
In this lecture you take one session apart stage by stage, you see where it quietly loses time, and you leave with a range and a reserve you can plan with instead of one hopeful agenda.
This course is built from six disciplines: training craft, facilitation, coaching, group building, conflict management and gamification.
The map of the course
A dictionary for reading lectures recorded for other audiences as training work
Three questions to ask after every lecture
A short self-diagnostic that shows which sections to watch first
Download the Session Timing Estimate and fill in one line after each lecture.
Structure, content, style, support and the difficulties
Dale's Cone — the learning pyramid
The formats and types of training that exist
How training effectiveness gets evaluated
Problematisation as the first stage of the cycle
Preparation before the day, and the optimal number of participants
What the room should look like, and why the breaks matter
How to design the programme itself
Visual material, and the timetable
The working styles a trainer can use
Reflection, conceptualisation, practice
A model for creating a training design
Introducing group norms, and warming a group up
Managing the acquaintance and role-distribution stages
Sustained group work, and closing the group
Facilitation against moderation, and dealing with objections
The structure of a session, and how to introduce yourself
Aphorisms, metaphors and parables
Setting individual aims for participants
The five rules for sub-groups, and how to end
What changes when the group is remote
Running webinars effectively
The technical side
Keeping contact with a group you cannot see
How it connects to how decisions actually get made
The basic principles, and the role of the facilitator
What it is used for, and what it is not
The single most important skill the job requires
The main stages of preparing
Formulating the goal so the session can succeed
Selecting who should be in the room
How to open
Keeping participants focused
Managing the group, and taking notes while doing it
Gathering information and generating ideas
Choosing priorities
Summing up what happened
Assigning an owner to every action
Evaluating the session
Handling force majeure and difficult participants
How a group actually reaches a decision
Maintaining the atmosphere
The exercises that work
Building the agenda and estimating timing
Facilitating online
Facilitating a large group
Working with an international group
The definition, and the research behind it
The core competencies of the approach
How it differs from every other way of moving someone
The GROW model and the wheel of balance
People have more in common than they appear to
People are curious and want to contribute
People grow inside relationships and act in their own interest
People live inside their own perception and define their own integrity
The balance wheel in practice
Questionnaires
The one-to-ten scale, and what it exposes
Checklists
Building the relationship that makes the rest work
The types of coaching
Powerful questions
The five-step model
Telling the truth, and clarifying
Discussing a problem without solving it for them
Hearing what is actually being said
A checklist for active listening
The elements of language people use
Identifying the language of the person in front of you
Speaking in it rather than in yours
Clean language, and why it matters here
What separates a powerful question from a merely open one
The difference between asking and interrogating
The framework, and the elements of a good question
Learning styles, question types, and what a good question produces
Creating a plan someone will actually follow
A model for implementing it
What delivering the message means in practice
Raising the bar without losing the person
The process of encouraging someone properly
Support, and focusing on strengths
Removing barriers rather than adding urgency
Marking wins
Adapting the approach to different people
Using it with senior participants
Running an effective one-to-one this way
Working with a whole group, and building it into a culture
What group building actually is
The stages of group development
The economic result, and the current research
Running an exercise for people who have just met, with ready examples
A step-by-step process for creating any group exercise
Diagnosing the group beforehand with a questionnaire
How an exercise improves how a group works
The types available, with ready exercises
Uniting the work of several groups
Working out which group needs this most
The options available
Ready exercises
What actually improves collaboration at a distance
Online options
Exercises for a hybrid group
Ready exercises
The problems that recur in any group
An exercise matched to each one
The GRPI model for effective group work
The four conditions for a group to work
The competencies a group needs
Where exercises stop being enough
This course contains the use of artificial intelligence.
Adults do not learn from being told. They learn from formulating, arguing, trying and getting it wrong in front of other people.
Knowing the subject is the smaller half
You know the material better than anyone in the room, and the session still goes flat. One person answers every question. Two others have not spoken since the introductions. Somebody was sent by their manager and is not pretending otherwise. After lunch the energy drops and does not come back. And at the end the feedback says "informative", which is the polite word for nothing changed — because you spent the day transmitting content to people who needed to produce it themselves, and no amount of subject expertise fixes that.
What this course covers
Forty lessons on running the room rather than knowing the material. The craft first: Dale's Cone, how effectiveness is judged, problematisation, the optimal group size, what the room should look like and why the breaks matter, programme design, the four-stage cycle of problematising, reflecting, conceptualising and practising, introducing group norms early, warming a group up, the acquaintance and role-distribution stages, facilitation against moderation, handling objections, metaphors, the five rules for sub-groups, how to end, and running it remotely. Then the session where the group produces the content: what facilitation is and the one skill it depends on, formulating a goal a session can actually reach, choosing who is present, holding focus, generating and prioritising, assigning an owner to every outcome, force majeure and difficult participants, alignment and atmosphere, timing, large groups and international ones. Then the thing that separates a facilitator from a lecturer — asking instead of telling: GROW, nine principles, the balance wheel, the one-to-ten scale, active listening, discussing a problem without solving it for someone, clean language, what makes a question powerful rather than merely open, raising the bar without losing the person, and encouragement that removes barriers instead of adding urgency. Then the group itself: stages of development, diagnosing it with a questionnaire before you start, exercises for people who have just met, for groups that do not mix, for remote and hybrid rooms, an exercise matched to each typical problem, and the GRPI model. Then conflict: how it escalates, the resolution algorithm, how the person running the room should react, assessing likelihood with a test, negotiation and mediation. Finally attention: game mechanics that work without a platform, recognition and progress, and moving learning online without losing the group.
Three blocks from a neighbouring audience
The group building, conflict and gamification blocks were recorded for companies rather than for trainers. The material transfers directly: stages of group development behave the same in a learning group as in a working one, a conflict in a training room escalates by the same pattern as anywhere else, and the game mechanics block ends on exactly the question this course asks — how to move learning online without the group falling apart. What a trainer takes from these is a library of ready exercises, a way to diagnose a group before the first slide, and an escalation algorithm for the moment two participants stop being polite.
Who is teaching this
I am Mike. I built the people system at Preply as it became a unicorn, and I have worked at Wargaming, iDeals and Alfa-Bank. More than 1.6 million students have enrolled in my courses across 185 countries, and over 150,000 specialists have gone through my programmes. I hold PHRi and SHRM-CP certifications and represent HRCI in more than ten countries.
What is included
Lifetime access to all 40 lessons
Active instructor support in the Q&A section
A Udemy Certificate of Completion
Working material: Dale's Cone, the training design model, the four-stage cycle, group norms and warm-ups, the sub-group rules, the facilitation preparation stages and closing structure, GROW, the balance wheel, the powerful question framework, the group diagnostic questionnaire, GRPI, the escalation algorithm and the game mechanics
Built around the difficult participant, not around the ideal one
Where to start
Think of the last session you ran and count how many minutes you spoke. Then count how many the group did. That ratio is what this course changes. Enrol now and start today.