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Optimal Parenting The Complete "Help me I'm a Parent" Series

Everything you want & need to know about parenting and childhood understanding Succeed from infant to College graduation
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Rating: 5.0 out of 55.0 (1 rating)
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Created by Coach Hall
Last updated 12/2020
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What you'll learn

  • The Complete Help me I'm a parent Series
  • Personal, Relationship & Parenting basic to expert level Skills
  • Childhood Development basic to expert level Understanding
  • Family Management basic to expert level Skills
  • Child to Parent & Parent to Child Basic to expert level Communication Skills
  • How to create a parenting goals, agreements, rules, an optimal parenting style
  • The what, when, why & and how of parenting From infant to Empty nesting the entire childhood, parenthood journey

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Description

Hello Parent,


Have you ever thought about or asked these questions?


How can I get my kids to behave?

How can I get some time for me, before I lose control?

What can I do to protect my child from all terrible things including failing class or bullying?

Why do I do all parenting work? How do I get my Co-parent to be more of a parent?

How do I get help from a world that doesn’t prepare us to be parents?

How can I make certain that my kids will grow up with all the tools in life to be happy, successful and fulfilled?


These are some of the many questions you may have as a mom or dad. Have you ever written out a list answering these questions?

What are your biggest concerns about parenting?

What are your greatest desires for your family?

What do you worry about most about your children?

What are your wishes for your children?


Well, before we continue…WHAT IF there was a ONE STOP, does it all PARENTING the best way possible, solution that easily answers and shows you how to proceed to resolve every question listed above, would you be interested in having that know how?

What about solutions to unforeseen yet to be asked questions that will come up on your parenthood journey, would you like to have that kind of readiness, preparedness to deal with all the unknowns of parenthood & childhood?

What about the knowhow to deal with all your concerns, worries, struggles and challenges you may have about, your children, your parenting skills and all things family related, would you be interested in having that knowledge?

What about having what amounts to a CHILD HANDBOOK that is complete from time of birth until time they become independent adults, would you be interested in that Knowledge?

What about all of the above with resources available as needed for today, tomorrow and throughout the entire parenthood experience, would you like that?


Optimal Parenting The complete “Help me I’m a Parent” series is the CHILD HANDBOOK that parents never receive. At least until NOW!


The “Help me I’m a parent” courses are one of the most popular and effective set of courses available anywhere in the world. Individually they are selling very well but more importantly they are helping parents. These courses were set up to help parents at different stages or with specific areas of need.


Helping parents;

…get ready for the parenthood journey with a well defined checklist. So they can choose to continue with my series or get the help from somewhere else.

… understand the mindset that is needed to be an Optimal Parent.

…gain an Understanding of their current levels of parenting through a variety of assessments.

… develop a MAP and setting goals to help them take the long adventure known as the parenthood journey.

…with the realistic time parameters of when current habits, methods and behaviors can change and deal with unrealistic expectations.

…HACK the behaviors of their children so they understand their, every growing and changing, child in the best possible way.

…with powerful and effective communication skills to have great parent child relationships

…with family structure discipline rules policies to keep the parenthood journey moving towards the family goals

…with a series of effective strategies that will help you achieve all the goals and phases of the parenthood journey.


These course individually have been successful but 2020 has opened my eyes to a number of things.


One: Time is not a guarantee in that we don’t know for certain what we have left. So time is but and unknown yet extremely import commodity.

Two: My mission is to help 1,000,000 families by 2030 and Covid has made this goal more difficult due to the financial impacts and more importantly loss of life we have faced.

Three: Parents need more help than ever before with Covid impacting home-school learning and work from home policies. The once easy divided portions of a day are now blended causing confusion and added stress to an already challenging parenthood journey.


So I thought to myself, “How can I help?”


I noticed that several student of mine took more than two three or even four of my “Help me I’m a parent” courses. Now with folks needing financial help more than ever and even more important the skills to get through these tough times and build better and stronger bonds with their families, I figured I would take my series of 10 courses and mash them together into ONE GIANT MASTER course. I took the best parts of 9 of the 10 courses to create this course. The only one I didn’t include was the Urgent I need help Now course, which as I highlight in that course is a bandaid course. It will help deal with many issues quickly but the methods that are taught by most parenting coaches are merely short term solutions to a much bigger problem.

