
In this lecture you work on the moment that decides most proposals: someone you cannot instruct has just told you no, and you have three answers available.
This course is built from six disciplines: the people partner role, persuasion technique, personality types, emotional intelligence, internal communications and facilitation.
The map of the course
A dictionary for reading lectures written for people partners and sales people as your own influence work
Three questions to ask after every lecture
A short self-diagnostic that shows which sections to watch first
Download the Three Answers Card and fill it in before your next conversation.
Tools in this lecture
Files to download (1)
Shaping decisions before they are made, at the planning stage
Building the profile of who is needed
Taking part in interviews without owning the decision
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (12)
Models and methods explained (4)
Preparing for someone's first day
The first day itself
The first month
Closing the probation period, and what the person concluded about the place by then
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (20)
How to run a one-to-one when you are not the manager
What the role gives the conversation that a manager cannot
Passing feedback upward without breaking trust
Reporting, and monitoring the signals that someone is about to leave
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (4)
Models and methods explained (2)
The Gallup Q12 questionnaire
What to do with the results, which is where most people stop
Raising engagement
What employee experience consists of, and working with the survey
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (5)
The basics of burnout
Diagnosing it in someone who will not say it out loud
The causes
What actually helps
Tools in this lecture
Files to download (1)
Ready to use on the slides (6)
Models and methods explained (1)
The basics of coaching and the GROW model
Unlocking potential rather than giving instructions
Working with someone's talents
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (6)
Models and methods explained (2)
The basics of development
Hard skills and soft skills
Creating the plan
Implementing it, which is where most plans stop
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (7)
Services and apps shown in this lecture (4)
Models and methods explained (4)
Preparing for it
The questionnaire
Conducting the conversation
Giving feedback, analysing it and planning what to change
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (6)
Services and apps shown in this lecture (1)
Taking part in the OKR process
Setting goals with people you do not manage
Providing feedback
Running the appraisal itself
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (12)
Services and apps shown in this lecture (5)
Models and methods explained (1)
Angry employees and toxic ones
People resistant to change
Persistent lateness
Complaining and conflict-seeking behaviour
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (15)
Services and apps shown in this lecture (1)
The stages of a persuasive conversation
AIDA: attention, interest, desire, action
SPIN: situation, problem, implication, need-payoff
FAB, the expectations list and the value proposition canvas
Building trust through mirroring and references
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (11)
Models and methods explained (3)
Channels for reaching the people who decide
Researching them and building an avatar
Cold outreach and BANT qualification
The five touches method and the elevator pitch
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (9)
Models and methods explained (10)
The ladder of persuasion, step by step
Active listening and open questions to find the real objection
Presenting through storytelling rather than features
Handling objections with LAER and Feel-Felt-Found, and closing
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (11)
Models and methods explained (7)
Planning a day around the conversations that matter
Pomodoro and GTD applied to a pipeline of conversations
SMART goals and the Eisenhower matrix
Time blocking, automation and avoiding burnout
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (9)
Services and apps shown in this lecture (13)
Models and methods explained (2)
An overview of current technology, including chatbots and AI
CRM systems and why tracking conversations pays off
Automation and data analysis
Cases of successful rollouts, and where the field is heading
Defining and measuring the right indicators
Funnel analysis and finding where conversations die
The Deming cycle: plan, do, check, act
Collecting feedback through surveys, interviews and NPS
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (5)
Models and methods explained (11)
The history of socionics and the work of Carl Jung
The four classic personality scales
How to test and how to read each type
Where personality type shows up in how someone is persuaded
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (5)
Models and methods explained (1)
Where the methodology came from and what it describes
How to run the test
Working with each of the four types
Using DISC as the basis for adapting your own approach
Tools in this lecture
Models and methods explained (1)
What separates PAEI from the other models
How each type behaves under pressure
The weakness of each type
Recognising a type in conversation without any testing
Tools in this lecture
Models and methods explained (1)
The core of Belbin's methodology and the typical roles
Which role is doing what in the room you are trying to convince
Where Hogan differs and what it adds
Where to get tested and how to read a report
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (1)
Models and methods explained (1)
What makes Big Five different from the rest
Where to take the test
Applying it to business decisions
How it compares with the other methodologies
Tools in this lecture
Models and methods explained (1)
How this framework differs from the others
Where to get tested
Working with the results
Applying it in business
Tools in this lecture
Services and apps shown in this lecture (1)
Models and methods explained (1)
How emotional intelligence develops
Influencing through logic against influencing through emotion
Emotional intelligence and relationships
The ability to resonate, and what a resonant person is like to be persuaded by
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (1)
Models and methods explained (1)
What emotional charging is
How you energise or drain the person opposite
The role of stress in what people will agree to
Recovery
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (1)
Awareness as the starting point
How people actually change their minds
Positive attitude
Moving from a negative to a positive mindset
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (1)
Models and methods explained (1)
Whether fear persuades anyone
The power of single-mindedness
Coaching with empathy and building rapport
The elements of a conversation that changes something
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (3)
Models and methods explained (2)
How an emotionally engaged person behaves
What low emotional intelligence looks like from outside
Assessing your own level
Self-awareness, positive attitude and social intelligence
Tools in this lecture
Ready to use on the slides (2)
Models and methods explained (3)
This course contains the use of artificial intelligence.
374 tools for persuasive communication in one course: 280 ready-to-use procedures, scripts, question lists, templates and checklists, 70 models and methods, 22 services and apps shown on screen, and 2 downloadable tool files.
Open a lecture, take the tool, use it in your next conversation.
Why good ideas are not accepted
You are right, you have the data, and the answer is still no. Or it is yes in the meeting and nothing happens after it. People who do not report to you owe you nothing. They agree when they see their own interest, when they trust you, and when the conversation is built so that agreeing is easy. Logic alone rarely does this.
What changes after this course
You start with the other person's situation, not with your idea. You ask questions that lead to the need. You answer an objection without pressure. You close with a clear next step. You prepare a hard conversation with a script. You run a meeting so that it ends with a decision and owners. And you choose the channel and the wording so that the message lands.
What is inside: 374 tools, counted lecture by lecture
You do not have to take this number on trust. Open any lecture and read its description: every tool inside is listed there by name.
Where the tools are
Who is teaching
I am Mike, the #1 HR instructor on Udemy, with 1,800,000+ course enrollments from 170,000 students, and the author of about 200 books on Amazon. I built the people system at Preply as it became a unicorn and worked at Wargaming, iDeals and Alfa-Bank across 20 years in HR. I hold PHRi, SHRM-CP and HCI sHRBP certifications and represent HRCI in Eastern Europe.
HR is a job of persuading without authority, and I learned it that way. At a television channel I had two recruiters and far more vacancies than they could close. I set up the recruiting process, started counting how many vacancies one recruiter closes, and went to management with those numbers. I was allowed to hire twelve. Another time I wanted to open a massage room in the office: a room, a little money for equipment and permission to use it during working hours. I had to go three times, and the third time management agreed. People later told me they had finally cured their backs.
How to use the course
Start with the Start Here lecture and its card. Then open the situation you face: a one-to-one, an objection, a hard message or a meeting. Section and lecture titles show how many tools are inside, and each lecture description lists them by name.
What is included
Where to start
Think of one person whose agreement you need this week. Open the Start Here lecture and fill in the Three Answers Card for that conversation. Enrol now and start your first lesson today.