Solve your problems at their root!

Discover your transgenerational loyalty and transform it!
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You discover the deep connection with your own family roots
You find in the past of the family causes of current difficulties
You learn to transform this connection into a source of strength


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If you have a persistent strong problem, its deepest possible root is the hidden loyalty to your own family history.

This course will explain the background and show you the solutions.

You may always have intense, stressful feelings like fear, depression, anger). Or you behave in a way that causes you difficulties and although you fight against, you have no success. These can be addictions, deliquent behaviour, being always the victim etc. Or you sabotage your goals and your happiness.

The reason for this is the hidden loyalty in a family. Children absorb feelings or behaviors from former family members and experience them in their lives - without realizing this connection. You have a loving connection to your family in the very depth, even if in real life there was quarrelling, separation, violence or lovelessness!

The first time you hear this, it sounds strange, but in my 20 years of work as a psychologist with family dynamics I have rediscovered it again and again.

If a problem has been haunting you for a long time, I invite you to look with me in this direction of the past of your family.

Who this course is for:

  • People who have been tormented by a problem for a long time and cannot find a real cause for it


Therapeut, Trainer und Coach
Bertold Ulsamer
  • 4.6 Instructor Rating
  • 2,510 Reviews
  • 39,302 Students
  • 31 Courses

~* German Version below *~

PhD in law, certified clinical psychologist, NLP-trainer, trauma therapist (Peter Levine), originally from Germany. My strength is: Putting complicated psychological issues in a nutshell. Understandable for everyone - because the essence is simple! Moreover, I want my participants not only to get ahead theoretically, but also practically. Thus I set great value on them making new experiences and gaining new personal insights.

After graduating in law I also studied psychology. I quickly noticed that I way prefer working with humans to working with paragraphs. So I started to practice as a psychologist - initially with individuals, then mainly with groups. Together with a colleague I founded an institute for NLP in management trainin~* German Version below *~g. We developed and held many seminars about leadership, self-management and communication for customers like BMW, Siemens and Lufthansa.

In the 90’s I discovered the great influence of your own family of origin through the method of “family constellations”. Using this instrument I returned to working as a therapist and held seminars and trainings all over the world (e.g. in Australia, India, South Africa, Russia and the US).

Today I integrate everything I have learned working as a coach and therapist, for the last 9 years, oftentimes in China. I am the author of more than 20 books in the field of professional communication, self-management, family constellations and personal growth that have been translated into 10 languages.

If you are interested in the work I am doing then you may want to get information about my new courses and books. Inscribe you for my newsletter! And you will get reductions of some courses. You can do that on my website.

Dr. jur., Dipl.-Psychologe, NLP-Trainer, Traumatherapeut (Peter Levine). Meine Stärke ist: komplizierte psychologische Sachverhalte verständlich auf den Punkt bringen. Denn das Wesentliche ist im Grunde einfach! Und dann ist mir vor allem wichtig, dass Teilnehmerinnen und Teilnehmer eigene Erfahrungen machen und neue Einsichten gewinnen statt nur in der Theorie schlauer zu werden!

Nach dem Jurastudium habe ich noch Psychologie studiert. Schnell habe ich gemerkt, dass mir Menschen lieber sind als Paragraphen. Habe dann mit einer kleinen Praxis angefangen, aber vor allem immer mit Gruppen gearbeitet. Ein Kollege und ich gründeten dann ein Institut für Management-Training, wo ich viele Seminare zu Führung, Kommunikation und Selbst-management durchführte für Kunden wie BMW, Lufthansa und Siemens. Mitte der 90er Jahre entdeckte ich die große Auswirkung der eigenen Familie im Hintergrund über die Methode Familienaufstellungen. Damit ging ich noch einmal in die therapeutische Richtung und führte Seminare und Fortbildungen in der ganzen Welt durchgeführt (z. B. in Australien, Indien, Südafrika, USA, Russland) Heute integriere ich all das, was ich bisher gelernt habe, und arbeite als Seminarleiter, Therapeut und Coach, seit zehn Jahren häufig in China. Ich bin Autor von 24 Büchern zu den Themen Kommunikation, Selbstmanagement und Aufstellungsarbeit, von denen es Übersetzungen in zehn Sprachen gibt. 

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