Dating, Relationships and Love Making Them Last Forever

Three Secret Ways Your Subconscious Mind Sabotages Your Love Life Daily. What is the Meaning of love? Finding Mr. Right.
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Published 11/2015 English

Course Description

"Dating, Relationships and Love - Making Them Last Forever" is an invitation to a new experience of yourself, your life, your partner, your friends, family and the world. We discover the spiritual dilemma that underlies the psychological drama of our lives. The course is creative, empowering, process-oriented, where we start relinquishing a thought system based on fear, for one based on love.

Begin an unforgettable journey that will change the way you look at love forever.

We delve into the three crucial ways we sabotage our relationships. We help you begin to see the effect that the unwritten rules of your family, when unconscious undermine the feelings you and your partner have for one another.

Do you find yourself repeating your mothers words? Or your fathers? Discover how your family dynamics-if left festering under the surface, destroy your love and happiness.

Fortunately, there is another way.

It comes from addressing issues head on and bringing into conscious awareness, the deepest, juiciest parts of ourselves. Not to remove them or destroy them, but to celebrate them, to understand them.

From understanding comes forgiveness, openness, and deeper love.

In this exciting, fast-paced course, you'll discover what, if left in the dark, destroyed your relationships in the past:

  • Your family patterns
  • You emotional baggage
  • The Love-O-Meter
  • The Cinderella Fantasy
  • The family rules
  • Your sibling position
  • Your Parent's roles
  • And much more...

Are you ready to give up mediocre relationships? Do you feel it's time to experience true, deep, all-encompassing love on all levels? It's closer and easier than you think!

Join us today and how you feel about relationships will never be the same again! Enroll now.

What are the requirements?

  • There are better ways to be in relationships
  • Open mind
  • A journal

What am I going to get from this course?

  • Understand their family dynamics and how those dynamics impact their relationships
  • Have a better understanding of their role in the success or failure of their relationships
  • Feel more empowered to make better choices in the people they choose as their mate
  • Feel more confident in a relationship by having more influence
  • Find more understanding for who they are and why they choose their partners

Who is the target audience?

  • This course is meant for women who want to develop better relationship skills
  • Women
  • Women who have not had relationship success in their lives and would like to get insight into what's going wrong

What you get with this course?

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30 day money back guarantee.

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Lifetime access.

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Section 1: Introduction

Are you ready to find Love and keep it? This course is for you.


One of the thing I can't stress strongly enough is that the more you are able to truly share who you are, the more success you will find in building relationships, especially a love relationship. I invite you to use this course to your full advantage that way. Use the forum to play full out for the sake of love. The more you share and invite others into your life, the greater chance you have at success in your personal relationships. Take a risk!


This course will help you change your mind about your own role in your lack of relationship success. We put the power back in your hands and take away the notion of bad guys and good guys. We help you to uncover your subconscious patterns that keep you stuck and attracted to Mr.Wrong so you can learn to do something different.


Marion is a Registered Therapeutic Counsellor who once stood in your shoes. In her 40's and still not able to find the love she sought, she had to find out what was in her way of finding love. Now happily married, she is now passionate about helping other women in their quest to find lasting love.


Scott is an international speaker and teacher on podcasting and internet marketing. He also happens to be Marion's ex boyfriend and current friend. Scott and Marion talk about some of their relationship dynamics.

Section 2: Transpersonal Psychology

What the heck is Transpersonal Psychology and more importantly, how can it help you find true love?


Discover how the 'Cinderella Fantasy' prevents you from developing deep, everlasting love.


What is YOUR Cinderella fantasy? Get our your journal and write down all of the qualities of your ideal Prince Charming. What does he look like? Does he have a 6 pack? How tall is he? What does he wear? A tool belt, or Gucci shoes? What cologne does he wear? What are his values-what is more important to him in his life? Does he want marriage and children-or not? Describe his personality in full detail. Does he make you laugh? Is he smart? Is he in charge? Is he caring? Get as much of a full picture of a man as you can.

Now-think about this seriously. Here is your reality check. Have you ever met a man like this? I'm not talking about one that you watch from afar and drool over. I'm talking about one that you really know. You have spent a bunch of time with him and you have seen him at his best and at his worst. Not the cute guy who hangs around the water cooler.

Where do men like this exist? They exist in our minds. In movies. In men we see and don't really know. We can make up any fantasy about them we want. I know this may be a bit of a downer to hear, but the only way we can have the relationship we really want is if we get real about this. Men can't be either Prince Charming in our minds or the Ogre once we are disappointed they didn't live up to our fantasy.

