
Dr. Bob shares five advantages from over 50 years in psychology. Learn unique models and four themes across two course sets: people and life skills, and leadership.
Dr. Bob promotes an individuality-driven, one size does not fit all approach, emphasizing process over product and centering you with a two-arrow model to maximize knowledge, impact, and value in life and business.
Explore seven life-skills courses to design your ideal life, gain independence from external pressures, understand your brain, relationships, meaning, purpose, success, happiness, and true self-knowledge.
Discover know thyself and develop personal wisdom by navigating defining moments, values-based decisions, and your unique role in the world.
Learn to know yourself and develop personal wisdom by stepping away from comparisons and choosing the life that works best for you, as illustrated by Michael Crichton.
Create personal wisdom by exploring insights through trial and error, designing yourself, and choosing how you think, feel, and act on your path to your unique self.
Discover how to cultivate personal wisdom by embracing your individuality and taking responsibility to live a wonderful life, free from undue influence by others, because your maker is you.
Cultivate your personal wisdom throughout life by embracing humility in the vast universe and large world, where many people are alike yet different, and create your best life.
Reflect on the vast universe and your finite time. Realize awareness is precious and you should participate in life and make yourself count.
Recognize that the world, a 4.5 billion-year home, is fragile and increasingly crowded, protected by a 60-mile atmosphere and a 7-mile oxygen layer that sustains life under attack by us.
Recognize your unique place in the world and stop chasing average by comparing yourself to others; focus on personal growth and becoming the best version of you.
Recognize that your middle life is your time to act, since birth and death are automatic. Take responsibility for what you decide, shaping who you are and what you'll become.
Discover your roots and the wind: the forces shaping who you are, and learn to make tough choices to become your true self with intensity and focus.
Know thyself and choose to be you by balancing your roots and the wind, examining external forces, and relying on your own perceptions to shape independence.
Identify and resist the tyranny of shoulds by choosing personal values that guide your life, rather than external expectations from roots, fashion, or peers.
Consider a human being hall of fame with two great accomplishments and twenty minor ones, then reject comparison and embrace living your values as your true measure.
Develop personal wisdom by learning to navigate your environment and relationships, coordinating with groups and loved ones while staying true to yourself and helping others do the same.
Develop personal wisdom by learning through experience and trial and error, living your values rather than heritage, and trusting yourself to harmonize with others.
Reflect on the power and roots of gender roles in culture, and evaluate their pros and cons in shaping male and female expectations for living your best life.
Recognize that everyone is your teacher, and observe what works to emulate it. Choose what to adopt for yourself and learn from others to become your best you.
Explore your roots and heritage as the wind that shapes you, and learn six rules, including the 8 billion rule and the deck of cards rule, as life heuristics.
Explore the 8 billion rule: while your view is valid for you, others see life differently. Listen to others, trust your own perspective, and grow wiser.
See that people resemble icebergs, with hidden hopes, memories, fears, and experiences beneath the surface. Take time to know others, challenge biases, and let your impressions grow more accurate.
Learn the $0.02 rule for managing judgment and ego, giving others credibility and maintaining emotional balance in daily driving and life.
Apply the deck of cards rule to life, viewing yourself as the three of hearts within a group, with value changing by the game and opportunities to grow through it.
The reality rules rule states that life isn’t fair; accept reality, adjust, and choose your attitude to move through hardship with hope, while recognizing reality will win if resisted.
Explore the snake rule, a fable showing that people tend to act like themselves; practice a considered response rather than knee-jerk reactions to design the right life for you.
Explore how defining moments reveal your character and values, guiding decisions that shape your best life. Learn to sense these moments as they occur and express your values clearly.
Explore three defining moments, starting with a slippery slope moment, as life events where your character is exposed and values emerge through choice.
Recognize slippery slope moments as small decisions that gradually define who you are. Stay true to your values to develop personal wisdom and live your best life.
Develop personal wisdom by navigating deal-with-it moments, making values-based, responsible choices under pressure, from honesty in theft to supporting friends, and handling wallets and favors with integrity.
Explore go for it moments as turning points where telling the truth, committing to a cause, and choosing your attitude shape personal wisdom and values.
Identify defining moments when facing a choice, examine your values, and choose wisely to own them and build personal wisdom for a better life.
Explore the cost of acquiring personal wisdom and the role of wonder. Learn to define and adjust your life theme to cultivate your best personal wisdom.
Know thyself by embracing the cost of personal wisdom: break from the herd, accept uncertainty, and decide what to be for yourself and others.
Observe deeply and define yourself through the tree, following Flaubert's advice to Maupassant to study a tree for hours, then apply wisdom through decisions and experience.
Embrace life as art to create yourself as you want to be, shaping a meaningful, independent self that contributes to welfare and personal wisdom.
