
Hi!
I’m Rebecca Martin I’m an executive communication coach. In my course you will learn how to overcome your hurdles to speaking up and delivering value. You will learn how to change your mindset, communicate confidence and authority, have your ideas heard, be taken seriously.
In this first lecture I will speak to some scenarios that you might have experienced, motivating you to find a communication course and bring your presentations to the next level.
At the end of the lecture, I will give you an exercise where you will experience the physical sensations of what I hope you will achieve by taking this course. This exercise is very important for comparison purposes.
You will walk away from this lecture knowing how you will feel in high-stakes situations after taking this course.
Before we move forward, it is HIGHLY RECCOMENDED you download and print your course workbook from your resource folder, which can be accessed through, "External Resources". Your link to access the workbook will be emailed to you, so if you don't see it in your inbox right away, please CHECK YOUR SPAM FOLDER.
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In this lecture I will talk to you about:
What each section will cover.
What is in each of your resource folders.
Why moving through the lectures in sequence, and doing all the exercises and homework is a good idea.
The cadence with which you might want to do these lessons.
How to take advantage of my offer for a free analysis of an upcoming presentation
You will walk away from this lecture understanding how to take fullest advantage of the material that I present.
My contact information can be found on the course page on the Udemy website. RebeccaMartinCoaching@gmail.com
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In order to learn how to communicate confidently and authoritatively you have to understand what's at the root of the problem.
When you don’t speak up in a meeting, it’s most likely because you are experiencing the symptoms of fight, flight or freeze. When you’re not seen as an authority, fight flight or freeze is most likely playing a role.
Our job in our work together is to disrupt this fight, flight, or freeze cycle but in order to do this we must first understand what fight, flight, or freeze is and how it works. That's what this lecture will cover.
You will walk away from this lecture with a deeper understanding as to the role that fight, flight, freeze currently plays in your communication and what can be done to stop it.
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This lecture is the introduction to first thing that is most likely getting in the way of you communicating yourself with confidence and authority. No, it's not everybody else. It's you.
You will walk away from this lecture understand how you get in your own way of achieving your communication potential.
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Your first step in shifting your negative mindset to a positive mindset is becoming aware of exactly what you tell yourself on a daily basis.
Just this step of becoming aware of, naming, and writing down your negative mindsets is a very powerful tool in helping you to move past this barrier that has kept you from showing up and achieving what you want in your life and career.
In this lecture you will understand what a mindset is, why it's important, and what negative mindsets are currently subconsciously running the show.
You will walk away from this lecture knowing exactly which powerful, negative mindsets are dictating your daily performance.
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What you focus on becomes your reality. The best way to shift how you feel before you begin speaking and while you’re speaking, whether it’s during a meeting or a conversation or giving a presentation, is to change your mindset.
We started with awareness. In this lecture you will learn how to let go of the mindsets that you became aware of, making room for a set of positive mindsets.
You will walk away from this lecture having worked through your negative mindsets to the point that you can dismiss them or have a plan to shift their effectiveness.
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Now that you’ve disarmed and let go of your negative mindsets, it’s time to replace them with powerful, positive mindsets.
In this lecture you will receive a deeper understanding as to the positive mindsets that are available. You will find the ones that resonate and have the opportunity to put them into action immediately through a simple exercise.
You will walk away from this lecture knowing your new, powerful, positive mindsets and how to put them into action immediately in your daily life.
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Although a lot of people benefit from a specific, individualized mindset such as we came up with in the last lecture, adopting a new general mindset can also be extremely powerful.
One powerful mindset shift that I often give to my clients is “Enjoy yourself while you are speaking” or ask yourself “what can I do in this moment to have more fun?”
In this lecture you will understand the power of this general mindset shift and learn actionable ways to have more fun as you speak.
You will walk away from this video with specific instructions as to how to have more fun with your conversations and meetings on an immediate and daily basis.
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In order to speak up effectively you need to know three things:
When to speak up
What to say
How to shift your delivery to be seen as confident, an authority, and to be taken seriously.
In this video I tackle the first question: "When do I begin speaking up?" And even more importantly, "who should I be when I speak up?"