Optimal Parenting is

  • all about doing the best thing for the short, medium and long term. Optimal Parenting is about getting to know what you bring to the table prior to your parenthood journey. What style, roles, and strategies will you adopt? Where, what, how and why is your family going on this parenthood/childhood journey?

  • understanding your ever changing child’s mind so that you can best relate, teach, communicate and love your child.

  • learning skill sets that will make you better as an individual, as a person in a relationship, as a leader, better organize with better management ability, better focused on what really matters and the means to establish and reach goals for yourself, your family, and your children.

  • about putting your family in the best position to be successful, happy and fulfilled.

  • about preparing your child to become inter-independent with the ability to sustainably thrive in life.

  • about effective communication skills and learning all the ways in which we actually communicate to each other.

  • learning to do those things most parent cringe just thinking about, like discipline, conflict issues, arguments and the art of governing the family.

  • learning how to effectively teach your children what they want and you want them to learn

  • all the above and much more.


The Optimal Parenting course is the complete best of the best of the Help me I’m a Parent series. Optimal Parenting is the most comprehensive parenting and childhood understanding course ever developed. There simply isn’t anything close to this level of Parenthood Training.

This is true because not only do you get what most are teaching to some degree or another but you get it all plus you get frameworks and techniques unique to Star Family Coaching.


The information in this course is the result of over two years of collected works from the biggest names in the world of parenting and childhood development like Gordon, Ginott, Siegel, Bryson, Gottman, Faber, Baumrind, Piaget, Erikson, Kegan, Lovinger, Massey, Havighurst, Levin, and more.


You’ll get over 290 lectures

One full color course work

One black and white print friendly workbook complete with all the exercises assessments and activities required to complete this course.

One black and white print friendly course notebook for you to take notes in that run isync with the lectures

Two additional lecture specific workbooks

One Parenting Agreement

Audio file version of each lecture

Lifetime access to this MASTER course

Coach Hall, is a Life Mastery Practitioner Specializing in the Parenthood Journey. He has been helping children and all types of families since 1977. He is an international “Best Selling” instructor with thousands of students from over 120 countries around the world. He has achieved certification in a variety of mind mastery disciplines and has been a mentor and coach to hundreds.

Optimal Parenting the complete "Help me I'm a Parent" series: is a value-packed course that contains many of the same elements of a true workshop environment. You’ll be asked to fully participate to help you build confidence with understanding. Enroll today, so you can become an Optimal Parent!

Who this course is for:

  • Parents
  • Soon to be Parents
  • Child care providers
  • Children's coaches & teachers

Course content

10 sections • 296 lectures • 30h 16m total length

  • Preview07:36
  • Preview07:17
  • Preview12:38
  • Preview11:14
  • Preview03:36
  • Preview03:52
  • ALL the Resource Materials for the course located here
    00:23

  • Preview04:00
  • I want my child to behave…
    03:57
  • I want to feel capable as a parent
    03:13
  • I want my child to behave…
    04:45
  • I want help from …
    05:23
  • You should want…
    08:19
  • Goal Control
    06:05

  • Preview04:17
  • Dynamic A the principle of Change
    04:17
  • Understanding your True A point
    05:49
  • Forgiveness
    05:27
  • Know your level of self mastery
    03:19
  • Know your level of Relationship mastery
    03:58
  • Know your degree of Parenting knowledge
    04:07
  • Know your parenting roles
    02:47
  • Know your parenting style
    01:42
  • Know your parenting/family goals
    02:34
  • Know your family what, how and why
    04:50
  • Know your plan
    03:26
  • Know your parenting agreement
    02:04
  • Check your P’s
    04:06

  • Preview02:27
  • being v doing
    09:39
  • open v closed mind
    10:12
  • Reactive v Responsive
    12:33
  • fixed v growth
    15:36
  • outcome v process
    14:55
  • personality style overview
    07:05
  • personality style assessment
    07:48
  • personality style & relationships
    02:15
  • parenting style overview
    10:02
  • parenting style assessment
    05:20
  • meta program assessment
    13:07
  • cognitive distortion assessment
    13:48
  • governing style assessment
    09:06
  • assess reassess & assess some more
    03:56

