Rewrite Your Story After Narcissistic Abuse in Relationships

In this lecture, I'll explain how and why it's so important for you to gain and maintain control of your thoughts, especially during and after a relationship with a toxic narcissist. I'll offer powerful, proven techniques you can use to instantly improve your life, plus explain why it matters so much and how you can gain full control of your personal manifesting power.

Sometimes success and failure is all in your head - in this video, I'll offer an explanation and examples of how and why your mindset can change your life, literally and directly, and I'll show you how taking inspired action, along with a certain kind of tenacity, can help you to get everything you truly want in your life and for yourself. It's a simple but surprisingly effective way of making things happen the way you want them to happen.

When you've been abused by a toxic narcissist, you might find yourself forgetting how to make your own choices in life. Since narcissists are so controlling and hyper-sensitive, we fall into the trap and habit of getting their thoughts/approval/acceptance before we choose literally ANYTHING.

This can leave us feeling stagnant and not getting ahead in our lives - but it's time to change all that. 

In this lecture, I'll explain how to start making your own decisions again - the big ones, especially - after you've been in a relationship with a toxic, abusive narcissist. Since most narcissists control every aspect of their relationships, whether directly or by manipulation, many survivors find themselves unable to make big decisions - they find themselves paralyzed and dissociated. I'm also including a report on dissociation in the resources section for you.

This lecture is an overview of writing your abuse story and why it matters, as well as an explanation on how it can help you to heal. 

This lecture offers an overview of the first worksheet in the workbook you downloaded after your previous lecture. You may just write along with the video, or just watch it and then use the workbook to follow along and enter your answers afterward.

This lecture is pure technique and offers a step-by-step guide that takes you through the first steps you need to take to help you get your abuse story moving and start putting it together.

This lecture goes through the steps you need to take to bring your abuse story to life - it helps you to create both understanding and allows you to personally connect to your potential reader - or to yourself. 

Now it's time to round out and finish up your abuse story. This lecture walks you through the final steps and corresponds with the last section of your workbook.

Contrary to popular belief, you won't have to wait until tomorrow or next week or next year to become a "new" you. The new you won't have to wait until you reach your goal weight, until you get that degree or new job or new spouse--it can happen right now.

Your gratitude journal can become a simple but highly effective tool for your personal transformation - I'll explain how and offer photo evidence that it works in this lecture.

In this lecture, we're going to focus on your environment, at least the part of it that you can directly affect. I'll explain how and why your home affects who you are and what you can do to make it more congruent with your true self - as well as how it can affect your ability to meet your goals. We'll work toward releasing the negative energy that causes us to fail at reaching our goals and our true happiness, and more. 

You might be shocked to realize exactly how often (and how significantly) other people's beliefs can get stuck in your head and cause your life to become something that you don't really want. For those of us who have experienced narcissistic abuse, these "inner voices" can become very toxic and damaging to us - and they can stop us from creating the lives we want.

When we indulge in these limiting beliefs about ourselves, we also put our lives on hold. We stagnate and we fail to thrive. When we can let them go and intentionally CHOOSE our thoughts and beliefs, the world opens to us and we are able to embrace the divinely inspired lives we deserve.

In this video, I'll teach you how to identify and let go of the limiting beliefs that are floating around in your head, changing your life without your knowledge and consent. We're going to evict those kinds of beliefs and prepare to replace them with your personally selected intentions,

This is a life-changing moment - let's do it together. Are you ready?

Inside the video, you'll also get a special Bliss Mission to help you get to the next level in your recovery after narcissistic abuse.

Once you have released the negative perceptions about yourself, what will you have left? Hopefully, a lot of positive ones. Even so, by clearing all of the negative thoughts and perceptions about yourself, you may find that your slate feels a little blank. Your self-perception "vessel" may be in need of a refill, so to speak.

It might feel exciting and like a great opportunity--or maybe it feels a little scary to you.

After all, you now get to decide how you want to perceive yourself. As you believe, you become (especially with a little inspired action.)

In this lecture, I'll teach you how to decide what and who you want to become in your new life. And, I'll teach you how to begin to become that person today. Plus, I'll give you a simple 5-step exercise that will help you to determine what you want - and what you don't want - to have and to be in your own life.

We all need to have vision and purpose - and we all have varying strengths and varying levels of talents and interests. But when we're on the road to recovering from narcissistic abuse, one of our biggest hurdles can be discovering our passion and learning how to embrace it.

The most effective way I've found to do that is to write your future story AHEAD of time. 

In this exercise, I'm going to do a little exercise with you that looks a lot like a meditation.

In this final lecture, I'll share the secret to creating a blueprint/playbook - or a personalized instruction manual - to take the goal or theme you selected in your last lesson, and determine which steps you need to take in order to get there. When you're finished with the exercise in this video, you'll have a personally created blueprint to the life you've always wanted.