You'll walk away from this video knowing when to speak, how to begin speaking up, and actionable homework to begin changing your relationship to speaking up, now.
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When speaking up it's most important for your sense of comfort and confidence to be yourself. But who are "You?"
In this video you will understand yourself "self" as your communication style. Your communication style is comprised of the qualities you bring into a conversation, to your team, or into a room when you speak.
It's important that you know you communication style so that you:
Understand what valuable qualities you naturally project
Know when to speak up and what to contribute
You will walk away from this video having a deeper understanding of your communication style, why it's important, and what you can do to use your communication style effectively on a daily basis.
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Sometimes what you’re naturally good at or what you naturally exude doesn’t serve you in every situation. Your delivery choices need to match your environment.
For example If you’re always bringing a good joke into the conversation it might not be serving you if you are looking to be seen as an authority in a serious meeting.
In this lecture I'm going to teach you how to find and incorporate qualities of a leader that you want to develop in yourself.
You will walk away from this lecture knowing how you want to expand your communication style, and how to begin expanding your range in an authentic way immediately.
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The first step in the process of learning a new skillset is to find awareness. In order to develop your awareness of ways in which you currently undercut yourself, we’re going to conduct a short assessment.
In this lecture you will be taken step by step through the process of videoing and assessing yourself to understand how to best take advantage of the following lecture.
You will walk away from this lecture with directions as to how you will conduct a self assessment which is necessary to implementing the lessons of the following lectures.
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The following videos will teach you techniques to communicate confidence and authority each time you speak up.
A benefit to making all of these techniques habitual is not only that you will communicate more confidence and authority in meetings and conversations but by exhibiting the physical and vocal behavior of confidence and authority you will actually begin to feel more confident and authoritative.
In this lecture I will walk you through a short exercise demonstrating why learning new body language and vocal choices is important.
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Our foundational technique for increasing your confidence and authority is sitting and standing in The Neutral Powerful position. By sitting up tall and being still in your center you will communicate that you are solid in yourself, your ideas, and your position.
You will walk away from this video having experienced the power of this standing in your center and keeping your feel in cement and knowing how to implement it in your daily communication.
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The one thing you might shy away from doing when you feel insecure about speaking up or nervous about losing your thought is to make direct authentic eye contact with your audience or people around you.
Making authentic eye contact will force you to stay in the present moment and get real time feedback as to how your points are landing.
You will walk away from this video having experienced the power of mastering your eye contact and knowing how to implement it in your daily communication.
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The best way to relax your body and show that you are confident and comfortable is to take up space as you speak.
This includes standing tall in your center, planting your feet hip width apart, and bringing your hands up to gesture immediately.
In this lecture you will understand exactly how to gesture so that you take up more space in an accessible and natural way.
You will walk away from this video having experienced the power of gesturing effectively to take up space and knowing how to implement it in your daily communication.
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You now know how to take up more space physically by bringing your hands up immediately when you begin speaking to gesture.
Now I’m going to teach you how to energetically take up more space. To do this you will need to learn how to make yourself "present" before you begin speaking.
You will walk away from this video having experienced the power of becoming present before speaking and knowing how to implement this in your daily communication.
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You now know how to use your body language so that you’re taken seriously. Now you need to learn how to express your ideas so that you sound as authoritative as you look.
Here’s the foundational technique that allows you to speak with authority: take a deep diaphragmatic breath before you begin speaking.
You will walk away from this video having experienced the power of breathing to decrease anxiety and increase confidence and knowing how to implement this in your daily communication.
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Catch breathes cause our ideas to sound disconnected and disconnected ideas sound insecure.
Catch breathes cause run on sentences. someone who takes catch breathes you never know where one thought ends and another begins.
Catch breathes also cause us to hyperventilate. Hyperventilation causes anxiety.
When we eliminate catch breathes we eliminate sounding and feeling insecure about what we’re saying.
You will walk away from this video having experienced the power of connecting your ideas with breath and knowing how to implement this in your daily communication.
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If you have even the hint of an uplilt to your voice, it is a sure fire way for your ideas to not be taken seriously and for you to be undercutting yourself all the time.