  • Preview01:53
  • Mindset, what is it?
    04:11
  • Mindset A
    03:45
  • Mindset B
    03:41
  • Mindset C
    06:06
  • Parenting Method Wheel
    02:26
  • Parenting Method Factors
    00:56
  • Roles & Task Unpacked
    02:12
  • Task change = Method change
    01:51
  • Step 1 Method change
    03:36
  • Step 2 Method change
    02:30
  • Step 3 Method change
    04:02
  • Step 4 Method change
    02:23
  • Step 5 Method change
    03:26
  • Step 6 Method change
    06:20
  • Is mastery needed?
    00:47
  • Optimum Performance
    03:25
  • How long will it take?
    04:09
  • Realistic Goal
    02:53
  • Realistic Agreements
    08:01
  • Understanding is needed
    03:33
  • Time to Understanding
    06:46
  • Knowing where you are
    02:47
  • Time to Form NEW Habits
    07:30
  • The 3 P’s of smooth change
    03:16
  • Realistic Change
    07:22
  • Change is Self
    02:53
  • Change in Relationship
    04:11
  • Change in Parenting
    03:57
  • Change in Family Dynamics
    06:13

  • Story about MAPS part 1
    07:21
  • Story about MAPS part 2
    07:20
  • Ignorance pledge
    06:46
  • Where are you?
    09:49
  • Comparing your voyages part 1
    08:44
  • Comparing your voyages part 2
    04:25
  • Collect & Compare part 1
    08:49
  • Collect & Compare part 2
    09:10
  • Sharing us with each other
    04:13
  • Conversation order
    08:29
  • Me vs You???
    07:16
  • Set Goals??
    09:45
  • Family Dynamics
    05:00
  • Empty Nesting
    09:53
  • The New Routine
    06:39
  • Point A to Point B
    08:53
  • Step 1 Step 2 part 1
    09:15
  • Step 1 Step 2 part 2
    08:33
  • Why do we need this agreement? part 1
    04:27
  • Why do we need this agreement? part 2
    08:06
  • Assignment fill out the agreement
    03:25
  • Star Family coaching GOALS workbook
    03:36
  • A Complex Topic
    03:15
  • The Optimal Parent Starting Goal part 1
    09:42
  • The Optimal Parent Starting Goal part 2
    09:09
  • Task Preference
    08:34
  • Pros and Cons of each Preference
    07:48
  • SFC Preference Suggestions
    08:55
  • The six P’s
    07:24
  • Rigid Flexibility
    05:33
  • What are Parenting Roles?
    09:21
  • Creator Basics
    07:31
  • Provider Basics
    05:21
  • Nurturer Basics
    06:02
  • Buddy Basics
    06:42
  • Coach Basics
    09:04
  • Governor Basics
    09:05
  • Model Basics
    09:01
  • Referee Basics
    08:46
  • Parenting Roles Wrap Up
    09:58
  • the Mind-State ABC’s part 1
    04:20
  • the Mind-State ABC’s part 2
    06:15
  • Positional Experiencing
    09:45
  • The wolf, 3 pigs and the squirrels part 1
    09:10
  • The wolf, 3 pigs and the squirrels part 2
    04:11
  • Attitude Techniques part 1
    03:31
  • Attitude Techniques part 2
    09:17
  • Attitude Techniques part 3
    09:32
  • The “D” word unpacked part 1
    06:40
  • The “D” word unpacked part 2
    09:45
  • Effective Discipline Techniques part 1
    04:55
  • Effective Discipline Techniques part 2
    08:58
  • Effective Discipline Techniques part 3
    06:59
  • Parts of the MAP part 1
    09:42
  • Parts of the MAP part 2
    06:37
  • Assignment Revisiting the parenting agreement
    09:57
  • Assignment Practice Discipline Techniques
    07:35
  • Assignment Practice Attitude techniques
    06:29
  • Assignment Practice Positional Experiencing
    06:11
  • Assignment Incorporate your goals into a list or agenda
    04:13
  • Assignment Create your MAP
    07:52
  • Parenting MAP example & template part 1
    09:18
  • Parenting MAP example & template part 2
    08:43
  • Self mastery in-sync with family values
    05:10
  • Modeling Self & relationship Mastery
    04:13
  • Modeling Parenting & Family Dynamics Mastery
    04:33
  • Modeling Empty Nesting & Life transition Mastery
    08:37
  • Modeling Coaching & Governing
    04:30
  • Modeling Goals and the Ultimate Goal of Optimal Parenting
    08:54
  • The Boy who cried wolf part 1
    09:13
  • The Boy who cried wolf part 2
    08:26

