Learn to Maximize the Promise of Peace & Joy in Relationship

Allow yourself to be selfish for your peace & joy. Do not think about others, only about yourself. No judgment. The goal is to be completely honest with yourself.

Urge your partner to answer as frankly as possible, and selfishly, without thinking about others, just himself. No judgment, the goal is for him to be completely honest with himself.

If that’s not possible, fill in this part yourself, to the best of your knowledge, and without lying to yourself.

Answer as frankly as possible, without judging one another. The goal is for you to be completely honest with yourselves.

If that’s not possible, answer the questions yourself, to the best of your knowledge and without lying to yourself.

1) There’s a season for everything :

Ecclesiastes 3 : 1-8 “ A time to weep, And a time to laugh.”

Each season is temporary. Understanding which season you’re in, allows you to have peace.

Ecclesiastes 3:1 “To everything there is a season, A time for every purpose under heaven.”

2) Contact someone trustworthy who’s connected to the Great Creator. This person must be someone who listens to you, doesn’t judge you, has time for you and doesn’t tell you exactly what to do. It is crucial that you realize that the decision-making power is yours. This person must be someone reasonable, that will help you organize your thoughts and will advise you in a rational way, without trying to influence or compel you. You need to sense you have control.

1) Who are you woman? What’s your goal as a woman? Why did the Creator made you? What’s the meaning and the goal of your existence?

As a woman, your goal in the relationship is to help the man with the vision given to him by the Creator for his personal life and his family life. If you’re not currently playing that role, you should reevaluate your relationship. Congrats to you who applies this, because it’ll bring a lot of peace in your heart, in your relationship and around you.

2) Be a strategical woman full of wisdom.

A strategical and wise woman:

a. Learns to be quiet.

b. Keeps asking questions to her partner, in order to find out what his vision for their family is.

c. Doesn’t criticize her partner.

d. Develops wisdom, because it’s a very powerful asset.

3) Are you a wise woman who knows how to manage her household?

1) Learn to spend some time with yourself and enjoy your own company. You could for example, go to the restaurant or to the movies by yourself, only you.

2) Write. You could start a diary and write about yourself and what’s happening to you. Or you could write about any other topic that interests you. Writing can be therapeutic, it could allow you to think and to remind yourself who you are and what you want.

3) Practice fasting or abstinence for something in relation to your challenge/problem. You could for example abstain from eating, from talking about certain topics or certain people, from using social media, from watching some videos, etc.

4) It’s in times of crisis that we learn and grow. Take advantage of your current situation to evolve and do some self-analysis. Read and/or watch some self-help books and videos. You’re not the only human being that faces hardships, many people before you went through that, and some wrote about it. Read, educate yourself.