
Begin your self-defense journey from beginner to capable protector with weekly essentials videos on fear, adrenaline and fight-or-flight, pre-emptive strike, and close-quarter combat, plus drills and coaching.
Refine footwork to maintain balance and deliver solid shots while avoiding slips. Stay on the center line with 50/50 weight, moving forward and back along a taped line.
Learn the close quarter principles for survival, using big hits to the head or groin with palms, hammer fists, elbows, and knees, then quickly disengage with the diamond effect.
Learn to stay out of an opponent's power box, move to the side to strike from outside, and clinch for controlled strikes, using angles, slips, and timed movements.
Defend against wild punches by keeping hands up and elbows out, slipping with footwork, using low kicks and palm strikes, and using environment as a weapon to clinch or escape.
Move head and feet to stay a hard target, keep hands up, and lower your center of gravity. Practice off-center hand movement, stance switching, and stay calm to avoid flinching.
Choose palm striking for quicker release, better follow-through, and no knuckle busting compared to punching; keep hands open and ready to strike to bridge the gap to the face.
How to defend yourself against someone with an inflated ego
Recognize how your ego can lead to trouble in self defense by identifying the story you tell yourself, disassociating personal meaning, and choosing calm, apologizing if needed to walk away.
Awareness and reading body language prepare you to defend against a sucker punch. From parrying and slipping to rapid strikes, the drill emphasizes timing, hands up, and bridging the gap.
Learn to hit with power by coordinating your whole body, transferring weight from the hips, and delivering each strike with explosive power through integrated movement and mirror practice.
Learn palm strike fundamentals: angle the strike across the ear, target underneath the jawline, and maintain hands-up posture, with slow, controlled practice to build power.
Learn to defend against a headbutt by keeping your hands up, preventing close range, and extending straight out to land follow-up strikes.
Master close-quarters elbow techniques by turning the knee and body behind each strike, keeping elbows from telegraphing, and practicing from the face with slow, controlled releases before integrating other strikes.
Learn to trap an attacker, drive knee strikes from the hip, and target the groin, chest, or ribs from inside or outside while maintaining balance.
Learn to defend against a two arm lapel grab by raising and trapping the attacker's arms, delivering palm strikes to jaw or throat, and stepping in with blocks and strikes.
Master a five-minute, three-area breathing practice—inhale through the nose, exhale through the mouth—isolating breaths at the collar bones, below the sternum, and the belly button to calm the fight-or-flight response.
Learn self-defense to escape a headlock by tucking your chin, lowering your center of gravity, and trapping the attacker's arm to create openings for escape.
In close-quarters against a bigger attacker, deliver a low groin strike to drop him, then switch to a high strike, using hip movement for speed and power.
Master the hit and run concept, a three-step escape: raise your hands, execute a double palm strike, and snap your hips to disengage. Finish quickly and escape to safety.
Reflect honestly on your self-defense progress by revisiting your why, tracking awareness, body control, and confidence, and observe how changes surface internally and externally. Anticipate advanced situational and mind-body training.
Learn the unique combination of basic skills of self defense, along with the mindset and awareness required to really apply them in real life.
In this program, you will learn:
basics of stance and footwork
understanding your mindset and motivation
basic strike skills
how to diffuse a situation
how to use a bob dummy for training
gain a mental and psychological edge to beat any attacker
build your confidence and self esteem
change your behavior and attitude to make you attack-proof
and much more!
Defining fight or flight
The fight or flight response is an automatic physiological reaction to an event that is perceived as stressful or frightening. The perception of threat activates the sympathetic nervous system and triggers an acute stress response that prepares the body to fight or flee. It’s basic instinct.
The Physiology of Fight or Flight
The “fight or flight” response is perhaps one of the most iconic pieces of “science” in self-defense circles. In the 1920’s American physiologist Walter Cannon was the first to brand the fight or flight response. He discovered that there are readily occurring reactions inside the body to propel its resources to deal with danger, including violence.
In addition, fight or flight ingrains psychological aspects – effective decision-making under stress, emotional tenacity, and trusting in the capacity of our instincts. During fight or flight, the gamut of our bodily systems is functioning to keep us alive in what we sense to be an unsafe or threatening situation. It’s assessing the density of the threat – what is occurring around us and determining our options.
It trains in the most realistic setting possible to develop the solid mental preparedness we need to react and survive. However, it’s imperative to remember never to mistake your reality-based training for an actual attack. When faced with the brutal reality of a violent attacker, or intense harm, your body will experience a biochemical response that one could never entirely prepare for.
Biochemical responses influence one or all of our five senses. Here’s how it works. As mentioned, the stress response initiates in the brain. Threat signals become processed in the amygdala or the ‘fear center’ of the brain. In turn, they travel to the hypothalamus, or ‘smart control’ area of the brain, which functions like a command center, communicating with the rest of the body. Finally, it activates the nervous system, empowering us with the energy to fight or flee.