Narcissistic Abuse: Shadow Work, Healing and Rebirth

Welcome to the course! You will find an assortment of hand-selected videos to gain a deeper awareness on abuse and trauma, focused on Narcissistic Abuse. We will focus heavily on clearing cognitive dissonance, validating emotions, connecting the dots and the different stages of the abuse (before, during and after). In this second lecture, we are going to learn about how the psyche processes trauma and some of the secrets of the narcissist. Please get a notebook if you wish to take what you learn on this course to your own life and answer the questions on the assignment listed on each section, after the lecture under the "resources" or downloadable materials section.

In this video we go deeper into the complex dynamics of the narcissist and why they remain the same, or just worsen over time.

Using the imagery of Pinocchio, you will understand how the narcissist's childhood trauma develops into the grand scheme of disguise and why they have to cater to an outside image, becoming "the great pretenders" instead of developing real traits like authenticity.

Anchoring the archetype of Pinocchio to discuss a huge RED FLAG that reveals a narcissist early on. That is their obsession with the word "lies" and claiming that anyone around them that is a threat is "lying". Where an empath allows the benefit of the doubt and allows for alternative viewpoints, develops a mediator quality, the narcissist seeks to "expose" people by calling them liars, as a way to mask their own pathological lying. It's not that the empath is not concerned about the truth, they can still call out liars when they know they have been wronged and falsely accused, they simply don't have the paranoia to be suspecting from people all the time and discrediting other people's realities, whether they are true or not. It's also a very different obsession compared to a person that questions entities of power and power hungry structures or makes critical/reasoning day to day inquiries and reasonings. The narcissist unlike people who can think for themselves, is obsessed with "exposing someone" to mask their own insecurities.  The narcissist is also always doing shady things in the background, generally they days the start the biggest fights, they do it shortly after having done something harmful to you behind your back.

Welcome to the course! You will find an assortment of hand-selected videos to gain a deeper awareness on abuse and trauma, focused on Narcissistic Abuse. We will focus heavily on clearing cognitive dissonance, validating emotions, connecting the dots and the different stages of the abuse (before, during and after). In this third lecture, we are going back to childhood to learn about ways in which we might have been prepped for this abuse later in life, by our caregivers. Please get a notebook if you wish to take what you learn on this course to your own life and answer the questions on the assignment listed on each section, after the lecture under the "resources" or downloadable materials section.

This lecture further elaborates on how siblings become polarized (positioned on one or the other end of the spectrum of abuse) by narcissistic parents. It gives you wider insight into how the empath is crafted and why there is rivalry among siblings after abuse.

More on the behaviors that were learned in childhood to survive enmeshment, control and toxic/angry parents.

Welcome to the course! You will find an assortment of hand-selected videos to gain a deeper awareness on abuse and trauma, focused on Narcissistic Abuse. We will focus heavily on clearing cognitive dissonance, validating emotions, connecting the dots and the different stages of the abuse (before, during and after). In this fourth lecture, we go deeper into the split personality trait of the Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde dynamic of the narcissist, while also learning the contradicting things parents say at a young age that create "split thinking". Please get a notebook if you wish to take what you learn on this course to your own life and answer the questions on the assignment listed on each section, after the lecture under the "resources" or downloadable materials section.

Let's see the differences on how the eggshell can express and the ways in which its designed to "keep you in line"

Welcome to the course! You will find an assortment of hand-selected videos to gain a deeper awareness on abuse and trauma, focused on Narcissistic Abuse. We will focus heavily on clearing cognitive dissonance, validating emotions, connecting the dots and the different stages of the abuse (before, during and after). In this fifth lecture, we go deeper into childhood trauma and the psychological struggles that we may experience at every developmental stage. If not conquered into balance, these themes will repeat themselves all throughout our lives: themes of independence, self-assertion, abandonment, mistrust, and so forth. Please get a notebook if you wish to take what you learn on this course to your own life and answer the questions on the assignment listed on each section, after the lecture under the "resources" or downloadable materials section.

Understand how trauma becomes personified as "the mother or father inside your head" and continues to rule your life.

Some of the differences you may experience by being brought up by a covert narcissist as opposed to a grandiose.

Diving a little deeper into the parent that outwardly expresses rage and determining where most of our self-image trauma really comes from.

Welcome to the course! You will find an assortment of hand-selected videos to gain a deeper awareness on abuse and trauma, focused on Narcissistic Abuse. We will focus heavily on clearing cognitive dissonance, validating emotions, connecting the dots and the different stages of the abuse (before, during and after). In this sixth lecture we will go into the cognitive dissonance that is experienced from dealing with the narcissist (extremes, black and white, hot and cold) and validating the struggle. Please get a notebook if you wish to take what you learn on this course to your own life and answer the questions on the assignment listed on each section, after the lecture under the "resources" or downloadable materials section.

The narcissist is not powerful as they will make you believe, they have an extensive network of enablers via which the only goal is to get you to bend your will for them. In this video we will go deeper into how this structure operates and why abuse is so confusing, especially when you are surrounded by people that support the narc.

Welcome to the course! You will find an assortment of hand-selected videos to gain a deeper awareness on abuse and trauma, focused on Narcissistic Abuse. We will focus heavily on clearing cognitive dissonance, validating emotions, connecting the dots and the different stages of the abuse (before, during and after). In this 8th lecture we will breakdown some known and covert "control tactics" employed by the narcissist. Please get a notebook if you wish to take what you learn on this course to your own life and answer the questions on the assignment listed on each section, after the lecture under the "resources" or downloadable materials section.

Welcome to the course! You will find an assortment of hand-selected videos to gain a deeper awareness on abuse and trauma, focused on Narcissistic Abuse. We will focus heavily on clearing cognitive dissonance, validating emotions, connecting the dots and the different stages of the abuse (before, during and after). In this 9th lecture we will explore what life looks like after the last abuse and what struggles can come up in the process of releasing the empath role and become whole again. Please get a notebook if you wish to take what you learn on this course to your own life and answer the questions on the assignment listed on each section, after the lecture under the "resources" or downloadable materials section.

In this section we will debunk "empathy" as we know it, so we are able to consciously start breaking trauma bonds in our life after narcissistic abuse.

Welcome to the course! You will find an assortment of hand-selected videos to gain a deeper awareness on abuse and trauma, focused on Narcissistic Abuse. We will focus heavily on clearing cognitive dissonance, validating emotions, connecting the dots and the different stages of the abuse (before, during and after). In this 10th lecture we will explore the dynamics of shame and guilt and what gives them meaning since they are two main triggers the narcissist preys on when manipulating a victim. Please get a notebook if you wish to take what you learn on this course to your own life and answer the questions on the assignment listed on each section, after the lecture under the "resources" or downloadable materials section.

Welcome to the course! You will find an assortment of hand-selected videos to gain a deeper awareness on abuse and trauma, focused on Narcissistic Abuse. We will focus heavily on clearing cognitive dissonance, validating emotions, connecting the dots and the different stages of the abuse (before, during and after). In this 11th lecture, we will go deeper into validating and self-validating and really honoring that victim stage in order to heal later, catered to the inner child. Please get a notebook if you wish to take what you learn on this course to your own life and answer the questions on the assignment listed on each section, after the lecture under the "resources" or downloadable materials section.