
Shaping decisions before they are made, at the planning stage
Building the profile of who is needed
Taking part in interviews without owning the decision
Preparing for someone's first day
The first day itself
The first month
Closing the probation period, and what the person concluded about the place by then
How to run a one-to-one when you are not the manager
What the role gives the conversation that a manager cannot
Passing feedback upward without breaking trust
Reporting, and monitoring the signals that someone is about to leave
The Gallup Q12 questionnaire
What to do with the results, which is where most people stop
Raising engagement
What employee experience consists of, and working with the survey
The basics of burnout
Diagnosing it in someone who will not say it out loud
The causes
What actually helps
The basics of coaching and the GROW model
Unlocking potential rather than giving instructions
Working with someone's talents
The basics of development
Hard skills and soft skills
Creating the plan
Implementing it, which is where most plans stop
Preparing for it
The questionnaire
Conducting the conversation
Giving feedback, analysing it and planning what to change
Taking part in the OKR process
Setting goals with people you do not manage
Providing feedback
Running the appraisal itself
Angry employees and toxic ones
People resistant to change
Persistent lateness
Complaining and conflict-seeking behaviour
The stages of a persuasive conversation
AIDA: attention, interest, desire, action
SPIN: situation, problem, implication, need-payoff
FAB, the expectations list and the value proposition canvas
Building trust through mirroring and references
Channels for reaching the people who decide
Researching them and building an avatar
Cold outreach and BANT qualification
The five touches method and the elevator pitch
The ladder of persuasion, step by step
Active listening and open questions to find the real objection
Presenting through storytelling rather than features
Handling objections with LAER and Feel-Felt-Found, and closing
Planning a day around the conversations that matter
Pomodoro and GTD applied to a pipeline of conversations
SMART goals and the Eisenhower matrix
Time blocking, automation and avoiding burnout
An overview of current technology, including chatbots and AI
CRM systems and why tracking conversations pays off
Automation and data analysis
Cases of successful rollouts, and where the field is heading
Defining and measuring the right indicators
Funnel analysis and finding where conversations die
The Deming cycle: plan, do, check, act
Collecting feedback through surveys, interviews and NPS
The history of socionics and the work of Carl Jung
The four classic personality scales
How to test and how to read each type
Where personality type shows up in how someone is persuaded
Where the methodology came from and what it describes
How to run the test
Working with each of the four types
Using DISC as the basis for adapting your own approach
What separates PAEI from the other models
How each type behaves under pressure
The weakness of each type
Recognising a type in conversation without any testing
The core of Belbin's methodology and the typical roles
Which role is doing what in the room you are trying to convince
Where Hogan differs and what it adds
Where to get tested and how to read a report
What makes Big Five different from the rest
Where to take the test
Applying it to business decisions
How it compares with the other methodologies
How this framework differs from the others
Where to get tested
Working with the results
Applying it in business
How emotional intelligence develops
Influencing through logic against influencing through emotion
Emotional intelligence and relationships
The ability to resonate, and what a resonant person is like to be persuaded by
What emotional charging is
How you energise or drain the person opposite
The role of stress in what people will agree to
Recovery
Awareness as the starting point
How people actually change their minds
Positive attitude
Moving from a negative to a positive mindset
Whether fear persuades anyone
The power of single-mindedness
Coaching with empathy and building rapport
The elements of a conversation that changes something
How an emotionally engaged person behaves
What low emotional intelligence looks like from outside
Assessing your own level
Self-awareness, positive attitude and social intelligence
The ideal image of yourself
Feedback as the correction mechanism
Cycles of life
The pyramid of life
Analysing the environment you operate in
What outstanding leaders do differently in conversation
A shared vision of the future
Group social identity and social groups
The process of change
Choosing which competences to develop
The three development zones
Summing up
This course contains the use of artificial intelligence.
Being right is the cheapest part. Most good recommendations at work are correct, clearly written, and never acted on.
They fail somewhere between being understood and being agreed to, and that gap has very little to do with the quality of the analysis.
Where the idea dies
You send one version of the message to everyone, so it is precisely calibrated for nobody. The argument is strong on your own terms and never addresses the thing the other person is actually measured on. You approach a decisive, impatient person the way you would approach a careful analytical one, and lose them in the first minute. You escalate once and become the person who escalates. And the meeting where the decision happened turned out to be a different meeting, which you were not in.
None of that is fixed by making the recommendation better.
The model this course is built on
The people partner is the clearest example of a role that changes an organisation while managing nobody in it. Ten lessons on how that actually works: shaping a decision at the planning stage rather than objecting to it later, running a one-to-one with someone outside your reporting line, reading engagement and burnout before anyone says anything out loud, coaching instead of instructing, and handling the angry, the toxic and the openly resistant.
Then persuasion technique: AIDA and SPIN for structuring the conversation, FAB and the value proposition for framing what you are offering, the ladder of persuasion, objection handling through LAER and Feel-Felt-Found, and closing.
Reading people, and the emotional layer underneath
Then the person opposite. Six lessons on MBTI, DISC, PAEI, Belbin, Hogan, Big Five and 16 Personalities — used for one purpose, which is recognising the type across the table and adjusting instead of repeating your own style louder. PAEI in particular, because it can be read in conversation without giving anyone a test.
Then eight lessons on emotional intelligence, because the state you bring into a conversation determines what the other person is prepared to concede. Resonance, empathy, self-awareness, and the difference between influencing through logic and through emotion.
And finally delivery. Audience segmentation, personas, channel choice, communicating decisions nobody welcomes, measuring whether behaviour changed rather than whether the email was sent. Then facilitation — running the session where the agreement actually happens, closing it with named owners, and doing it online without losing the room.
Who is teaching this
Mike, the number one HR instructor on Udemy. More than 1.6 million course enrolments, over 150,000 professionals trained, PHRi and SHRM-CP certified, HRCI representative in more than 10 countries. I built the people function of the unicorn Preply and worked at Wargaming, Alfa-Bank and iDeals. I have spent most of my career recommending things to people who could simply decline, which is the only training for this that works.
What is included
Lifetime access to all course materials
Active instructor support in the Q&A section
Udemy Certificate of Completion
Practical assignments and real business cases
A section with additional courses, tools and resources
One question to answer first
Take the recommendation you most want agreed and write what the decision-maker is measured on. Not what they care about in general — what their own performance is judged by. If you cannot answer, that is why the idea has not moved. Enrol now and start the first lesson today.