
We’ll be looking at what makes certain issues sensitive, some of the legal considerations for employers when addressing these issues and how to approach a conversation about a delicate matter with an employee.
By the end of this lecture you will understand:
- why certain issues are particularly sensitive
- why managers may need to raise them
-some of the challenges they can face when they do.
The key to knowing when to raise an issue with someone is being able to recognise when it’s having a demonstrably negative impact on:
- a person’s performance, or that of other people
- the general working environment
- the safety or wellbeing of others
- relations with your clients or customers
- your organisation’s reputation, image or values.
Employers and managers are often reluctant to raise sensitive personal issues with staff if they’re causing a problem at work.
This might be because they are concerned about the person’s reaction, or they might feel embarrassed about having to address a particular subject. But it can mean that problems aren’t addressed properly and that they just get worse.
There is also a very real concern among employers that raising certain personal issues could lay them open to accusations of bullying, harassment or discrimination. That’s why it’s important to have a basic understanding of both your organisation’s policies and procedures and certain key aspects of the law.
Establish your reasons and goals
1. Why have you decided to raise the issue? This could be anything from a particular incident, or a pattern of behaviour, developments in your organisation, or a failure to meet performance targets.
2. What result do you want to get?
You don’t have to have a precise plan of action figured out, but you do need to know what you want to happen. The challenge is then to work out how.
3. What barriers or resistance are you likely to face? The person concerned could refuse to admit there’s a problem, or you might suspect that they’ll react badly. The better prepared you are, the easier it will be to handle any obstacles that arise.
Common sensitive issues include poor personal hygiene, alcohol or drug misuse, inappropriate work attire or conduct, sexual behaviour or caring responsibilities.
Such issues require careful handling if they are to be resolved effectively – and if employers are to avoid legal or tribunal action.
The time to raise an issue is when it’s having a demonstrably negative impact, for example if it’s affecting someone’s performance or on the reputation of your organisation.
Determine the concerns
It’s important to ensure that you relate any issue to a genuine, specific work-related concern – and that it isn’t simply down to a difference in views, morals or taste.
Always be direct and specific about the problem you’re addressing – don’t leave the person concerned in any doubt about what the issue is or why you’re raising it.
It’s essential to consider whether you simply want to have an informal chat about the issue, or whether you need to go down the disciplinary route. You’ll need to handle things differently if you do.
Make sure that the issue you’re raising has a direct work relevance.
Think carefully about what you want to achieve and consider how to make the conversation a constructive one.
Choose the right place and time to talk.
Familiarise yourself with your organisation’s policies and procedures so that you have a framework for action.
Consider whether you’re going to have an informal chat or whether the issue requires you to go down the formal disciplinary route.
If you’re going down the formal disciplinary route, it’s advisable to adhere to the Acas Code.
Whatever the nature of the issue you’re dealing with, it’s important to show respect and do everything you can to maintain the dignity of the person concerned.
Sincerity, honesty, respect, dignity and compassion are essential when discussing sensitive issues.
Make sure that you take a collaborative approach to finding a solution – the person is more likely to commit to the solution if they’ve had their voice heard and feel that they will benefit in some way.
Be sure to follow up with the person to make sure that they are taking appropriate action to remedy the situation.
Depending on the issue, it might take several conversations to get to the bottom of a problem and find a way of resolving it, so don’t assume that it can be fixed in one go. It’s very important to work together to find a solution – that way, you stand a better chance of getting to the root of the problem, addressing it effectively and preventing it from recurring.
Once you’ve agreed a way forward, it’s important to make sure that the person concerned accepts responsibility for resolving the issue. You can offer them support and guidance – but ultimately it’s down to them to take action. Make sure that you follow up with the person in a few days’ time to check that they are doing what you agreed and that progress is being made.
Whatever the nature of the issue you’re dealing with, it’s important to show respect and do everything you can to maintain the dignity of the person concerned.
Remember to:
Respect both the person and the problem
Avoid any expressions of judgment – it’s not your job to judge or moralise, so do your best to stay neutral
Don’t assume you know the whole story - ask questions to check that you’ve fully understood the issue or situation.
Whether it’s speaking to someone about their bad body odour, tackling issues around someone’s personal life, dealing with sickness and bereavement or addressing suspected alcohol or drug abuse, being able to have conversations around sensitive issues is a key skill that can mean the difference between a happy, productive workforce and one that’s plagued by stress, poor employee dynamics and low productivity.
It’s also essential for employers and managers to be aware of common legal pitfalls around dealing with certain issues in order to avoid costly tribunal action further down the line.
Combining thought-provoking original drama with insight from an employment law expert and leading workplace psychologists, this course from Skill Boosters provides employers and managers with a toolkit for raising delicate and personal issues and resolving them effectively at an early stage.
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