Courting the Goddess
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Courting the Goddess

Men! Learn the Art of Wooing a Woman, and Keeping a Woman--Real-life Skills to Practice the Art of Relationship
4.1 (8 ratings)
Instead of using a simple lifetime average, Udemy calculates a course's star rating by considering a number of different factors such as the number of ratings, the age of ratings, and the likelihood of fraudulent ratings.
897 students enrolled
Created by Andrew Jones
Last updated 4/2017
English
Price: Free
Includes:
  • 1 hour on-demand video
  • Full lifetime access
  • Access on mobile and TV
  • Certificate of Completion
What Will I Learn?
  • Men, you may now, "Woo women effectively!"
  • Better approach to maintain the relationship with worship while not abandoning one's center.
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Requirements
  • Course is open to those who bring curiosity and a light heart! Best suited for men.
  • A notebook is very handy, as I offer specific tools to include. Though I sum them up in brief, you will get the most out of the course by writing down your personal reflections, perceptions, and behaviours as related to topics.
  • Beyond curiosity, one truly should have introspection and a willingness to look at one's own unconsciousness tendencies when relating to the opposite sex
Description

Has communicating with your partner been frustrating, emotional, draining, or confusing to the point of no resolution or break-ups?

Please join  Andrew Jones, MA in Spiritual Psychology as your Intimacy Guide to support your vision of successful and intimate relationship.

This course is for Men, to learn Real Life practices to stay centered in one's self, to truly become the desirable man that is highly attractive to beautiful women.

This course may involve healing the past, plenty of “A-Ha!” moments, and perhaps reveal your innate joyful spontaneity and expression.  At the same time, you will leave with new information in your tool belt and feel inspired satisfaction to change your whole mind-set with relationship.

You can learn focuses: establishing safety, clear communication, untangling enmeshed relationships, and creative solutions when needs are unmet by other.  

Who is the target audience?
  • Men who are currently in challenging relationship, or men calling in relationship with a Goddess
  • Women who wish to see how potentially men, (like myself) view and wish to treat a woman as a Goddess
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Curriculum For This Course
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Owning One's Own Material: gateway to feminine interest!
2 Lectures 12:20

To Remember:


  Women don’t really want to be treated as sex object

So become aware of your own:

Patterns of Sexual Arousal

Current strategies of satisfying arousal

Your options to Harness your own sexual energy.

 Take home ideas of how to shift, enhance, or diminish these energies.

These are the first basics in learning to Court A Goddess.


Introduction
06:41

Has communicating with your partner been frustrating, emotional, draining, or confusing to the point of no resolution or break-ups?

You can learn focuses: establishing safety, clear communication, untangling enmeshed relationships, and creative solutions when needs are unmet by other.  

Transform your sexual energy, men, sometimes its the last thing she wants!  Wake up to this Truth...

Transforming Sexual Arousal
05:39
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Understanding the Nature of Change: Emotional/Mental States of Women
1 Lecture 06:26

Courting a Goddess is to KEEP a Goddess

Note:  the link below is 2 weeks after our marriage!  see how we've been working on this for these years in between-- and hear Destiny's DIRECT perspective, the kind you wonder about how women think.

Become aware: Why to understand your longing, to seek understanding, not wanting sexual gratification Why she needs to be spoken to, worshipped as Goddess. To be actually present to the various moods of partner, and to offer support to those specific needs without attachment to my sexual arousal.


That is, "Put the Goddess’s needs first!”

Non-attachment to passing states
06:26
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Offering Women what they need. Get softer, get curious
1 Lecture 07:08

Don’t take for face value the reactions of Self and Partner!

You will learn, and continue to inquire within, the defenses of your own self

 Put these defences temporarily aside get softer to learn to understand:   Defenses of your partner,  the wounds well hidden underneath.   Understand why these patterns are in place.

Perhaps ask yourself, historically, culturally, and societally

Example:  My own patterns as a reference

Always look for the deeper story doesn’t feel safe to be expressed.

TakeawayDo your inner work!

Best done with proper therapist—relationship or otherwise, or

Counselor/Life Coach  —  amazing for focusing on new habits, patterns, results.

This is what I do!  


NOTE: he link below is 2 weeks after our marriage!  4 years later now-- and hear MY perspective.

Learning to understand the defenses of your self:
07:08
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“Give her space”
1 Lecture 03:00

Interview:  See how to ask how and what actual Goddess needs.  (Introducing Destiny Love:  “Queen Goddess”)

This example:  She teaches by recording self, then listening… even boredom~  for her to get enough time to get creative and to the points of self love practice.

Note :  notice how I pause and relax, and she invites me to speak on “space”>

Then she speaks as she wishes, 

 I let her finish, compliment her first, before I add to it.


