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The Bully Expert: Bully-Proof Your Child
Rating: 4.8 out of 5(9 ratings)
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The Bully Expert: Bully-Proof Your Child

Transformative verbal skills to help kids handle bullies with confidence, for parents of young children and teens.
Created byThe Bully Expert
Last updated 8/2025
English
English

What you'll learn

  • How to help your child protect their self-esteem, stop bullying if it occurs, and build valuable conflict management skills they’ll use for life.
  • How to prepare your child for bullying situations, without fighting, they may face at school or during group activities.
  • Exactly what your child should say, how they should say it, and how they can display confidence to effectivelly manage bullying.
  • The skills your child needs to address the inevitable conflicts they will face throughout their life.

Course content

1 section • 18 lectures • 57m total length

  • Welcome / Introduction2:01

    Join Master Chan Lee in a life-skills program for handling bullies and conflict. Watch eight videos, use a quick reference guide, and practice with reflection questions and role plays.

  • Lesson 1: Public Face and Private Face7:34

    Learn to manage public face and private face and understand how first impressions determine respect in social interactions. Build an emotional guard by calmly responding to hot buttons.

  • Reflection Questions - Lesson 1: Public Face and Private Face0:10
  • Lesson 2: You Are What You Sound and Look Like8:41

    Demonstrate that you look and sound confident. Practice the universal greeting and the handshake drill to avoid being seen as less than.

  • Reflection Questions - Lesson 2: You Are What You Sound and Look Like0:11
  • Lesson 3: You Are How You Respond7:24

    Master confident responses through verbal martial arts word blocks like stop that and that's not nice. Practice stand and deliver and remember personal space to keep distance.

  • Reflection Questions - Lesson 3: You Are How You Respond0:08
  • Lesson 4: Apology Word Block6:18

    Learn the apology word block: say sorry, ask what you did to upset them, and kindly ask to stop, with practice and language adaptation for different groups.

  • Reflection Questions - Lesson 4: Apology Word Block0:08
  • Lesson 5: Polite Threat Word Block6:17

    Practice the polite threat technique to defuse bullying with a calm script, a real-world example, and a whiteboard cue that emphasizes tone and avoids detention.

  • Reflection Questions - Lesson 5: Polite Threat Word Block0:09
  • Lesson 6: Funny and Repeat Word Blocks7:02

    Learn two practical word blocks to deflect insults and walk away: the funny word block and the repeat block, using humor to stay calm and not engage.

  • Reflection Questions - Lesson 6: Funny and Repeat Word Blocks0:07
  • Lesson 7: Combination Word Blocks6:02

    This lesson shows how to combine word blocks into deescalation strategies using humor and apology, then apply stop, tell why, give options, confirm, and act to keep students safe.

  • Reflection Questions - Lesson 7: Combination Word Blocks0:09
  • Lesson 8: When Words Alone Fail4:39

    Learn a safety-first matrix—safety, exit, find an adult, and tell—using scenarios that empower decisive action when words fail, including disengagement and safe exits.

  • Reflection Questions - Lesson 8: When Words Alone Fail0:10
  • What’s Next on Your Bully Expert Journey0:41

Requirements

  • No prior knowledge or experience needed
  • Parents should plan to practice skills with their kids

Description

Help your child protect their self-esteem when faced with bullying, stop bullying if it occurs, and build valuable conflict management skills they’ll use for life.

The skills taught in this course are based on the training programs of Vistelar, a world leader in workplace violence prevention and management.

In this course, you will learn Vistelar’s proven conflict management methods for handling bullying without fighting. Teens can take the course independently to learn these methods.

These methods have been tested by professionals in real-world environments since the early 1980s. Vistelar teaches non-escalation and de-escalation skills to healthcare staff, school teachers, and police officers and has published six books on conflict management.

The antibullying methods taught in this program have been used by tens of thousands of kids since 2010. Students give rave reviews and often report a rapid end to any bullying they may be experiencing.

Before this Udemy course, these methods were taught in hundreds of youth-focused organizations, including K-12 schools and martial arts academies. As a result, the course uses language tailored for youth and real-world stories.

You’ll discover how to prepare your child for bullying situations they may face at school or during group activities. You’ll learn exactly what your child should say, how they should say it, and how they can display confidence through posture, eye contact, and expression.

The methods learned can be used immediately to prevent bullying and handle it effectively if it occurs. In addition, your child will develop the skills to address the inevitable conflicts they will face throughout their life.

The course includes eight practical video lessons (~54 minutes) and a downloadable Quick Reference Guide.

With practice, the methods taught will become second nature, helping your child stay bully-proof for life.

Who this course is for:

  • Families with kids ages 4 to 18
  • Parents seeking to help their children become bully-proof
  • Teens who want to take the course independently

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