
Sensei Jerry discusses the basics of bullying and what he hopes students can gain from this course.
Lesson Objectives…
1) At the end of this lesson students should be able to recognize and identify what a bully
is.
2) Students should be able to identify why bullying is more of a threat to us than being
teased.
Sensei Jerry discusses with the students what a bully is, who is a bully, and who the bullied is.
Lesson Objectives…
1) To review the definition of a bully
2) To discuss how a bully makes you feel
3) How can we react to a bully? using our tools
4) The importance of confidence
Sensei Jerry goes through his proven method of dealing with bullies: his ABCs.
The ABC’s of bullying
What are they, how can they help? Lifelong skills?
The ABCs of bullying are lifelong skills, meaning, they can help all ages at all times if a
problem occurs. Everyone could benefit from the understanding of the ABC’s and how to
use them correctly for non-violent self protection.
The ABC’s of bullying was created to give students simple, yet effective ways to protect
themselves from bullying with using our bodies to look, feel and sound confident. No violent
pushback here!
Steps to remember…
A is for Awareness
B is for Boundaries
C is for Communication, Courage, and Confidence
At the end of this lesson students should be able to define what awareness is
At the end of this lesson students should be able to define what a boundary is
At the end of this lesson students should be able to define what Communication is
At the end of this lesson students should be able to repeat the 3 steps (the abc’s) of
anti-bullying
In this lesson, Sensei Jerry teaches awareness when it comes to bullying and gives the kids a classroom exercise.
At the end of this lesson students should be able to define awareness
At the end of this lesson students should be able to define what physical means
At the end of this lesson students should be able to define Mental awareness
In this lesson, Sensei Jerry shows the importance of maintaining your safe space through setting boundaries and understanding when those boundaries are crossed.
At the end of this lesson students should be able to define what a boundary is
At the end of this lesson students should be able to explain how boundaries help us stay safe
In this session we will discuss …
A ) boundaries - What are they
B ) How to know when boundaries are crossed
C ) What to do when boundaries are crossed
Here, Sensei Jerry talks about the importance of communication while also explaining how it takes confidence and courage to speak up when you or someone you know is being bullied.
At the end of this lesson students should be able to define what communication is
At the end of this lesson students should be able to explain what communications with in ourselves means
At the end of this lesson students should be know and show that the bully is the first person to speak up to
In this session we will discuss …
A) and define Communication
B) Communicate with the bully first, if possible
C) Communicate with others who can help resolve the issue.
Others who should know what is going on (someone of
authority and/or parents and guardians).
Working the ABC’s
Be aware of situations ( as Victim, or Witness, or…)
What boundaries were crossed (why does the victim feel violated,)
Response depends on violation
Who do we communicate with, when, what will this communication do for me?
Do for the Bully? Do for the group?
In This Section We Will …
Look at various ways to utilize the “ABC’s of Anti-Bullying”
In answering “Why do we want to have a program that teaches us how to prevent
bullying?”, the answer is simple…
1) We all want children to be able to grow up in a world free of fear (as much as is
reasonable and possible).
20% of students 12 - 18 experience some form of bullying
1 out of 5 students
Can we accept 20% of students not functioning up to their ability?
2) Bullying creates an atmosphere of fear that we want to prevent
As educators we have seen, and statistics support, Stress, Anxiety, Low
motivation, poor test scores, Low Self-Esteem, Negative Self-Perception and more can be
caused by being bullied, not the ideal atmosphere for learning new and challenging concepts.
3) Unfortunately bullying is a reality in the world and we need to give tools for our
students to use, to help them avoid and protect themselves from harm.
Simple rules and tools that can help prevent lasting damage, tools that can provide life long
strategies for dealing with bullying, and other threatening situations.
In Teaching children how to protect themselves we need to help them respect
themselves. Children need to know and show respect so they can be and feel respected.
Students must try and learn to “Look, Feel, and Sound confident.” This is a theme we will use
throughout these lessons. Teaching students to “Look, Feel and Sound Confident” gives
students one tool to use and rely on, one that benefits them, and does no harm to others.
However, we also teach the ABC’s of bullying, which you will learn here in this course.