End the suffering in your love relationship!
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End the suffering in your love relationship!

Discovering the deeper roots of your frustration, anger, fear and pain
4.5 (31 ratings)
Course Ratings are calculated from individual students’ ratings and a variety of other signals, like age of rating and reliability, to ensure that they reflect course quality fairly and accurately.
1,057 students enrolled
Created by Bertold Ulsamer
Last updated 7/2017
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Current price: $25.00 Original price: $29.99 Discount: 17% off
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This course includes
  • 1.5 hours on-demand video
  • 1 downloadable resource
  • Full lifetime access
  • Access on mobile and TV
  • Certificate of Completion
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What you'll learn
  • You will understand...
  • ...why frustration is a natural part of growth in a relationship

  • ...why, sometimes, you react very angry

  • ...why, sometimes, little incidents cause such a pain
  • ...why, sometimes, you are afraid oft he separation and feel totally lost
  • You will find new ways to change these emotions and reactions!
  • The readiness to face some of your wounds

This course teaches you ways to finish the perpetual inner and outer quarrels with your beloved one. If you understand the deeper roots of your emotions, then your actual emotional reactions change by themselves.

It is simple - but not easy. A lot of suffering in a relationship is caused by old wounds. We all try to avoid and to escape them. But when you allow somebody to come closer to your heart – it is inevitable that your old hurts come up. Because they want to be seen and recognized.

You need to distinguish the actual reality from the negative energy of the past. So the art is to separate past and presence. Sure, they will be situations with your beloved where you feel frustrated, angry or hurt. But, if you discover the distinction, you are no more overwhelmed and you can react in an adequate way. As a grown up!  You show your boundaries and engage yourself for what you want. You meet the other as a powerful and loving adult – not as a helpless child.

This course contains essential insights of my seminars of the last 25 years. Two basic exercises show you how to realize these insights.

Try and see! The following lessons will give you deep understanding of your relationship and of your own personality. So you will nourish yourself and your love!

Who this course is for:
  • Everyone who is in a relationship in which he or she does not feel fully satisfied
Course content
Expand all 21 lectures 01:16:56
+ The longing for love and its consequences
10 lectures 41:20

Partnership touches us deep in our heart

How love is changing from bliss towards disappointment

A part of the emotional energy comes from the past

Why do you react emotionally so intense?

How both are connected

Longing for love - old wounds

The stronger the longing, the stronger the later frustration

Preview 02:05
Practice: The effort not to feel the hidden pain
Practice: You separate presence and past in an emotional situation

Evaluation of the practice: possibilities and barriers

What if you did not discover anything in the practice?

The image of the good and the bad father and mother 

The basic confusion we all carry
Practice for women: See your man more clearly!
Practice for men: See your woman more clearly!
+ Understanding the emotions more deeply
6 lectures 21:49
Introduction: Looking towards the negative emotions

This fear has its roots in the childhood

What happens when the other may leave you?
Do not play too nice - The anger which often is covered

The pain we all share

The burden that every human being carries in its depth

Children are overwhelmed, grown ups can learn to contain strong emotions!

If you want gain a deeper understanding of how to deal emotions I recommend the following e-book:

Christian Meyer "Towards Awakening "  http://www.zeitundraum-shop.org/epages/63778448.sf/de_DE/?ObjectPath=/Shops/63778448/Products/Towards_Awakening_ebook 

How to deal with these strong emotions?
Practice: Exploring emotions
+ Final Practice and Remark
2 lectures 05:36
Final practice: Connect with your beloved

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