Your Dream Relationship

Explore relationship perceptions and three types of relationships, address feelings of inadequacy, and practice active listening, verbalization, clarification, and body language, plus thinking outside the box and four-line connect-the-dots exercise.

Discover the three types of love—taker, trader, and giver—and learn how each shapes relationship dynamics. Gain coaching insights to move toward a dream relationship.

Explore how embracing 'you are enough' shifts self-belief and relationships, learning to choose givers over takers and overcome the 'not good enough' mindset.

Explore how perception tricks us; what we see isn't always what it is, and examine verbalization clarification, applying this insight to relationships. Practice active listening and body language.

Develop active listening by paraphrasing, eye contact, nodding, and verbal affirmations to understand your partner, noting that body language drives 55% of meaning, tone 38%, and words 7%.

reframe brules as b.s. rules that guide relationships, inspired by Vishen Lakhiani, and show how love satisfaction can rise above the initial peak through active work, adventure, and mutual giving.

Explore the types of love—givers, traders, takers—and learn to pursue giving relationships, knowing you are enough for your dream partner, think outside the box, and practice active listening.

Explore personal values, distinguish positive and negative values, elicit and rank your values, and craft a personal identity statement that aligns with your value rules to move forward in life.

Explore the two types of values—positive and negative—and how life events reshape them, while examining general, recent, lifestyle, and relationship values and ranking the positives.

discover your values through elicitation, identifying eight to twelve positive values like honesty, trust, integrity, love, giving, and growth, and explore how they evolve over the three to six months.

Rank your personal values to uncover what matters most in your relationship, ranking honesty, trust, integrity, love, giving, and growth while shaping your identity.

Identify core beliefs about self and explore identity to lay the groundwork for healthier, more authentic relationships.

Clarify your identity and self understanding within the context of your dream relationship, examining who you are and how that shapes healthy partnership expectations.

Explore how identity shapes your approach to love and relationships, and learn deliberate daily choices that align with your dream relationship.

Create a personal identity statement to clarify your values and what you offer in a relationship, embracing integrity, honesty, passion, and joy while serving others.

Identify and rank negative values you fear, such as not good enough, unloved, or lonely. Use a body-mind connection to center yourself and prepare for values rules.

Explore value rules by listing your top three positive values and top three negative values and defining what must happen to feel loved, seen, and heard in your dream relationship.

Identify and rank eight to twelve positive values, then craft a personal identity statement. Define what you are willing to become and note negative values with rules to feel good.

Explore relationship values and rules and craft a shared mission statement with your partner. Delve into love languages, presence, and emotional and behavioral needs, ending with the 90 day challenge.

Identify core relationship values like honesty, loyalty, and passion, and explore how presence, connectedness, and daily prayer shape evolving connections, culminating in a relationship identity statement.

Discover relationship rules that cultivate love by listening, affirming, supporting, and valuing each other’s opinions, while avoiding blame and focusing on fun and a shared mission.

Create a relationship mission statement together by translating personal identity values into the couple you are, whether committed or bonded, with partner input and a willingness to live by it.

Learn how to create a personal or joint relationship mission statement. Choose values like integrity, faithfulness, or purpose, stay present, and deepen the relationship through adventures and shared activities.

Create and display a relationship mission statement, hold monthly board meetings to review progress, deepen connection, and align actions with your values, faith, and the five love languages.

Explore the five love languages—gifts, physical touch, quality time, acts of service, and words of affirmation—and learn how speaking your partner's language can deepen your relationship.

Explore the five love languages, focusing on physical touch, acts of service, and words of affirmation. Learn practical, everyday ways to express love and stay present with your partner.

Practice being present with your partner through eye contact, silence, and focused attention to deepen connection. Explore the six emotional needs and how to rank them.

Explore six emotional and behavioral needs: security, change, variety, danger, importance, and love and connection, and how they can be fulfilled positively or negatively, including control.

explore the emotional and behavioral needs of choice, highlight growth as a person and lover, and emphasize giving back through contributing to your partner, family, and the world.

Rank your emotional and behavioral needs: security, change, importance, love, growth, and giving, to reveal your personal value order and complete the exercise.

Fulfill six emotional and behavioral needs—security, change, importance, love and connection, growth and learning, giving and contribution—for 90 days at eight or above, giving love first to your partner.

Align your relationship values and rules with a clear mission statement and love languages, then pursue a 90-day challenge to strengthen emotional needs and presence.

Introduces section five of your dream relationship, outlining the fifth section's focus within the course.

Explore how to handle support and non-support in your relationship by reflecting on biblical stories and choosing to seek help, lean on your partner, and consider coaching or a course.

Gratitude strengthens the relationship by expressing appreciation, saying thank you, and noticing small acts, with private and public praise, acts of service, and words of affirmation that nourish the bond.

Learn to forgive to sustain a dream relationship, choosing forgiveness, patience, and responsibility to move past hurt and betrayal.

Contrast new love’s instinctive spark with mature love’s emotional, choice-driven growth. Learn to give generously, practice forgiveness and gratitude, and build a relationship where both partners see something worth loving.

Present the 5.6 recommended reading for your dream relationship, guiding learners to readings that align with the course title.

Wraps up section five by exploring how to handle obstacles by seeking partner support, asking for help when needed, and choosing gratitude and forgiveness to cultivate mature, dream relationships.

Build security in love, embrace change, and learn together through giving, date nights, and weekend getaways to create your dream relationship.