How to stop telling your kids to 'CALM DOWN!'

Name: How to stop telling your kids to 'CALM DOWN!'
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Learning a new parenting language that will help transform your family dynamics

Created byAli Fanshawe

Last updated 1/2022

English

What you'll learn

Transform your family dynamics by reducing challenging behaviours
Improve your parental mental health
Feel like a better parent because you better understand your kids' special, additional and emotional needs
Learn a new parenting language - a different way to communicate and interact with your kids
Better understand the needs of your kids (which may be different to your needs as a child)

Course content

5 sections • 22 lectures • 1h 57m total length

Introduction4:35
Introduction to the instructor who shares her story of life with kids with special, additional and emotional needs. Setting expectations around the course and info for learners on what knowledge they’ll gain from the course and what they’ll be able to do by the end. Intended audience and any pre-requisites.
Lecture 2: Overview of the course6:53
How to learn a new parenting language and what to expect from it.
Lecture 3: Exercise - Noticing your language1:28
Exercise - learning to notice your parenting language and how it makes you feel.

Lecture 4: Challenging behaviours4:07
You may have joined this course because you're struggling with your kids' big feelings and behaviours and/or because you are looking for a different way to parent your child, for whatever reason that may be. In this lecture we start to look at and understand some of those big behaviours.
Lecture 5: Reasons for challenging behaviours8:35
Stress, learning disabilities, ACEs and/or highly sensitive children can struggle with big behaviours. This is why.
Lecture 6: Exercise - what challenging behaviours are your kids presenting with?1:14
An exercise to help identify challenging behaviours and how they are affecting your family.

Lecture 10: Your new Top 3 core scripts3:28
Lecture 11: In an emergency go to A&E7:47
That's accept and empathise, not accident and emergency!
Lecture 12: Connect before you correct6:30
Staying connected to your kids is really critical.
Lecture 13: The power of silence6:54
Silence and walking away are powerful uses of body language.
Lecture 14: Exercise - what can you do differently on Day 1?1:58
Spend time considering your kids' biggest challenging behaviours and feelings right now - which phrases may help him or her (or you) the most?
Lecture 15: 5 phrases to kickstart your new parenting language1:50
5 new phrases to start using immediately.
Lecture 16: Exercise - A phrase for anger4:25
A new phrase to use with the angry child.
Lecture 17: Exercise - A phrase for rudeness4:41
A phrase to use with the rude child.
Lecture 18: Exercise - A phrase for problem-solving4:45
A phrase to use with a stress child who needs help problem-solving.
Lecture 19: Exercise - A phrase for defiance6:05
A phrase to use with the defiant or oppositional child.
Lecture 20: Exercise - A phrase for screentime4:43
A phrase to help with the child who wants more screentime.
Lecture 21: What language is your body speaking?9:35
Learning the importance of voice tone and body language as well as the words you use.

Requirements

Description

Join us for the first in a series of workshops on learning a new parenting language.

In this workshop we will cover:

1. Helping you understand why kids with special, additional or higher emotional needs (fizzy kids as we like to call them!) require a different parenting approach.

2. Making you aware of the language you currently use with your kids and asking whether it's working.

3. Helping you start to re-learn to be the parent your kid needs you to be by learning a new parenting language.

Our transformative parenting approach will improve your parental mental health by getting you back in control of your emotions and helping your kids become more regulated in the meantime. It will transform your family dynamics and gives you something really tangible to do differently with your kids by providing a practical tool that brings together the best of therapeutic, mindful and intentional parenting techniques.

Your child may have a diagnosed special or additional need or they may just be highly sensitive and taking longer to reach emotional maturity. You may have tried different parenting techniques but nothing feels like it is working.

Wherever you are on your parenting journey, you are welcome here. FizzyKids is a supportive and non-judgemental community - we're just re-learning to be the parents our fizzy kids need us to be one messy step at a time.

Who this course is for:

Parents and family members who have kids with special, additional and emotional needs
Professional carers, teachers and support workers who work with kids with additional needs
Anyone who wants to learn a new, responsive approach to interacting with kids

How to stop telling your kids to 'CALM DOWN!'

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Course content

Introduction3 lectures • 13min

Understanding your child3 lectures • 14min

Section 3: Becoming aware of your parenting language3 lectures • 23min

Section 4: Learning a new parenting language12 lectures • 1hr 3min

Section 5: Conclusion1 lecture • 5min

Requirements

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