Practice:  simple, Review of what “space” means, to you and partner (or your imagined partner!

Ex:  how I do it ________

Question:   How do you get space, and what do you do with it?

Takeaway:  MEN!  Make sure you give her space, to then yearn for you and come from her own clarity.

Same for you… get your space to serve self first.

Learning to understand the defenses of your self:
03:00
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LESSON 5: “Cacao ceremony”
2 Lectures 06:46

Ceremonies are held in a strong container of safety, and are often deep healing processes.

In this particular ceremony, it is a way of focusing on a simple activity to create presence with each other, much like a traditional "tea ceremony".

Hey guys!  This is a great, sweet opportunity to create intimacy in the most casual playful way.  Ask her questions, feed the inspiration.

If you love chocolate, these ceremonies are for you! We honor cacao as the powerful plant medicine that it is...and so you can drink much over time to help the heart open (the medicine!), to create that yummy space with a Goddess that you long for.


Cacao Ceremony
03:31

LESSON 6:  “I’m not enough vs” vs “I have plentitude”

This second video, “Overproduction”, is me teaching by example of how I gently guide with One Good Question, Destiny to open herself a little deeper:

So important to say twice:

Trust be your primary goal in courting a Goddess.

Guess what.  Maintaining Trust be your primary goal in keeping a Goddess.

ˆHear that she has two things she is becoming aware of (often not in the moment, but minutes or hours afterwards):  “I’m not enough vs” vs “I have plentitude”.  She, unlike many Goddesses, may miss the brilliant point of the “gift” in the wound of “I’m not enough”.  

The gift is the motivation for connection. This is gold for you men: Often, they think they want acknowledgment, perhaps in a masculine way, yet the deeper desire is for safety which is better communicated through your gentle, reassuring touch.

Your touch, like a side hug, holding hands, with sustained eye contact, should all say, “I’m totally here for you, and i’m not trying to get anything from you.”

“I’m not enough vs” vs “I have plentitude”
03:15
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Power Move!
1 Lecture 03:22

Get True with what actions of yours lead to better results!

This is in the face of what your partner usually does to trigger you>  You now choose to take new actions in the face of this, by doing A, B, C, etc.

Write them down, frame them, make them visable or something that can be recalled.   Keep it Simple:

Stop, Breathe, take 5 minutes, and so on.  Choose a new reply.

Power Move!
03:22
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Man centering
3 Lectures 11:31

The centered man is one who is:

             Review, because it's so, so, crucial for success:

Aware of one's reactivity,

      What to do with that.

Aware of women's monthly cycle, and

      Strategies of being with that.

Taking nothing personally.  And working with that, again, too.   ha ha.  jokes on us, fellas.

Centering
03:57

The basics of sitting and standing meditations.

Don't skip this video!  These clues are LIFE changing for stabilizing one's center. 


Why?  To see the arising and passing of Attachment and Aversion, the causes of suffering, is the essence of creating non-reactivity within.

Meditation, to Center!
04:59

A true Goddess will TEST you, and see if you are BIG enough to handle her changing passing moods.

These video explains:

WHY she does this

WHAT you can expect

HOW to handle this

Getting Button's pushed, and why!
02:35
About the Instructor
Andrew Jones
4.1 Average rating
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Creator of Intimacy Guidance


The biggest test came and was passed!  A marriage to the woman of his dreams could only happen because he rose to the challenges presented within the relationship by being authentic, compassionate, and totally dedicated to show up through both respective healing processes...and there are a great many!  

Is there any greater proof than this?  A truly powerful Goddess is living at the edge of her creativity, and will shape shift through wild expressions of personality.  To  weather these changes as a man is not only your greatest challengebut her Greatest Gift from you.  "Yes, I have grown into my Man-Self by rising and succeeding in this!"

Andrew Jones completed a two year Master's program at University of Santa Monica in 2005, achieving a Master of Arts degree in Spiritual Psychology, where the primary focus is to heal one's self through experience within the context that “We are spiritual beings having a human experience.”  Hundreds of hours were spent as both the practitioner and the client role where he experienced working the emotional process (including healing the past), releasing limiting beliefs, and positively changing physical reality.  In his training, an entire six month project was dedicated to healing the toughest relationship each student had ever experienced.

Most recently he completed a 2 year training through the Luminous Body School of Energy Medicine in 2012, and teacher assisted those modules off and on.

Andrew's interest in healing work began with yoga studies and certification in 2002 with bodywork training.  This started a lifelong refinement of attuning to the body, emotions, mind and Spirit.  His passion inspired him to complete a 200 hour yoga training, including Buddhism and consciousness studies. Subsequent interests are techniques in Non-violent Communication and relationship conflict resolution.