
Theories of Romantic Love
Eros and Chemistry
Imago
Projection
The Romantic Stage (We All Love)
The Inevitable Power Struggle
The True Story of Our Own Power Struggle
Awareness and Insight Stage
Answer the Question, What is It Like Loving with Me?
Transformation Stage
Communicating about fears and feelings Summary
Key Concepts of the Soul Healing Love Model
Why We React the Way We do
Our Brain’s Reaction to Trauma or Soul Wounds
Soul Wounds Create Reactivity
Reactivity in Relationships Create Interactivity
The Way Out: Ownership and Intentionality
In this lecture, you’ll learn:
What soul wounds are and how to identify them
Causes of past emotional and spiritual trauma
The difference between passive and active soul wounds
How passive abuse affects your marriage and family
Steps to begin healing and restoring emotional balance
Exercise The Soul Healogram
Understand what makes marriages work and what leads to failure
Learn the key characteristics of healthy marriages
Identify common predictors of divorce
Discover how marital research aligns with the Book of Proverbs
Gain practical insights for building strong, lasting relationships
Tools to Help You understand What We Are Really Fighting About
Primary Emotions Underneath Anger and How to Communicate Them
Story of a Couple and How They Used the GIFT Exercise
Demonstration of a Real-Life Couple Doing the Exercise
The Digging Deeper Exercise
What is My Trigger
Deeper Emotion
What Soul Wound Was Triggered
How Do I React
What Do I Really Need
Is Your Reaction Working to Help or Hurt Your Relationship
Demonstration of the Digging Deeper Exercise Husbands Part
Demonstration of the Digging Deeper Exercise Wife’s Part
Practical, Doable Behavior That Can Meet Your Partner’s Needs
Explore How to Do “Us Talk”. Finding Emotional Connection and Building a Strong Bond
Have 15 minute weekly talks called The Relationship Update
Include dreams, visions, goals, memories and affirmation
The Giving of Presents Exercise
Giving presents that heal the heart and soul
Forgiveness in Marriage Intro
Intro
The Forgiving Experience Exercise
Empathy, confession, remorse, repentance
The humble request for forgiveness
Steps to Build Trust
Real-life couple demonstration
The Biblical Application of Soul Healing Love
How much God Loves Us
Do you Believe God loves You? What Is Your Idea of God
You are made in His Image Therefore Lovable
Because you are Loved and Lovable You Can be Loving
How You Can Heal Your soul and the Soul of Your Marriage
Hello,
Have you ever wanted a roadmap on how to navigate marital struggles? Do you get stuck in certain
marital conflicts and can’t get out? We are Drs. Bev and Tom Rodgers and have been marriage
counselors for over 40 years and married for almost 50 years. We have spent our lives work learning
everything we can on building healthy relationships which lead to us developing our own model called
The Soul Healing Love Model. The tools and techniques in this model helped heal our own ailing
marriage and we began using it with our couples. We have written 6 books on the subject and have
helped thousands while doing workshops across the globe. We are excited to share this same material
with you in this online course.
The tools and exercises in this course will help you understand yourself and your partner’s past trauma
and how it affects your marriage. You will gain spiritual insights that help you heal from the past and
heal your partner as well. You will learn tools and techniques designed to help you resolve conflict,
reconcile differences, promote emotional connection and foster forgiveness and overall improve your
marriage that will be demonstrated with real-life couples. You will get a 30-page workbook for you and
your spouse use and share. Couples report that this course is insightful and life changing and others
even said that it prevented divorce. This course has helped thousands and it can help you too.
What people are saying
“Our marriage was stressed because of the demands of our careers and our two small children. We
weren’t even talking to each other anymore. After attending the Soul Healers Workshop we slowly began to
mend. The tools and techniques that we learned in this workshop saved our relationship.” Wayne Smith, Local
Pastor
“We had been married 33 years and our divorce was about to be finalized when my attorney
suggested we take one last stab at our marriage and go to the Soul Healers Weekend. Neither one of us really
wanted to go, but we did for the kids and the 33 years of history. The techniques we learned at the workshop
helped us start to communicate again after many years. I am happy and amazed to say that we did not finalize
our divorce and I have a new best friend—my wife. My kids and grandkids are happy, and so are we.” Ben Allen,
Businessman.