
Which competences a modern professional actually needs
The most popular competency models compared
Where certification fits in
The role of soft skills in professional success
Active listening as the first tool of influence
Communication that lands with the person in front of you
Empathy and how it changes what people tell you
Navigating an organisation you do not control
Influence and the courage to say the uncomfortable thing
Negotiating as a core professional competence
Informing people properly and what openness costs
Integrity as a precondition of being believed
Ethics in handling information others give you
Networking as a professional discipline, not small talk
Building relationships before you need them
Turning contacts into working alliances
Taking responsibility as a source of credibility
Providing advice people actually act on
Owning the outcome, not just the task
Acknowledging mistakes without losing standing
Willingness to learn as a visible behaviour
Building your own development loop
Critical thinking applied to business arguments
Situational decision-making under incomplete information
Judging when to push and when to wait
How to develop emotional intelligence
Influencing through logic versus influencing through emotion
Emotional intelligence and the quality of your relationships
The ability to resonate and what a resonant personality is
What emotional charging is
How to energise the people around you
The role of stress in how you come across
Recovery as part of the working cycle
How an emotionally engaged person behaves
What low emotional intelligence looks like at work
Assessing your own emotional intelligence
Components: self-awareness, positive attitude, social intelligence
The practical benefits of developing it
Awareness as the starting point of any change
How people actually change their behaviour
Building and holding a positive attitude
Moving from a negative to a positive mindset
Whether fear-based motivation works
The power of single-mindedness
Coaching with empathy and building rapport
The elements of an inspirational conversation
Building a clear image of your ideal self
Using feedback without being crushed by it
The cycles of life and where you are in them
The pyramid of life as a planning frame
Analysing the environment you work in
What outstanding leaders do differently
Building a shared vision of the future
Group social identity and social groups at work
How the process of personal change actually works
Choosing which competences to develop
The three development zones and how to use them
Summing up your personal development plan
The history of the field and the works of Carl Jung
The four classic personality type scales
How to test and how to read each type
The relationship between personality type and work
The history and logic of the methodology
How to run the test
How to work with each of the four types
DISC as a basis for adapting your approach
What makes this methodology different from the rest
How each personality type works
The weaknesses of each type
Recognising a type in conversation without any test
The core of Belbin's methodology and its typical roles
How to build a balanced team
The difference with the Hogan assessment
Where to get tested and how to read a report
What makes the Big Five different
Where to take the test
How to use the result in business
Comparison with the other methodologies
How it differs from other typologies
Where to get tested
How to work with the results
How to apply it in a business setting
This course contains the use of artificial intelligence.
The best idea in the room loses to the second-best idea argued by someone who knows how to argue. You have watched it happen.
What is going wrong right now
You are responsible for something you cannot instruct anyone to do. The developers report to another manager, the budget belongs to finance, the decision sits with a director who gives you eleven minutes. So you send a well-written document nobody reads, you explain your reasoning to someone who was never going to be convinced by reasoning, and you leave the meeting with a vague agreement that dissolves by Thursday. Then a worse proposal goes ahead because its author spent the week talking to the right people.
What changes after this course
You stop relying on being right and start building the conditions in which being right matters. You will know who to talk to before the meeting, what each of those people actually cares about, and how to frame the same proposal three different ways for three different types of person. You will hold your position when the first objection comes rather than retreating into politeness. And people will believe you, because trust is built deliberately here rather than hoped for.
Your instructor
Mike, the number one HR instructor on Udemy, with more than 1.6 million course enrolments and over 150,000 professionals trained. Holder of PHRi and SHRM-CP certifications and HRCI representative in more than 10 countries. Built the people function of the unicorn Preply and worked at Wargaming, Alfa-Bank and iDeals, where every result depended on people who did not report to him.
How the course is built
Influence rests on four things, and the course builds them in order. First, your own credibility: the competences that make people take you seriously, from listening and negotiation to owning mistakes and thinking critically under pressure. Second, your emotional footing, because nobody is persuaded by someone visibly rattled — self-awareness, regulation, rapport and the ability to run an inspiring conversation. Third, the person opposite you: MBTI, DISC, PAEI, Belbin, Hogan and Big Five, so you can recognise who you are dealing with and stop making the same argument to everyone. Fourth, the mechanics themselves: AIDA, SPIN, FAB, value propositions, storytelling, objection handling with LAER, and closing. The course then applies all of it to the two hardest everyday cases — giving feedback that changes behaviour, and resolving a conflict between people who have stopped listening — and closes with situational leadership.
What is included
• Lifetime access to all course materials
• Active instructor support in the Q&A section
• Udemy Certificate of Completion
• Practical assignments and real business cases
• A section with additional courses, tools and resources
Why start now
Every meeting where you were right and unpersuasive is a project that went the wrong way with your name on it. Organisations promote the people who can move others, not the people with the best documents. Enrol now and start the first lesson today.