  • What is Behavior?
    04:56
  • An Increasingly Popular Behavior Framework
    06:18
  • Behavior Formula
    05:22
  • Nature Nurture Mystery
    05:46
  • The Power of Belief
    05:09
  • Motivational Factors
    06:07
  • Assignment using Match Mismatch
    03:39
  • Towards & Away Motivation
    06:40
  • Emotion Energy connection
    07:32
  • Why we misbehave
    09:00
  • Equilibrium Disequilibrium
    06:43
  • Poor Messaging Communication
    04:36
  • Assignment using Ladder of inference
    05:40
  • Parenting Style
    07:19
  • M.E. Mind Unpacked
    05:10
  • Cognitive Distortions unpacked
    07:54
  • Meta Programs unpacked
    05:45
  • Emotional Intelligence
    05:20
  • Upstairs Downstairs
    05:17
  • Cognition Construct
    08:47
  • Biological Timelines & Charts
    06:33
  • Jean Piaget Timelines & charts
    06:53
  • Erik Erikson Timelines & charts
    06:50
  • Robert Kegan Timelines & charts
    06:03
  • Morris Massey Timelines & charts
    06:09
  • Other notables Timelines & charts
    09:02
  • Creation of the Cognition Tower
    06:30
  • What is our actual age?
    09:09
  • Early Bloomers, In-Sync and Late Bloomers
    07:41
  • Chronological Age
    03:37
  • Biological Age
    03:04
  • Relative Age
    03:53
  • Maturation Age Intellectual & Emotional
    03:26
  • Experiential Age
    03:56
  • Complexities of DA & NNM
    07:27

  • Communication Principles
    05:17
  • Why we need to communicate
    05:07
  • How it fits into the 6 phases of the human voyage
    03:55
  • Brief history of communication
    02:53
  • Tower of Babble
    05:05
  • Translators
    07:35
  • Communication the environment we Create & Navigate
    05:05
  • Aspen Study on the value of Nurture/Communication
    05:23
  • Our first language and means of communicating
    06:37
  • Communication the two way street that begins with your senses
    07:19
  • The triple A’s of Effective Listening
    06:39
  • Two eyes One mouth
    02:54
  • Eye to Eye Head to head leveling
    04:26
  • Poor communication habits
    04:46
  • Poor Delivery Methods
    06:11
  • The Better Delivery Method
    03:53
  • Love Language Overview
    03:52
  • Love Languages broken down
    05:08
  • Plus one, Glasser’s Addition
    07:19
  • How to Determine Love Language
    05:25
  • Cognition Tower, the tool to help with communication
    09:15
  • Body Language & Emotional Language with C.T.
    04:51
  • M.E. Mind the congress of your mind
    06:20
  • M.E. Elevator the vehicle driven by the “P”
    06:18
  • Mindfulness the connecting force of M.E. mind
    03:51
  • Three Primary Position Review
    08:39
  • Using the M.E. Elevator with C.T. to connect with your child.
    05:13
  • Using the M.E. Elevator with Mindfulness
    07:04
  • Examples of C.T. with M.E. Elevator for levels 1 & 2
    06:02
  • Examples of C.T. with M.E. Elevator for level 3
    08:46
  • Examples of C.T. with M.E. Elevator for level 4
    07:39
  • The Big 3 Roles using the C.T. & M.E. tools
    04:28
  • A look at Emotional Intelligence & Phase 5
    07:14
  • C.T.M.E. & Coaching
    09:23
  • C.T.M.E. & Governing
    04:04
  • C.T.M.E. & Modeling
    04:37
  • Communication Behavior, the phase 1 & 2 connection
    03:51

