Leading From Within: Growth Mindset And Behavior Change

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I just want to welcome you. My name is O.B. Amaechi and you are here to join my e-course on the birds. This is a five week guide to self-actualization.

I grew up passionate about people, all people. I walked in many walks of life from being a Dean of culture at a very early time in my adult life, like right out of college to becoming a fashion designer, co owning and event company, and a lot more one thing that remained the same in everything I did was that I enjoyed helping people see the silver lining in all situations and never losing hope.

When it gets low, charge it up again and keep going. For me. There were always opportunities to help people in every industry I worked in and I was excited to do so.

No matter how we look at it, even if it is just one person in this world, we were meant for each other.

We of course, need to help ourselves before we can reach those people or that one person. And in this course, I will help you do this as well.

The benefits always outweigh the risk. When we decide to put more practice and discipline into who you are. I want to remind you guys all that have joined this course that you are totally in control.

So these five principles of verge will activate the elevated you. And this is what we all aspire to discover. We were meant to grow and growth always begins from within who we are.

So I want to encourage you to spend as much time as you can really assessing yourself, try your best to discover why the irritants of your life exists.

For an example, like why the new job opportunity seems so far, why your boss isn't giving you the promotion, why you enjoy certain people around you and not others.

Why you treat your mom with resentment? Why animals give you so much joy or why you find it hard to forgive others or yourself?

We will practice accountability because this will lead to results. Results will require a level of accountability and accountability breeds consistency, which is the bedrock of growth.

But don't worry. That was a lot of words, but I will help you with that. I will help you work out all the things that you can do to improve.

What you know is yours in life. I will help you work out all the things that you can do to improve.

About on the VERGE so this course is about self discovery in the area of care. This guide will help you discover the importance of caring for your needs the parts of you that you have failed to exercise self-care. We've have all failed in certain areas of our life and its important that we realize thats normal, we're human but having tools and resources to support those areas is what we will do in this course and hopefully it will open up your mind to hear things that you have never heard before or experienced things that you are like man ok i'm so glad i heard that again. Being on the verge begins with you and then branches off where that care that you give to yourself is then given to others.

Individualized Growth Goals (IGG)

It is always important to write out your plan and make it clear. This is what the IGG form will help you with. This will help you get clear on your purpose in a way that is giving of yourself and also how to make this purpose of yours attainable by having bitesize goals to get you closer each day to fulfilling your purpose.

It is important to fill this out without any restrictions. Do not think about what you do not have, only write about what you see yourself doing on this beautiful green earth, then create different missions for yourself. I love using missions rather than goals as it sounds like I am a 007 agent, confidently focusing on completing each mission, one at a time.

Transcript: Are you on the verge? What are you on the verge of? When you are on the verge. This means that you are close to something.

You are close to a breakthrough, heading in a particular direction. We are always on the verge of something, whether it be a blessing, a promotion, losing yourself, or finding yourself.

The thing about being on the verge of something is that we usually need a push to fully enter that thing.

This takes other people giving us a push, other times it means that we need to push ourselves. this course is for anyone who is on the edge of making the improvements to their life, that needs that little push to get them through The next five weeks will center around the intentional five verge.

My hope is that you will be on the verge of something that amazes and shocks you and then fully jumping into those findings for self discovery

by the end of the five weeks that we're here together, when creating this course for you, I had in mind people being on the verge of self-actualization seeing many people being very, very close to fully understanding their life by believing in who they are, when vibrating at their highest levels.

What I saw can be achieved by having a better understanding of the five guiding principles. They will serve as a reminder of how important it is for you to show up at your highest self and then take action.

We are on the verge of healing. We are on the verge of removing judgments. We are on the verge of learning.

We are on the VERGE of building connections. We are on the VERGE of loving, fully. We are on the verge of finding peace.

We are on the verge of producing more joy. The final push into these beautiful spaces will always be your decision.

The intentional five will give you the space to choose wisely and efficiently. now the acronym verge for the intentional five represents vulnerability, experiences, relationships, gratitude, and evaluation.

the five guiding principles that I just shared come from my book, the intentional five confessions of a disciplined thought. If you haven't purchased my book yet, you can do that@wakeupthesoul.com.

These principles are used as a guide to enhance your intent behind choices, leading to greater success in your personal life, and also in your work life too.

Each principle works within you when applied as a collective, realizing that each part of the intentional five is a necessary practice for holistic healing, ensure that when you look at these intentional five, do not look at them independently.

As standalone principles, So these five work together in order to help you elevate to the place where you're making better decisions, you're being more thoughtful about your decisions.

You're being more thoughtful about others that are surrounding you, and also about improving who you are as an individual. Vulnerability is the choice to extend yourself uncomfortably

In order to reach a greater outcome. Experiences is the choice to focus on experiences in your life that reminds you of your highest self. relationships, the choice to approach each person as if you were waiting to see them all week Gratitude, the choice to be ready and thankful for what the next day will bring before you even go to sleep and Evaluation the choice to assess yourself in every moment, without judgment towards yourself, or judgment against others, the framework that I'll provide to you guys is going to help you it's meant to be used before you finished the course, just anytime you feel like you're met with a So for vulnerability, the worksheet will support when needing to break cycles and getting out of your comfort zone.

Uh, I have an experienced worksheet. This will support when needing clarity of your self worth and past ideologies also have a relationships worksheet which will support any need to repair relationship.

The gratitude worksheet will support the need to show more gratitude, finding the time to slow down and give thanks. and lastly, the evaluation worksheet, which was support when you need to reflect on a situation.

these worksheets, you can download and fill them out, read through them. So you get a better understanding of how it can support any challenges you're going These are not self practices, weekly assignments that I'll be collecting, but at the same time, they're available to you to use whenever you'd like at your own disposal, And if it has helped you send me an email, let me know how it's worked for you.

If there's anything that you need modified, and we can work on that.