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This course includes:

  • 14 hours on-demand video
  • 9 articles
  • 17 downloadable resources
  • Full lifetime access
  • Access on mobile and TV
Personal Development Parenting & Relationships Marriage

Rules of Engagement: Fair Fighting for Marriage [Vol 1-3]

Understanding How Conflicts Work, Structure & Tools for Fighting, Guided Resolution for Conflicts
Highest Rated
Rating: 4.7 out of 54.7 (35 ratings)
151 students
Created by Ly Tran
Last updated 8/2020
English
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30-Day Money-Back Guarantee

What you'll learn

  • Essential skills for handling marital conflict

Requirements

  • The student must be in a committed long-term relationship and committed to working on their relationship

Description

Thought about seeing a marriage therapist but not sure if you have the time, money or necessity for it?  This course, taught by a professional marriage counselor of over 12 years, will help guide you through some basic and advanced concepts for improving the way you fight, how you navigate your fights, and how you can resolve them better. 

Who this course is for:

  • Married People

Course content

11 sections • 50 lectures • 14h 13m total length

  • Preview03:25

  • [DOWNLOAD FIRST] Workbook
    00:22
  • Preview09:46
  • Emotional Regulation & Processing
    11:36
  • Emotional Resiliency & Empathetic Connection
    11:40
  • [EXTRAS] Podcast Discussion: Key Skills for Conflict
    34:10
  • [EXTRAS] Podcast Discussion: Dynamics of Conflict
    44:06

  • [DOWNLOAD 1ST] Workbook Reading, Exercises, Case Studies, Guides & More
    00:04
  • Common Bad Speaking Habits and Mistakes in Conflict
    12:16
  • [EXTRAS] Podcast Discussion: Bad Speaking in Conflicts
    54:59
  • Common Bad Listening/Responding Habits in Conflict
    10:45
  • [EXTRAS] Podcast Discussion: Bad Responding in Conflict
    29:20

  • [DOWNLOAD 1ST] Workbook Reading, Exercises, Case Studies, Guides & More
    00:04
  • Introduction to Narratives: The Underlying Drivers for Conflict
    10:31
  • Origins for Narratives: Understanding Where Underlying Drivers Come From
    07:22
  • Dealing with Narratives: Reconciling and Healing Underlying Issues for Conflict
    07:24
  • [EXTRAS] Podcast Discussion: Underlying Drivers for Conflict
    52:48

  • [DOWNLOAD 1ST] Workbook Reading, Exercises, Case Studies, Guides & More
    00:04
  • Part Two Introduction: Structure
    05:37
  • Pitching: Speaking & Communicating in Conflict
    13:20
  • Catching: Listening & Responding in Conflict
    10:44
  • [EXTRAS] Podcast Discussion: Pitching & Catching
    37:21
  • Tiers & Lanes: Different Levels of Depth and Different Types of Conversations
    08:35

  • [DOWNLOAD 1ST] Workbook Reading, Exercises, Case Studies, Guides & More
    00:04
  • Proactive vs. Reactive Conflicts
    13:48
  • Conflict Cycles: Healthy & Unhealthy Loops for Fighting
    11:52
  • Organizing Conflict: Dividing & Conquering Your Fights
    12:33

  • [DOWNLOAD 1ST] Workbook Reading, Exercises, Case Studies, Guides & More
    00:04
  • Emergency & Clarity Lanes: Preventing Escalation and Unnecessary Conflict
    11:19
  • [EXTRAS] Podcast Discussion: Timeouts, Clarifying & Proactive Conversations
    01:02:58
  • Meta-Conflicts & Goal Setting: Guided Conversations to Setup Conflicts Better
    09:37
  • 5-Point Safety Harness: Critical Mindsets and Postures for Safe Conflicts
    13:10
  • [EXTRAS\ Podcast Discussion: 5 Point Safety for Conflict
    38:44

  • [DOWNLOAD 1ST] Workbook Reading, Exercises, Case Studies, Guides & More
    00:04
  • Part Three Introduction
    10:16
  • Tier Two Alignments: Dreaming Together and Being Unified on Vision and Purpose
    09:56
  • Tier Two Hurts: An Introduction to What They Are and Why They're Important
    06:14
  • Tier Two Hurts: Connecting with Empathy Through Difficult Emotions
    11:18
  • {EXTRAS] Podcast Discussion: Connecting Through Empathy
    38:44

  • [DOWNLOAD 1ST] Workbook Reading, Exercises, Case Studies, Guides & More
    00:04
  • Fighting Cadence & Rhythms for Conflicts
    07:59
  • Tier Three Misalignments: Dealing with Conflicts Caused by Misalignments
    15:50
  • [EXTRAS] Podcast Discussion: Conflicts Due to Misalignments
    54:03

  • [DOWNLOAD 1ST] Workbook Reading, Exercises, Case Studies, Guides & More
    00:04
  • Tier Three Hurts: Pitching & Communicating Wounds & Hurt Feelings
    09:57
  • Tier Three Hurts: Catching & Responding to Your Spouses Pain & Hurt
    08:52
  • [EXTRAS] Podcast Discussion: Dealing with Conflicts Due to Hurts & Wounds
    52:59
  • Tier Three Hurts: Reconciling Deep Hurts & Resentments that Don't Heal Easy
    10:56
  • [EXTRAS] Podcast Discussion: Dealing with Deep Hurts & Resentments
    01:01:09

Instructor

Ly Tran
Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor
Ly Tran
  • 4.7 Instructor Rating
  • 35 Reviews
  • 152 Students
  • 2 Courses

Ly Tran is a licensed counselor with over 12 years of experience.  He specializes in marriage therapy, communication and conflict resolution, and helping individuals grow in the mental, emotional and relational health.  Ly owns a counseling practice where he trains a group of over 25 therapists.  He holds a Masters Degree in Counseling and is his final dissertation phase of his doctoral work to be completed in winter of 2020. 

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