
Accept your inner parts and explore your personality to learn practical steps for transforming problems you’ve faced, in this practical course guided by a seasoned therapist.
Choose a personal issue to solve through this course by examining your inner parts. Identify the attitudes you dislike and commit to transforming your inner sides in the coming weeks.
Learn to accept your inner parts and transform your problems through practical methods, including trauma work, family constellation, and a here-and-now focus from a psychologist.
Discover a 14-part course structure where every inner part is a side of self; practice day-by-day tasks, explore how parts interact, and connect to a silent space and spirituality.
Explore how inner parts interact to shape problems, from frustration and anger to longing for a fulfilling relationship, and learn practical examples of how two or more parts block progress.
Identify your inner parts, name them, and compare self-descriptions to gain space and freedom from problematic traits.
Explore the downside of viewing everything as a fixed part, loosen your internal structure, reduce judgment, and embrace a more fluid, understanding perspective to transform your problems.
Use a notebook to complete daily homework: list three positive qualities, three negative qualities, and analyze two life challenges via inner parts.
Accept all your inner parts as they arrive, welcoming joy and depression as guests who guide you toward new light; grateful for whatever comes, each from beyond.
Reflect on the homework from yesterday by identifying positive and negative qualities and recognizing growth potential, then explore multiple problem paths as you anticipate the critics and pusher topic.
Discover how the inner critic, judge, and pusher reside in every human being, voice guiding pressure and control over your life, with universal patterns across cultures.
Identify five inner drivers—be perfect, be strong, please others, hurry up, try hard—and a sixth 'don’t stand out'—rate them 0–10 to understand and transform your problems.
Expose and name your inner critic, judge, and pushing voices, and learn to observe how they assess mistakes, performance, and relationships without harsh self-judgment.
Practice bringing better contact with your inner critic, judge, and pusher, accepting all your inner parts and transforming your problems through a calm, imagined encounter.
Discover how relentless self and others pushing under pressure can erode long-term leadership and productivity, and explore embracing relaxation, joy, and a time for change to avoid burnout.
Observe how you react in various situations and note when and where. Reflect on inner voices that push or criticize you to become more aware and relaxed.
Explore evaluating the previous day's task with inner awareness and personal reactions. Learn to transform critique and pushing into a constructive connection with it.
Learn to view all inner parts as allies with good intentions, and explore a new way to relate to them rather than suppress or exclude them.
Explore how inner parts drive a habit like smoking, recognize their good intentions, and replace harmful cues with healthier ways to relax, energize, bond, and connect.
Explore the right questions to understand your inner parts deeply, like how old they are, what they want, and what they fear, to integrate them into your life.
Practice engaging with your inner critic, judge, and pusher through relaxation, breathing, and body awareness, exploring their origins, fears, and needs with compassionate inquiries.
Explore a disliked inner part by writing in your notebook about its basic good intention, using guiding questions, then plan to explore another part tomorrow to bring chaos into order.
Evaluate last day's task by mapping your inner parts, acknowledging resistance and anger, and recognizing their positive intentions, then gently explore what you dislike to foster self-connection.
Explore how the inner critic and inner child form a system inside you. Recognize guilt and urges, like chocolate, as outputs of that part, not your core self.
Explore classic and contemporary models of the inner world, from Freud's id–ego–superego framework to trauma-focused ego state therapy and the inner family system with exiles, managers, and firefighters.
Explore an extended transactional analysis model of the parent, grown-up, and child states— including critical, nurturing, adapting, free, rebellious, and exiles parts— to transform inner problems.
Explore your inner parts through a guided theater stage visualization, let go of tensions, and meet the inner critic, inner child, rebel, and caring parent to observe their interactions.
Explore your inner parts, identifying the free child, the adapted child, and other parts in daily situations. Record discoveries in a notebook as homework for tomorrow.
Evaluate the task from yesterday to today by examining the full proportion of each inner part in your life, noting surprises, and starting with the street child and adapted child.
Explore how the inner free child embodies spontaneity, emotion, creativity, and joy, helping you accept inner parts and transform your problems through curiosity.
Explore your inner free child through breath and relaxation. Notice moments of spontaneity and creativity, and observe where beauty and purity appear, including the color of your free child.
Explore how the inner adapted child seeks belonging by copying and adapting to fit family, neighborhood, and village, driven by fear and the instinct to survive.
Explore how the adapting part emerges through relaxation and focused breathing, guiding you to belong while noticing the urge to imitate in family, friends, and work.
Examine unconscious adaptation through a Milgram-inspired social psychology experiment, where students and a professor confront nervousness and shame as they adapt to the metro’s social norms.
Explore your free child and adapted child, assess where freedom resides, and practice spontaneous, creative moments within the next day to transform your problems.
Learn to accept all your inner parts and transform problems by guiding your free child through singing hurtful self-talk, turning 'you are not good enough' into liberating voice.
Identify how the rebellious part arises from yesterday's task of observing the adapting and controlling urges inside you, and nurture the free child—joy and creativity—by giving it more space.
Watch a toddler explore a power socket and confront parental fear and restraint. See the moment revealing the link between rebelliousness and adaption as the child learns to conform.
Explore your rebellious side as a fighting force for freedom, balancing anger with breath-based relaxation. The practice traces how childhood, adolescence, adaptation, and rebellion shape relationships and daily life.