I will keep banging the drum of sharing here. I promise that it will get you the greatest results if you are open and vulnerable and share with the other women in the course. Taking the risk of sharing with other women in a safe environment will have you hone the skill of taking risks of sharing yourself in an intimate relationship, which is one huge step in creating the love you want. I promise!


Marion shares how she started on her path.


Marion talks long term love and her story about how it all happened for her and how it can happen for you.


One of the courses most difficult concepts for anyone to accept. We talk about how the person that you are in a relationship with, matches you on an emotional level. A difficult pill to swallow for some.


Marion summarizes the major concepts of this section.

Transpersonal Psychology
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Section 3: Secret Ways You Sabotage Your Relationships #1

What is the #1 way we sabotage our love lives? Hold on to your hats, you are about to find out!


DIscover how the Love-O-Meter changes everything you thought you knew about Relationships.


How do you know if you are stuck in an unconscious pattern? You will learn exactly how you match your partner.


I really thought I had met my dating worst. And then along came Bob...

The eye opener came when I learned about the LOVE-O-Meter and how we actually matched. Ouch!


Make sure to Download and work on this section's activities.

The #1 way we sabotage our love lives
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Section 4: Secret Way You Sabotage Your Relationships #2

In this chapter you will learn the #2 way we unconsciously sabotage our love lives.


Matching luggage-what does that mean? How do you match your partner on an emotional level? You are about to find out.


Who is running towards and who is running away in a relationship? And why is it all the same anyway?


Download and work on the activities for this section. Make sure you share your insights with the class.

The #2 way we sabotage our love lives
6 questions
Section 5: Secret Way You Sabotage Your Relationships #3

What is the #3 way we unconsciously sabotage our love lives? You are about to find out!


What are your Family Patterns? How can you identify how these affect your relationships?


Who was in charge in your family? Your Mom or your Dad? Most importantly, how does this affect who you are attracted to and who is attracted to you?


What happens when a matriarchal woman wants to get a man to notice her? Why is it so easy for a woman who is used to men being in charge?


When you were born - first, second or later - affects how you deal with situations in life. And therefore, how you deal with your romantic partners.


Marion shares how your family patterns impact your romantic life. Be sure to download and complete your activity for this section.


Marion shares her own family rules which may help you get some insight into your own unconscious patterns.


Here is where you learn the questions to ask so you can start to untangle some of your own family rules to see how they have affected you and your dating life.


In this chapter you will learn how to listen for the cues of what is OK and what is taboo in your family.


I'm sure you are starting to see how unconscious these rules really are in your family. Here are some next steps to help you know how to start to untangle yourself from these subconscious messages.

[Activity] Conclusion
The #3 way we sabotage our love lives
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Section 6: Next Steps and Bonus Lectures

Now that you know the information, you will find out how you can continue on your journey of self discovery and learning to love in a different way.

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The first 2 chapters of Marion's book. Have a good read!

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Instructor Biography

Scott Paton, Executive Producer (42 Podcasts, 65+ Udemy courses), Trainer

Scott Paton has been podcasting since the spring of 2005. His podcast "Weight Loss and The Mind" hit over 375,000 subscribers in its first year and over one million downloads. He has executive produced and/or co-hosted over 35 podcasts. An internationally renowned speaker, Scott has presented to audiences from London, England to Sydney, Australia, from Vancouver, BC to New York, NY, from LA to Rwanda. Thousands of entrepreneurs and NGO's have changed their public engagement strategies based on Scott's sharing. We hope you will, too!

Scott has over 48,500 students from 168 countries taking his courses.

Scott joined Udemy in 2013. In late 2014, one of his clients inspired him to make a video course on Podcasting. He revisited Udemy and got very excited at the potential. After his course went live, Scott told his clients and many decided to make courses but needed help, so he has become a co-instructor with them, while continuing to support and build his own courses. His co-topics all include areas of life-long learning by Scott, including Stock Option Trading, Alternative Health, EFT, and Relationships.

Instructor Biography

Marion Baker, The Love Therapist, Registered Therapeutic Counselor

Marion Baker, Registered Therapeutic Counselor and The Love Therapist, is trained in transpersonal psychology, a modality that marries spirituality and psychology. She was trained through Clearmind International, a counselling and personal development school whose courses are based on A Course in Miracles.

The bigger qualifier Marion has to write this book is her thirty years of looking for love, finding it illusive, then finally discovering the key to long term relationships. Armed with another way to look at relationships that make them not only more effective, but allow a path to greater spiritual connection and freedom, she felt compelled to share what she knows with those who are also challenged in finding lasting love.

Through her work in Transpersonal Psychology Counselling, Marion found greater spiritual connection, freedom and the love she was searching for.

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