
Identify how a triggering event shifts you from well-being to survival mode, a common pattern in therapy, and consider how to let go of negative emotions.
Learn how your mind labels difficult situations, replays past experiences, and distorts reality through personal mythology, then undo unconscious patterns to reduce defense and projection.
Recognize how past distortions shape present perception, correct your mental lens, analyze personal mythology, and reframe beliefs to see reality clearly.
Identify how prejudices form from past experiences and how personal mythology colors perception. Observe emotions without judgment to perceive reality as it is and regain dignity in difficult situations.
Learn to recognize the physiological stress response, stop projection, and use deep breaths to become an outside observer, restoring dignity and defusing negative emotions.
Identify that perception distorts reality, filtered by a personal mythology shaped by past experiences. Practice dispassionate observation to subtract this influence and see reality clearly.
Recognize the drama as a fight-or-flight response, pause, breathe, observe reality without distortion, and break the compulsion to repeat to restore dignity.
Observe impartially and ask why you attracted this experience, recognizing you invited it for growth. Practice true forgiveness by thanking the other person, restoring your dignity.
Discover how to recover dignity in tough moments by avoiding losing temper and vilification, and train with preemptive exercises to stay dignified and help others find theirs when it matters.
Discover how personal mythology and subconscious pattern recognition shape perception, and learn to identify distortions in reality to improve the quality of life.
Practice and deliberate exercises help you grasp these ideas and restore your own dignity. Repeated explanations in different ways illuminate the mind barrier to true communication.
Read your own biography by watching the movie of your life from an outside perspective, and train yourself to enter instant physical and mental relaxation in a consistent chair-based routine.
Learn to deepen breathing with diaphragmatic awareness, progressively relax every muscle group from toes to head, and reduce tension headaches through guided self-hypnosis techniques.
Build deep mental relaxation by counting backwards to steady the mind. Use a personal cue, like peaceful, to return quickly to the calm state.
Explore post-hypnotic suggestions and self-hypnosis techniques to trigger deep relaxation, program a return to calm states with a personal cue, and progress toward letting go of negative emotions.
Learn to relax physically and mentally, use autosuggestion to enter a hypnotic state, and subtract past experiences to restore personal dignity and manage negative emotions.
Practice relaxation through post-hypnotic suggestion to access the movie of your life in reverse, identifying personal myths by recalling events and emotions from present back to birth.
Experience this technique firsthand by retracing emotionally charged memories in reverse. Use deep relaxation and a password cue to manage stress responses and uncover memory gaps.
Identify distortion of perception caused by past baggage, such as childhood memories and loud TV, and learn to subtract the myth from the present to calm emotions.
Practice repeated memory sweeps from present to birth using a deep-relaxation technique to retrieve painful events, restore tranquility, and observe what is happening with a present-focused, nonjudgmental perception.
Engage in a lifelong practice of daily exercises over weeks to condition your mind to the present, regain dignity, and handle day-to-day conflicts without losing control.
Learn real-time calm and true understanding by using mental techniques to dialogue with difficult people, discover they’re not monsters, and finally understand their perspective.
Maintain calm under pressure and observe conversations with no emotions, then respond with compassion, recognizing the other person's dignity and the lesson you invited.
Practice true forgiveness by becoming an observer, cultivate compassion, and restore dignity through forgiving yourself; experience miracles as your mindset shifts through guided exercises.
Master emotional freedom by turning understanding into automatic practice through focused exercises; overcome unconscious bias and cultivate volition to transform daily experiences.
Discover how perception shapes reality by recognizing that light and personal stories color what you see. Practice neutral observation to break automatic reactions and move toward forgiveness.
Compare morality versus feel-based education. It shows how teaching what feels good guides behavior, and warns about mislabeling discomfort as wrongdoing while highlighting growth through hard work and challenges.
Start these exercises at a time that feels natural to you, morning, day, or night. Practice in a comfortable, private space, often before sleep, and adjust as you gain experience.
Celebrate completing the course on defeating the enemy within by letting go of negative emotions, and book a one-on-one session via Zoom or phone to discuss ideas or personal topics.
Have you ever totally "lost it" and basically made a fool of yourself? Most people would think that this would be a conversation about how you felt afterwards. No such conversation here because we all know what it feels like to "loose it": if feels demeaning, humiliating and frankly, quite embarrassing. Instead I would like to ask you a different question: what was it that you lost when you say that you "lost it". A common answer to that question is: my temper, or my patience. if you feel that all you lost was your temper or your patience when you "lost it", no doubt you have also noticed that that you keep on "loosing it", and each time it gets a little worse. Part of the problem is that we don't know what it is that we have lost and we certainly do not know how to recover it, until now. I will explain this most common problem that afflicts all people in a way that you never heard before. You will learn what exercises to do, how to do them, and how to proceed the next time the going gets tough for you. You will feel elated to discover what few have discovered before you, and you will feel that you transcended the most visceral aspect of human nature.
The presentation and delivery of this course evolved over 20 years of therapy and teaching. Frequent repetition of key concepts and alternative explanations for the same ideas have proven to make our classes more enjoyable and productive for students. When students understand a topic and later hear an alternative explanation of the same idea they feel confident in their learning and expand their awareness of themselves. Additionally, students often comment that it is almost as if they can hear the instructor "talking to them", as the concepts covered seem to stay with students forever.
You will get a number of video lectures where I look directly into your eyes. I suggest you allow yourself the opportunity to watch the lectures at least once looking into the screen and focusing on the concepts. Later you can download the audio lectures and listen to them again if you wish.
I answer all questions students ask. Not only I enjoy very much receiving and addressing your questions, but actually I thank you for them, since all courses after the first one we did evolved from questions from students.
Thank you, and welcome to the journey!
Flavio Souza-Campos