
What I will take you through in this course is:
Before jumping in to work on your shyness it is really important to have an awareness of the cause of your shyness. It could be a memory a belief. Unless we know what the cause is we won't know what to work on.
Identify awareness as consciousness, recognition, realization, and perception to locate the triggering event of your shyness and the meaning you assign to it, often fear.
"What is necessary to change a person is to change his awareness of himself" Abraham Maslow
You can't change something if you are just angry with it and you just want to hit it, hide it, or avoid it. We need awareness with acceptance.
Step 1 is where in your body do you feel shyness. But also how do you feel it? It will be different for each person but it will be valuable for discovering connections to past events or beliefs that you hold for your shyness.
You observe events but your mind can delete, distort and generalise it. Unless you take control of your thinking you will be distorting reality to your detriment.
Identify bodily cues and triggers of shyness, map instantaneous mental processes across logic levels such as language, beliefs, memories, and attitude, and use this awareness to build confidence.
Set a clear, vivid goal for confidence; define what you want in life, and guide your conscious mind to steer the horse toward that destination.
Writing a goal is not just about making a statement, there are three move very important ingredients to make sure your goal will be achieved.
Now we need to bring the ingredients together so that the goal is well formed in our thinking.
To avoid disappointment with our goals it is important to be detached so that we are flexible to change.
Overcome shyness by surrendering negative feelings, recognizing the ego fueled by fear, and learning to be with emotions, letting go, and cultivating compassion and oneness with others.
Practice the circle of excellence by placing positive memories into a mental circle, color them, and step into them to boost confidence, while reframing painful memories.
Demonstrates the circle of excellence to access positive memories and resources. Builds confidence by infusing energy and a true self into challenging social moments.
Build awareness of your shyness and break the state of shyness by setting a confidence goal. Take action, use imagination, and apply letting go techniques to grow and shine.
Explore how to deepen relationships by prioritizing connection and practicing self-disclosure. Learn how warmth, small gestures of love, and communication improve intimacy and connections.
If you're like most people that have shyness, you probably noticed that it isn't just shyness that is the issue. It is the bitter disappointment with self when a potential relationship or business connection goes horribly wrong.
Let me show you exactly how Tools for Confidence will work for you - Firstly I will take you through a deep sense of awareness of your issue of shyness. Then we will look at the end result, your desire, your goal. Then we will look at tools to breaking shyness and tools for growing in confidence, this will be clearly demonstrated to you. Then the action steps to moving forward.