Discover how wonder at ordinary moments enriches personal wisdom and everyday life. Marvel at the morning, the wind, sounds, and the night sky, and feel gratitude.
Explore a life theme as an evolving motto guiding decisions, while considering unconscious life scripts and the idea 'Within reason, I will do things my way'.
Explore how to expand your life toward limitless potential and become a perfect human being, with guidance toward developing personal wisdom and living your best life.
Define human perfection through three traits: care for self and others, admit and fix mistakes, and pursue personally meaningful goals. Reject flawless perfection and reflect on how students defined perfection.
Develop personal wisdom by caring for yourself and others through healthy choices, listening, volunteering, and honest self-reflection, step one of three toward becoming perfect.
Admit mistakes quickly, fix them as best you can, and move on. Forgive yourself when rectifying the mistake isn't possible and practice letting go to grow wiser.
Pursue three criteria in harmony: care for yourself and others, admit and fix mistakes, pursue meaningful goals. Move from before to after, chopping wood and carrying water along the path.
Discover personal wisdom, confront mortality, and find meaning and value in life while navigating the uncertainty wisdom brings, with constant vigilance and practical steps for today and your best life.
Explore how thoughts, feelings, memories, biases, and choices shape who you are, and learn to balance belonging with personal uniqueness to live a meaningful, full life.
Make deliberate decisions by recognizing small, important, and significant choices, explore options a, b, c, or d, and grow your decision-making to improve your life.
Mix seizing the day with dreaming as if you'll live forever, encouraging independent decisions, exploration, and living right now to build personal wisdom.
Discover how mentors and existential philosophy shape personal wisdom, drawing on Victor Frankel, Maslow, and French existentialism to embrace life's uncertainties; aim to create and live your best life.
You must define your own life path. If you're lucky it will good. If you are wise, it will be the right one.
WHAT STUDENTS ARE SAYING (AI): Students appreciated the course's ability to address personal development issues, particularly around identity and self-worth. The course was found to be insightful and engaging, effectively supporting learners in boosting their self-motivation.
This Course: LIFE SKILLS: "KNOW THYSELF," HOW TO DEVELOP PERSONAL WISDOM
By the end of this course:
You will be able to live, enjoy & share your UNIQUE life.
Life is not easy.
You have a burden unique to humans. The burden is you must figure out what is important. How well you choose determines the value of your life. This course will not focus on a single problem. It will give you the understanding and the tools to create a life unique to you.
Personal Wisdom will help you find true knowledge about yourself and what is important for your life. You will live your life from this new knowledge, rather than the haphazard accumulation of opinions, guesses and assumptions that have guided your existence until now.
If you want a life full of meaning, happiness, intimacy, fulfillment, compassion, joy and doing things of lasting value, you have come to the right place.
No one can teach you how to live your best, that must come from your experience, but this course, in as practical a way as possible, will help you make better sense of you and your world.
1. Personal wisdom is gaining the knowledge to live your unique life.
2. Your unique life will always be evolving.
3. You can never be sure you’re living your best life.
4. No one else knows what’s best for you.
5. Just about everyone is ready with an opinion.
Personal Wisdom will help you discover the secret to your life. Only your life, no one else’s. This is your opportunity to learn life skills, use them, and enjoy a meaningful life; one created for you, by you.
What makes this course different? I have spent almost sixty years seeking the secrets to living the ideal life. I help thoughtful/insightful people fulfill their potential by exploring significant life challenges. This course is based upon my book, Personal Wisdom, and my almost 60-year search for how to live a happy, successful and meaningful life. This course is focused on helping you discover what will work for you. By the end of this course, you will be as confident as humanly possible that you are living your life as well as humanly possible.
If for no other reason, your life is precious because it will end. Before it ends, whether this is a long time or all too brief, you decide how to define your life and what should be done with it.
A Set of Courses for Exceptional Lives
My LIFE SKILLS courses are ideal if you want to live a unique, independent life, separate from the herd. They’re for you if you seek a full and meaningful life but aren’t sure how to do that.
Life isn’t easy. How can you know with confidence you’re doing it right? You have searched, but don’t yet feel totally confident. A thousand books and courses offer a thousand ideas. My courses go a step farther. I don't tell you what to think, but what to think about.
My courses follow that old saying, "if you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day, if you teach him to fish, you feed him for a lifetime." I teach both skills and concepts. If you want both training and an education, this is the place, tools and ideas. Each course provides ideas to explore and skills to try out. You choose the topic and in about three hours or less, you’ll acquire advanced life skills, enabling you to build a life unique to you.
This set of courses is ideal for these topics: Personal Development, Life Purpose, Motivation, Communication Skills, Listening Skills, Relationship Building, Positive Psychology and Spirituality.