Discuss Boundaries

Here we recognize the types of tests she might throw at us and why they might be necessary.

Ignore Her Tests

Once we accept and appreciate the importance of her tests we can better learn how to pass them.

How To Pass Her Tests

Here we break down all of the subtle and obvious ways she's trying to show her interest in us.

Score Indicators Of Interest

Banter is explained and explored as a useful social skill for building connection and rapport.

Score Banter

Role-Playing is explained and explored as a useful social skill for building connection and rapport.

Score Fun: Role-Playing

The idea of being a whole, honest, and congruent man is explored and explained.

Score Congruence

The deeper value and meaning of our "purpose" is discussed.

Score Your Purpose

12 Lectures 51:58

This is a brief overview of the concepts outlined in the entire section on ESCALATION.

Preview 00:37

The concept and role of escalation, in relation to women and dating, is explored.

Preview 05:28

The specific steps from meeting to dating a woman are explored in detail in this lecture.

Typical Escalation Steps - Part 1

The specific steps of romantic escalation are continued to be explored.

Typical Escalation Steps - Part 2

We discuss our genetic urge to go fast, and how to counter it.

Ignore Your Urge To Go Fast

Discussion of our genetic drives and what they mean.

Ignore your Impulses

The concept of intimacy is explained and explored.

Score Intimacy

Here we explore why being vulnerable is so important and how we might open her up to it.

Score Vulnerability

Concepts around masculinity is defined and explored.

Score Your Manliness

Further discussion of the value of being open and vulnerable is explored.

Score Your Loving Vibe

The idea of "being good with women" is explored, as are the more sensual aspects of romance and connection.

Score Sexual Intimacy

1 Lecture 07:18

Robby's final thoughts on this course, with the added hope that students will be excited to participate and ask questions.

Final Thoughts
2 Lectures 15:19

I try to explain what's most important about this guys dating situation.

Preview 05:53

I outline 4 important steps for emotional mental health in his situation.

QUESTION: How do I get over this heart break?
About the Instructor
Robert Belland
4.6 Average rating
20 Reviews
1,055 Students
2 Courses
Author of the book and video course called IGNORE & SCORE

Robert Belland is the author of the wildly popular dating advice book IGNORE & SCORE, and he is an Entrepreneur who currently resides in Canada.

When he is not managing his NewMedia company BOBAIR MEDIA Inc. he is helping his fellow man with the mysteries and frustrations of women and dating.

He was encouraged to produce his first video course on Udemy as a way of continuing to help the thousands of men who have asked for his dating advice, insights and support.

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