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Try Less: 15 Ways Overthinking Is Ruining Your Love Life
A refreshing mindset shift toward easier and more enjoyable dating and relating.
Created byImani Ifedi
Last updated 7/2026
English
What you'll learn
- Recognize moments (past and present) where you may have been trying too hard without realizing it.
- Identify areas of your dating life where doing and thinking less can actually lead to better outcomes.
- Shift your mindset from trying to control outcomes to embracing authenticity and compatibility.
- Replace fear with curiosity so you can make dating decisions with greater confidence.
- Communicate with honesty, directness, and self-trust.
- Create a calmer, healthier, and more enjoyable approach to dating and relationships.
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Course content
3 sections • 15 lectures • 1h 23m total length
Requirements
- An open mind and a willingness to reflect honestly on your dating experiences.
- No prior dating or relationship knowledge is required: this course is designed for anyone looking for a healthier approach to dating.
- A notebook or journal is recommended for completing the reflection exercises (optional).
Description
If you're reading this, chances are you're tired of overthinking, overgiving, or trying too hard in love.
So in this course, I'm subtracting what’s unnecessary:
No more rules.
No more strategies.
Less pressure.
Less performing.
Less forcing.
Try Less is designed for women who are tired of feeling like dating is a test they’re constantly studying for. These short, punchy videos are designed to shift the way you think about dating.
Instead of giving you another list of dating rules (which, in my opinion, have never played a meaningful role in my own 12+ year relationship), this course offers simple but powerful reframes for the moments when we tend to overthink, overanalyze, or try too hard.
More specifically, you’ll hear examples of when (and why) you may be draining your energy and killing your confidence. This course is aimed at helping you interrupt overthinking spirals and release unrealistic expectations so that you can start seeing dating as a conversation more than a performance, where curiosity matters more than strategy, and where the right relationship feels easier, not harder.
By the end of Try Less, I hope you'll feel more at ease, more grounded, and more connected to what you truly want (versus what you think you want).
The ultimate goals? Having the clarity and discernment to make better choices, the confidence to show up as yourself, and the emotional freedom to build genuine connections that don’t require you to over-function, over-give, or overthink.
Because the best relationships don't require you to try so hard.
Welcome to Try Less.
Who this course is for:
- People who struggle with overthinking, chasing, or people-pleasing in relationships.
- Singles looking for a healthier approach to dating.
- Singles or people in early relationships who want a calmer, healthier, and more authentic approach to dating.
- Anyone who wants to replace dating "rules" and games with honesty, directness, and authenticity.
- Anyone who is ready to embrace the "Try Less" philosophy and build more sustainable relationships.