In this video you will learn what an uplilt is, how to eliminate it from your speech pattern, and how to communicate confidence and authority by ending your sentences.
You will walk away from this video having experienced the power of ending your sentences and knowing how to implement this in your daily communication.
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How often do you speak up at a meeting but feel like no one even heard you. This is a common complaint that I hear from the people that I work with.
There are many reasons why you may be experiencing this, but one reason could be that people didn't actually hear you. Or the way you delivered your idea did not make enough of an impact to stick.
You will walk away from this video having experienced the power of increasing articulation and expression and knowing how to implement this in your daily communication.
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At this point you know that your mindset is no longer getting in your way.
You also have realized that the time to speak up is now and you know what steps you can take on a daily basis to flex your speaking up muscle.
You also know that in order to exude confidence and authority you have to be yourself.
By diving deeply in and dissecting your communication style you know who that “self” is and you know how to embrace that self and expand that self and use your self knowledge to understand when to speak up and what to say.
You now know specific ways in which your unconscious body language and vocal choices might undercut your power and authority, and how to ensure that when you speak up you’ll be taken seriously.
With hard work and dedication you have brought yourself to a new level.
But there is still more potential ahead of you....
Do you want to uplevel your public speaking skillset, especially in front of leadership?
Do you feel like your body language or voice does not convey the authority of a leader?
Do you feel like you are getting passed over for the promotion to leadership that you deserve due to your communication style?
Are you looking for more executive presence in your speaking and presentations?
When you do speak up, do you feel like you are not being heard or taken seriously as an authority with leadership potential?
Hi! I’m Rebecca Martin and I’m an executive public speaking coach. If you answered "yes" to any of the above questions then this public speaking course is for you.
After taking my course you will have the public speaking tools and experience to communicate yourself as confident and an authority in any high-stakes situations. You will find your authentic executive presence.
Here's what sets this course apart from other public speaking courses:
This course is structured intelligently for you to move quickly and go deep in your public speaking journey. Your time is valuable. This course is thoughtfully crafted to give you an intensive experience that will bring your communication to the next level.
You'll start at the root of the problem in your public speaking by understanding what is getting in your way of achieving your communication potential, which most likely is fear and your inner critic.
You’ll learn to embrace your unique communication style so that when you do speak up, you will feel authentic and know how to deliver value that you believe in as a public speaker.
This is not a one-size-fits-all approach, you can tailor these public speaking lessons to you. You'll learn how to assess yourself and choose the voice and body language techniques that help you to communicate with confidence and authority.
Each lecture gives you actionable homework so that by the end of the course you'll have experienced a new relationship with communication and presentation. You will learn by doing the work of public speaking.
Each lecture is crafted to deliver concentrated value and to support different learning styles. Whether you're a doer, a reader, or a listener, each lecture is accompanied by a PDF and MP4.
If you are looking to bring yourself to the next level in your career, and you know you need a new public speaking skillset, it's important that you understand the tools that you have at your immediate disposal. This course is packed with accessible insights and actionable steps to bring your public speaking to the next level.
Reviews of Rebecca Martin Coaching:
"Working with Rebecca was a fantastic experience that I would absolutely recommend to anyone trying to become more persuasive, effective, and comfortable in their professional and personal communication. She was patient and helpful throughout the process, and the tools she gave me have helped me in work and life. A+." Andrew W.
"This has really helped me grow as a person/professional. Having this under my belt, so to speak, has given me great confidence that I actually can speak in front of crowds and do so successfully without appearing nervous or rushing through the material just so I can sit down. Being able to do this opens up doors for me in my career that I have shied away from in trying to avoid public speaking. I may never totally enjoy public speaking but it no longer controls my life and my choices about my profession. It's a great feeling to no longer have this anxiety that would plague me for even the smallest presentations." Cathy D.
"I reached out to Rebecca to help me with my presentation insecurities. I wanted to be more comfortable when speaking in meetings at work, when presenting and sharing my perspective. She helped me gain confidence and taught me how to be calm and expressive when speaking in public. As a result, not only have I gained several presentation opportunities, but also I ended up getting promoted. Isn’t this life changing? She is an exceptional coach." Alma M.