
The ability to think is a great gift if it helps us to organise, plan, and reflect. But sometimes it develops into a repetitive cycle we can't seem to control.
This course is based on professional experience; I have been teaching the techniques you'll learn about here to my psychotherapy clients for 30 years. Perhaps more important, from the point of view of credibility, I have had reason to use them my self. It was following a personal tragedy that rumination and overthinking crept mack into my life, disturbing my sleep and making a bad situation seem infinitely worse!
That personal experience prompted me to put this course together, to share the proven techniques with you.
What begins as a perfectly reasonable process of assessment, turns into an endless cycle of worry.
This type of thinking is overwhelmingly negative, that's why it is a problem. When you start to see the pattern, you can start to do something about it.
Stop fighting with yourself. Noticing what's going on in your mind means that you can takes steps to redirect your thinking to more productive habits.
Interrupting is the first thought-stopping technique. When you've understood it, start practising Interrupting every time you notice an unwanted thought creeping into your mind.
Stepping away from your usual perspective can allow you to calm your mind and think more objectively.
Distraction is a powerful strategy that is a great way to take back control of your thoughts by, well, distracting them!
Disputing is a powerful technique. Take by itself, it can lead to a whole new way of dealing with intrusive thoughts.
Here's a practical technique that can, quite literally, be life-changing. There is a worksheet with this lesson, and a video in Lecture 18 that demonstrates one way of improving your breathing.
This lecture explains why you should beware of the company you keep to protect yourself from toxic negativity.
There are many things you can do to help you get control over how you think. Taking positive action by focussing on things you can influence, rather those you can't, is a key learning point here.
Human beings are social creatures. Social connection is important to us in ways we often don't consider; the effect goes deeper than the warmth we feel when we interact with people we like. Contact with others it improves our mental, physical and emotional wellbeing. Even casual contact with strangers (known by psychologists as weak ties)has a positive effect on us.
Studies have shown that talking about one's feelings and thoughts with others may help to prevent overthinking from occurring, or alternatively, to interrupt the overthinking cycle.
We give a lot of thought to improving our physical health through exercise, research now shows that flexing your 'social muscles' also has a beneficial effect.
So far this course has provided techniques to help you break the cycle of overthinking. This lesson includes lifestyle tips to support the work you are doing to take control of your mind. We all are familiar with the exhortation "to pray for a healthy mind in a healthy body". It serves as a reminder that our state of mind is firmly linked to our physical wellbeing.
Now you have all the elements you need to curb the overthinking habit. Revisit the earlier lectures regularly to remind yourself how it is done, practice regularly, and avoid trigger situations, particularly at the beginning of your journey to take control of your thinking.
A problem and a solution
Overthinking happens when you overanalyse or overthink a problem to a point where it seems impossible to move forward or find a solution. You can’t make a decision, nor take action… You are stuck in an endless cycle of rumination.
Instead of problem-solving, you dwell on an issue without finding a rational solution. It becomes an endless cycle of negativity that constantly plays on your mind.
It has been called Paralysis by Analysis, and it is overwhelmingly negative!
Overthinking is an unhealthy habit that typically causes more stress by focusing on the negative, dwelling on the past and worrying about the future.
Left to do its thing, overthinking will begin to affect your life in ways that hold you back and limit your opportunities.
But, it doesn't have to be like that. The ideas and techniques explained in this course show you how to break the cycle and train your mind so that you are in control of your thinking.
Contents
Obsessive and the problems it creates.
How to interrupt the negative overthinking cycle.
6 techniques to help take control of your thoughts.
Practical exercises to reinforce the learning.
14 concise video lessons.
Bonus resources and reading list.
Learning outcomes
Understand how overthinking can hold you back.
Gain new ways of thinking that put you in control.
Simple steps to boost confidence and mental wellbeing.
Practical techniques to break the overthinking habit.
What begins out as a perfectly reasonable process of assessment, turns into worrying about all the things you can't control, and how bad you feel.
Self-reflection, on the other hand, is a healthy and deliberate process of understanding. It leads to self-awareness, insight, and new perspectives.