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Personal Development Career Development Personal Success

Stop self-sabotaging your own professional success!

Setting yourself free from invisible barriers
Rating: 4.6 out of 54.6 (49 ratings)
764 students
Created by Bertold Ulsamer
Last updated 12/2018
English
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What you'll learn

  • You learn how to stop and transform your self-sabotaging energy
  • You eliminate barriers to your personal power
  • You open the door to your professional success
  • You get the essence of a well-proven 2-day seminar and 20 years of experience!

Requirements

  • You know or you guess you have a bigger potential for success
  • Curiosity to enter unknown territories
  • Readiness to learn more about yourself

Description

You have all the necessary abilities, you make a lot of efforts - but still you are not successful? Could it be that you sabotage your own success?

In this course you will learn to understand and overcome this inner battle. So that you will be able to bundle your energies and achieve your goals.

Many people have an inner split between the wish to be successful and the bizarre wish not to be successful. The self-sabotage itself does not have an evil intention but serves hidden purposes.

We will explore the reasons and roots. Some come from present life, some come from the past, from your childhood and from your family of origin.

You may find hidden gifts in barriers you hated till now. And you will transform self-sabotage into a positive power towards success!

Who this course is for:

  • People who sabotage their professional success in an obvious or a hidden way
  • People who do not use their full potential despite of trying hard
  • People who tend to destroy their success afterwards
  • People who are successful but cannot enjoy their success
  • ATTENTION: This course is not meant for people who look for excuses

Course content

5 sections • 30 lectures • 2h 24m total length

  • Preview02:36
  • Preview02:50
  • About my person
    02:42
  • Contraindication - who this course is _not_ meant for
    02:42
  • Preview06:57

  • Your personal definition of success
    05:00
  • Practice: How do you sabotage yourself?
    04:49
  • Practice: Acknowledging the success you have - balance your failure and success
    03:23
  • Conclusion and outlook
    02:29

  • Introduction
    05:47
  • Practice: Exploring negative attitudes
    03:37
  • Success has a price - Exploring the advantage of failure
    04:41
  • Practice: Your personal history of success and failure
    06:10
  • Practice: What fulfills you? Finding your deepest resources
    04:33
  • Understanding your instinctive reaction - Pressure creates counterpressure
    02:42
  • Understanding your patterns - Self-Sabotage often makes sense
    05:19
  • Practice: Feeling your rebellious part
    08:53
  • Practice: Finding new solutions for the different parts of you
    04:09
  • Conclusion and outlook
    01:23

  • Introduction: Causes from childhood and family
    05:40
  • Preview05:34
  • Family loyalty is a strong tie - Understanding how this loyalty comes into life
    07:10
  • Practice: Imagining an ancestor you may be connected with in failure
    07:25
  • Transforming a connection which blocks you - Strength of will is not enough
    05:47
  • Practice: Transforming a blocking connection with an ancestor
    10:28
  • The special difficulties for women to reach professional success
    03:16
  • Practice for women with such difficulties
    10:21
  • Conclusion
    02:06

  • Recommendations
    03:09
  • Bonus Video: Anger - survival, setting limits and protection against pain
    03:07

Instructor

Bertold Ulsamer
Therapeut, Trainer und Coach
Bertold Ulsamer
  • 4.5 Instructor Rating
  • 2,052 Reviews
  • 33,827 Students
  • 38 Courses

~* German Version below *~

PhD in law, certified clinical psychologist, NLP-trainer, trauma therapist (Peter Levine), originally from Germany. My strength is: Putting complicated psychological issues in a nutshell. Understandable for everyone - because the essence is simple! Moreover, I want my participants not only to get ahead theoretically, but also practically. Thus I set great value on them making new experiences and gaining new personal insights.

After graduating in law I also studied psychology. I quickly noticed that I way prefer working with humans to working with paragraphs. So I started to practice as a psychologist - initially with individuals, then mainly with groups. Together with a colleague I founded an institute for NLP in management trainin~* German Version below *~g. We developed and held many seminars about leadership, self-management and communication for customers like BMW, Siemens and Lufthansa.

In the 90’s I discovered the great influence of your own family of origin through the method of “family constellations”. Using this instrument I returned to working as a therapist and held seminars and trainings all over the world (e.g. in Australia, India, South Africa, Russia and the US).

Today I integrate everything I have learned working as a coach and therapist, for the last 9 years, oftentimes in China. I am the author of more than 20 books in the field of professional communication, self-management, family constellations and personal growth that have been translated into 10 languages.

If you are interested in the work I am doing then you may want to get information about my new courses and books. Inscribe you for my newsletter! And you will get reductions of some courses. You can do that on my website.


Dr. jur., Dipl.-Psychologe, NLP-Trainer, Traumatherapeut (Peter Levine). Meine Stärke ist: komplizierte psychologische Sachverhalte verständlich auf den Punkt bringen. Denn das Wesentliche ist im Grunde einfach! Und dann ist mir vor allem wichtig, dass Teilnehmerinnen und Teilnehmer eigene Erfahrungen machen und neue Einsichten gewinnen statt nur in der Theorie schlauer zu werden!

Nach dem Jurastudium habe ich noch Psychologie studiert. Schnell habe ich gemerkt, dass mir Menschen lieber sind als Paragraphen. Habe dann mit einer kleinen Praxis angefangen, aber vor allem immer mit Gruppen gearbeitet. Ein Kollege und ich gründeten dann ein Institut für Management-Training, wo ich viele Seminare zu Führung, Kommunikation und Selbst-management durchführte für Kunden wie BMW, Lufthansa und Siemens. Mitte der 90er Jahre entdeckte ich die große Auswirkung der eigenen Familie im Hintergrund über die Methode Familienaufstellungen. Damit ging ich noch einmal in die therapeutische Richtung und führte Seminare und Fortbildungen in der ganzen Welt durchgeführt (z. B. in Australien, Indien, Südafrika, USA, Russland) Heute integriere ich all das, was ich bisher gelernt habe, und arbeite als Seminarleiter, Therapeut und Coach, seit zehn Jahren häufig in China. Ich bin Autor von 24 Büchern zu den Themen Kommunikation, Selbstmanagement und Aufstellungsarbeit, von denen es Übersetzungen in zehn Sprachen gibt. 



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