  • Strategy as a Concept
    02:15
  • Coach Strategy
    04:55
  • The components of Strategy
    05:50
  • Parenting Strategy & It’s Importance
    04:27
  • Shooting from the Hip
    04:38
  • Mirror Mirror on the wall
    03:47
  • Strategic Actions & Reactions
    05:05
  • Ineffective Parenting Phrases
    04:57
  • WHY these phrases are ineffective
    04:32
  • Ineffective Words
    03:17
  • WHY these words are ineffective
    03:47
  • Ineffective Parenting Styles
    06:55
  • WHY these styles are ineffective
    05:51
  • Strategy Topics
    06:45
  • Principles & Optimal Process Flowchart
    06:07
  • TRICK
    05:15
  • TRICK Breakdown
    05:51
  • Intro to ACT
    06:17
  • Why ACT as a strategy?
    07:21
  • Intro to GROWTH
    04:21
  • Intro to PET
    04:53
  • SFC in a nutshell
    05:45
  • The Language of Acceptance
    05:32
  • Examples of Verbal Acceptance
    03:46
  • Listening with Purpose
    05:34
  • Actively Digging for the need
    04:04
  • Who own’s the problem?
    07:14
  • The Problem of unacceptable behavior
    06:00
  • You Messages vs I-Messages
    03:43
  • The power of the “I”
    09:06
  • The “How to” of behavior change
    06:15
  • Dewey’s & Glasser’s Recipes
    09:18
  • Power Struggle with “win win” approach
    06:43
  • Breaking Down the three methods
    05:13
  • Putting PET into Action
    05:30
  • Growth from Concrete to Formal
    04:59
  • Center of Control
    04:34
  • Implicit theories of Intelligence
    05:43
  • Dweck meets Lipton
    05:12
  • Belief: your mind’s sub-conscious GOAL!
    05:19
  • Belief/Brain Change
    05:57
  • Growth Strategy Parenting
    07:06
  • Growth in Parenting
    09:59
  • The selecting process
    06:28
  • Dynamic Strategy
    04:45
  • Combining Strategy
    04:57
  • Strategy of Optimal Strategy
    07:09
  • Method Change review
    06:23
  • Your Strategy & the first 2 phases of Parenthood
    05:14
  • Your Strategy & phases 3 & 4 of Parenthood
    03:41
  • Your Strategy & phases 5 & 6 of Parenthood
    05:31
  • Taking time to pause, examine and Tweak
    06:12

  • Time It’s value importance and reality
    03:59
  • Time Measures
    04:53
  • Time Wasters
    05:42
  • Time Investments
    09:58
  • How to look at our use of time
    09:30
  • How to evaluate our time spent
    08:35
  • How to analyze our time
    07:00
  • Tools to help us with time
    03:29
  • Star Family Constitution
    05:47
  • SFC Step 1
    04:34
  • SFC Step 2
    06:14
  • SFC Step 3
    03:32
  • SFC Step 4
    06:35
  • SFC Step 5
    07:37
  • SFC Step 6
    07:46
  • SFC Step 7
    07:03
  • SFC Step 8
    07:38
  • SFC Step 9
    04:01
  • SFC Step 10
    06:00
  • Training video overview
    02:42
  • Part 1 of 5
    09:34
  • Part 2 of 5
    08:54
  • Part 3 of 5
    09:26
  • Part 4 of 5
    09:40
  • Part 5 of 5
    09:53
  • Capture Grow Release
    07:35
  • Tying the pieces together
    06:15
  • WRAP-UP & Final thoughts
    02:57

Instructor

Coach Hall
Life Mastery Coach, spec. Parenting & Family Dynamics
Coach Hall
  • 4.1 Instructor Rating
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  • 6,602 Students
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Don “Coach” Hall

Head Coach and Founder of Star Family Coaching

Child Development & Family Dynamics Specialist  

Coaching sports and families since 1977

Developer of the Star Developmental System

Author of “The Magic, Illusion and Unbelievable Truth of Youth League Sports” Book

International "Best Selling" course Instructor

Sports Coach NAYS License (National Alliance for Youth Sports) 

Concussion and Bullying Certification (NAYS)

Life Coach Certification (Various)

CBT Practitioner Certification (Various)

Experience with CBT since 2000 

Neuroscience for Parents Certification

NLP Master Practitioner Certification (Various)

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