Explore your rebellious part through guided breathing and inner imagery, observe its presence at distance, greet it with curiosity, ask about its feelings and needs, and receive its response.
True self confidence means knowing what you want, having the power to pursue it, adapt when necessary, and say no when needed to protect your energy.
Discover how to be assertive through a practical role play about saying no to a coffee loan. Use quiet calm and a strong boundary, energized by your rebellious inner part.
Explore how rebelliousness and anger surface when freedom is threatened, including hidden anger you swallow, and learn to recognize, express, or set limits in daily life.
Explore how to accept all your inner parts and transform problems by becoming aware of rebellious impulses and anger, and learn to integrate rather than react.
Explore how the inner critic, the adapting child, and the rebellious part sabotage your goals and how accepting these parts helps you realize them.
Explore how inner parts block you from reaching your goals by recognizing inner voices, perfectionism, self-sabotage, and the inner child, then cultivate awareness to align plans with true desires.
See how your inner structure creates suffering, not the content. Learn to relax your inner parts and cultivate flexibility and peace by recognizing the same harsh inner critic across situations.
An NLP resources exercise shows how the grown-up, inner adult, dissolves guilt, transforms emotions, and shifts from inner stage play to real-world conflict resolution.
Explore how inner parts drive public moral drama: the adaptive child, the perfect child, and the rebellious child shape behavior under scrutiny during an extramarital affair, with repentance masking impulses.
Explore your inner critic and rebellious side, and observe how they shape your plans; write what rises tomorrow inside and outside to learn your true intentions.
Recognize the wounded child within and observe the inner critic as you balance submission with the rebellious part, reflecting on yesterday’s task.
Explore how the wounded child shapes emotional reactions, distinguish adequate from inadequate responses, and learn to transform past hurts into balanced present behavior.
Explore connecting with your inner parts through mindful breathing and observing your body, then revisit situations of emotional outbursts, describe them, and transform your reactions.
Explore how to be in the world with your emotions by separating present energy from past wounds, becoming aware, and choosing more adequate, present-focused responses.
Explore how the wounded child and firefighters illustrate inner parts, reveal exile wounds of loneliness, shame, and fear, and show how coping habits protect in the moment but can overwhelm.
Discover your inner parts and their firefighters by tracing moments before impulses, naming emotions, and practicing compassionate self-awareness to transform your problems.
Accept all your inner parts and transform your problems. Observe impulses and the wounded child, and note your day to explore your totality with curiosity.
Explore how protections like firefighters, the inner critic, and emotions shape you, and learn to be patient, friendly with yourself, and heal your wounds without changing who you are.
Discover your loving inner part, a caring, understanding side that supports you without criticizing, encouraging self-acceptance, recognizing both your good and bad aspects, and guiding personal growth.
Assess how much you care for yourself by noticing your body's and emotions' needs. Gradually increase care and soften the pushing side to honor your inner parts.
Listen to the inner voice that asks for a break and follow it, rather than pushing through fatigue, by honoring your tender, wounded child and its needs.
Learn to listen to your inner voices, distinguish the pushing from the caring voice, and practice breaks, breathing, and self-care to align with your needs.
Identify your inner parts and give them humorous nicknames to shift how you relate to the critic, judge, and other sides, transforming your problems with compassionate humor.
Practice transforming your inner critic into a caring voice by contrasting self-critique with supportive, parent-like guidance in tough moments, and continue this exercise until tomorrow.
Practice self-care by acknowledging your inner parts, resisting self-criticism, and patiently trying again when you forget, guided by good intentions and caring.
Explore what grown up means through transactional analysis of parent, adult, and child. Learn to stay present, set boundaries, negotiate, and connect with self and others in professional life.
Explore self-inquiry to measure how grown up you are from zero to one hundred, identify triggers, and learn to breathe and stay present as you transform inner parts.
Dialog with your inner parts: the critic, child, rebel, and grown-up to uncover the starting problem and integrate their messages.
Explore integration instead of division to reconcile your inner parts, moving from split personalities toward a single, relaxed, grown-up self.
Learn to integrate inner parts by honoring the inner critic, pushing energy, and the adaptive child, turning them into constructive forces for spontaneous, authentic responses.
Explore your inner grown-up and other parts, observe triggers, and ground yourself by taking notes; tomorrow you will learn how to negotiate with different parts for a union.
As a human being we are not one – we are split and fragmented.
One part has ambitions and wants success, the other part just wants fun and relaxation. One part wants to have time to deepen the relationship; the other part just wants time for himself – doing sports, sitting in front of the computer or whatever.
This course will bring you out of the often enormous tensions. Stop being frustrated because you are not achieving what you want! Get to know your different sides better with all their needs.
This is a program for 14 days in which you explore your inner pressure, your hidden anger, your secret wounds, your joy – and much more.
The course contains the contents of my 5-day seminar on this topic. It is a precious fruit of 40 years working with people.
You no longer exhaust your strength in struggles with yourself, but you use your power for your goals and wishes. Clarity, self-care and relaxation are natural consequences of this journey.
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“This course has saved me a lot of therapy time. Amazing and wonderful. Even Mr. Ulsamer's voice and the way he delivers the message is so calming and relaxing. Very easy to do tricks but yet they work very well. A huge THANK YOU!!!!“ Katalin Boros
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